(10-30-2018, 02:21 PM)wolverine_i_am Wrote:

(10-30-2018, 02:08 PM)MasterEnki Wrote:

(10-30-2018, 11:42 AM)wolverine_i_am Wrote: I get why people use tactics. Use whatever you like to succeed I guess. Although this is why I'm throwing tactics and techniques out the window now and doing natural game, cause I know many guys feel that self-worth issue, that it's their game attracting the girls, not their true self. I'm starting to notice now that I connect with girls better when I convey my true self, basically don't even try think of what to do, but just let my subconscious guide me. Conversations flow better and girls are more attracted.

In my experience, being myself has scared plenty of women off / lead to several women blocking me.

It hasn’t helped yet at attracting women.

In all fairness, I probably have never met the right kind of women for me. If I did meet someone that is ‘perfect for me’ then being myself would likely be extremely attractive to her.

But it did flush out the wrong kind of women. I doubt I would have been happy with some of the women that blocked me though.

As a 30 yo, with zero relationship experience and still a virgin (I have reached ‘1st base’ a few times though), being myself is the only viable option.

Being honest about my lack of experience might have scared off quite a few women, but one day a woman will really appreciate being the first of a 30+ yo.

Being a 30 yo virgin, who has never had a relationship, is a fetish to some women (according to some threads on the internet).

Some women say they wish they could meet a 30+ yo virgin and be his first, and that she would feel special being with someone that didn’t just throw away his virginity to some random escort / *****.


This also applies to Catman, and other older virgins also.


For the record, PUA hasn’t worked for me either.

But yeah... being yourself should work in theory, it makes logical sense.

From what I’ve read, there are many different kinds of women, and some would love you (when being yourself), some would hate you (when being yourself) and most would be unimpressed and not even notice that you exist (most women would see you as just another uninteresting / boring guy, just like the millions of others).

Almost every guy is boring to most women, but totally awesome to a rare few (from what I’ve read, and I’ve read thousands of threads about attraction and relationships).


I reckon almost every guy is a sexy fetish to at least one woman in the world.

I’m sure some women out there have a total Sarge fetish... salesman are quite sexy to some women...

I'm not sure if you understand what natural game is really about by the way. Look into Social Prime's philosophy. It's not your true self that is unattractive and scaring women away. In fact it is your damaged self that you're currently presenting to them, which is why you're struggling with women. We end up this way cause of years of childhood trauma and conditioning, so we act with fear and a thick mask to prevent us from truly connecting with women. This isn't your true natural self at all. You need to peel back those layers and eliminate the fear from holding you back (dont worry I have it too), so then you'll be who you're really meant to be - your true self. It's not about learning more techniques to become more attractive in my opinion. It's about unlearning and removing the negative conditioning, to uncover your true self.

Anyway I dont wanna derail Sarge's journal.

(10-31-2018, 11:37 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Just go out and meet as many women as possible then screen them for fast sex. The only downside is that after you shagged over 30 girls word gets around that your a bad boy. Which means girls who want boyfriends won't go near you especially if you live in a small city. So just keep that in mind.

(11-03-2018, 01:23 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote: Watching you guys get dates and stuff makes me realize I dont know how to set up dates. I'll need you guy's advice later in the future when shit will be happening.

(11-03-2018, 07:31 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:

(11-03-2018, 01:23 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote: Watching you guys get dates and stuff makes me realize I dont know how to set up dates. I'll need you guy's advice later in the future when shit will be happening.

Ray, you’ve been saying “I’ll be doing xyz later” for a while now.

I’d like to share with you one of my favourite zen quotes: “if not now, when?”

(11-02-2018, 10:47 PM)lano1106 Wrote:

(10-31-2018, 11:37 AM)thor2014 Wrote: Just go out and meet as many women as possible then screen them for fast sex. The only downside is that after you shagged over 30 girls word gets around that your a bad boy. Which means girls who want boyfriends won't go near you especially if you live in a small city. So just keep that in mind.

that is a very accurate description of how things work. I think that it would be interesting to elaborate on the screening process.

I guess that it basically comes down to escalate things fast and relentlessly and if she does not go along with you that pretty much disqualify the girl.

Correct?

(11-02-2018, 06:28 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: Would have had a measly pay check except one of my jobs was completed netting me a bunch of much needed commission cash. I’m still sick but am getting over it. I plan to take an Advil tomorrow and go out knocking. Ion, lots of online manifestations that aren’t going anywhere. I admit I’m more focused on making money right now than women but in the back of my mind I wonder if I’ll ever be able to balance both, seems like it’s always one or the other in terms of focus and results.