05-19-2010, 01:24 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-19-2010, 01:35 PM by WildFlower.)
(05-18-2010, 05:17 PM)K-Train Wrote:(05-18-2010, 02:58 PM)Shannon Wrote: I am having a good time watching you discover this program.
I am too. It's always fun to watch someone's life change slowly for the better like it is now. Wildflower is gonna be a UNSTOPPABLE soon, I hope he doesn't take all the women!
For the first 3 stages I noticed no major difference to how women responded to me. The first stage I was out to do absolutely nothing anyone told, suggested, hinted or wanted me to do, whether male and female. This complete refusal to be even mildly influenced seemed to increase the respect from some of my close female friends, strangely it was mostly unanimously accepted and there was little change in behaviour from others other than that. The later 2 stages calmed this and it was business as usual till about the first or second week into stage 4. It was at this point I noticed that girls where definitely responding to me much more, not only that they where responding to me a lot harder than before. I'm noticing the beginning signs that a few girls (I mentioned one earlier in this thread) are becoming more and more obsessive about me - which isn't necessarily a good thing to be honest, because I neither want to get involved or hurt their feelings. But although I don't particularity like the situation I'm facing, I really, really like the change in mindset I have gained from the alpha sub that allows me to attract girls on a deeper level then previously. Where previously I could attract girls at relative ease, they are now generally attracted to me with the notion of becoming completely exclusive very quickly. Listening to Aura of Sexiness along side the Alpha sub has undoubtedly had an effect too.
My standards have completely changed. It's is unbelievable how dramatic that change has been. All of my ex's now appear unappealing to me and I don't know what I saw in them to begin with. People with bad attitude completely turn me of - not even the fake "I'm not attracted to her because she's got a bad personality" line you hear from guys often, this is a genuine "I don't even find her remotely, physically attractive", genuinely. I'm now very specific about what I want in a girl, and these specifics have changed undeniably over the course of stage 3 and 4. Compatibility, and being on the same wavelength are the qualities I value most in potential girl friends now.
It's very, very hard for external events to emotionally effect me too much. Other peoples opinions I will listen to and consider, but I will no longer trust what other people say with more authority than what I believe to be true myself. Not that I trust, and respect other people less, but I trust and respect myself more. I can think for myself with more confidence now.
I mentioned at the start of stage 4 I was noticing my body language being more open and Alpha. Well eventually after a week or two I stopped noticing this and forgot all about it. Yesterday a friend uploaded some pictures from a recent weekend, and I was taken back by how calm, cool and smooth my body language was in the pictures (I wasn't even feeling to great that day, but you wouldn't of thought it from the pics). Just a real laid back, brad pitt style body language. I looked in some older pictures and the contrast is undeniable.
Stage 4 was my favourite so far. I was half considering listening to it for another week or two before moving on as the last week has been totally solid, but on wards and upwards
“To be normal is the ideal aim of the unsuccessful.” - Carl Jung