05-23-2010, 02:16 PM
(05-23-2010, 11:47 AM)Shannon Wrote: Interesting. Is there anything you can think of that would correlate them and explain the trigger? I imagine checked shorts to be rather amusing to look at, I don't now if I'd call that "peacocking", but I guess considering the guy in the hat (Mystery?) that would be something along those lines. lol
Anyway... I'm willing to betthe subs have a hand in it, even if it's not the whole thing, because you wouldn't be acting the way you do if they didn't, and that casual utter confidence is what lets you "pull off" shorts like that and still attract women. It's a sort of polarizer: most men would be laughed at, but you get compliments. I think that happens because your body language and attitude tell people that you deserve that response, instead of being laughed at. So the subs would have a hand in it... what triggers it, I'm curious about though, because it should happen all the time otherwise... unless the topic of what everyone says the same thing to you about each time it happens is different. That might be a sort of covergence of several subcycles of some sort.
I don't know if I was in any pictures last night, but if I was I'll upload one here so you can have a look at my shorts lol. They're actually cooler than they sound. Anyway, the only role the shorts played in all of this is they made me look more approachable. A guy wearing checked shorts, stereotypically, isn't going to be the kind of guy to bite your head of lol. The shorts where just a neutral ice breaker.
I also think the subs played a part in the whole thing.
I find that the Alpha that arises from Alpha male sub is anything but a showboating Alpha. The confidence, mindset, attitude and body language are all sort of like, "Because I know I'm the shit, I don't have the inclination to prove it to anyone". Basically a true alpha, not the cliche, overly-aggressive Alpha which has people follow him because he intimidates people into doing so - not because they actually want to. You off course all ready know all this though lol. This reserved Alpha ties in to how I was behaving with shorts on. I guess some people would wear them and be like, "I know people are laughing at me, but I'm laughing at myself too so it doesn't matter." This is a bit clownish, attention seeking and therefore not all that cool. The non-attention seeking attitude the Alpha sub installs means that silly clothes can be pulled of without coming across as looking attention seeking.
Once people had seen the shorts, rationalised I was approachable (I do need to work on being more approachable, but I'm hoping the Women magnet sub will help with this once I get round to using it) and approached me, they saw the alpha and started qualifying me. Obviously though the guy would've been qualifying me for a different reason to the women. The only thing that was strange and unexplainable about the night really was that the people where all qualifying me on one certain aspect of me - my looks - and not other aspects. Aura of Sexiness perhaps? Something in stage 5? I've always found the youthful, glow of TAA to to be partly visual, but I'm still at a loss as to why each and everyone focused indefinitely on my looks. I guess the shorts could've drawn attention to the visual. Who knows.
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung