(12-25-2017, 04:03 AM)Determined Wrote: Can't see why you wouldn't have time if you pursued the other. Seems like you're just placing an artificial limit on yourself.

Best to go after success. There's a saying where I'm from; "when you chase girls you lose money, when you chase money the girls chase you".

The general pattern among the successful is that they work hard during the day and socialise hard in the evening. Striking that balance is key. They both fuel each other. Without working towards something, socialising becomes meaningless and without connecting with other people, work loses it's meaning.

When you choose one option in life, you aren't necessarily closing yourself of to all others. I think you may want to revise the black and white thinking that formulated this question in the first place.

(12-25-2017, 04:03 AM)Determined Wrote: The general pattern among the successful is that they work hard during the day and socialise hard in the evening. Striking that balance is key. They both fuel each other. Without working towards something, socialising becomes meaningless and without connecting with other people, work loses it's meaning.

(12-25-2017, 04:58 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:

(12-25-2017, 04:03 AM)Determined Wrote: The general pattern among the successful is that they work hard during the day and socialise hard in the evening. Striking that balance is key. They both fuel each other. Without working towards something, socialising becomes meaningless and without connecting with other people, work loses it's meaning.

Another way of putting it - "Work hard, Play hard." and the key is balance!

I've been reminded from time to time... "Don't eat where you poop." translation "Don't have sex at work." You'll find that mixing both, having sex at work achieves both goals. From my experience, as exciting as it is to almost get caught... there is a lot of drama when you have sex with a coworker.

Yes it can be done. Hope you enjoy the roller coaster ride!!

(12-25-2017, 05:48 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote:

(12-25-2017, 04:58 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:

(12-25-2017, 04:03 AM)Determined Wrote: The general pattern among the successful is that they work hard during the day and socialise hard in the evening. Striking that balance is key. They both fuel each other. Without working towards something, socialising becomes meaningless and without connecting with other people, work loses it's meaning.

Another way of putting it - "Work hard, Play hard." and the key is balance!

I've been reminded from time to time... "Don't eat where you poop." translation "Don't have sex at work." You'll find that mixing both, having sex at work achieves both goals. From my experience, as exciting as it is to almost get caught... there is a lot of drama when you have sex with a coworker.

Yes it can be done. Hope you enjoy the roller coaster ride!!

Of course on the road towards financial wealth, I'll spend more time at work than socializing but that's fine. 14-18 hours of work per day for grest success is worth it. But of course there will be days where I dont work so I can better focus on socializing. I think everything will work out.

(12-25-2017, 06:16 AM)Determined Wrote:

(12-25-2017, 05:48 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote:

(12-25-2017, 04:58 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:

(12-25-2017, 04:03 AM)Determined Wrote: The general pattern among the successful is that they work hard during the day and socialise hard in the evening. Striking that balance is key. They both fuel each other. Without working towards something, socialising becomes meaningless and without connecting with other people, work loses it's meaning.

Another way of putting it - "Work hard, Play hard." and the key is balance!

I've been reminded from time to time... "Don't eat where you poop." translation "Don't have sex at work." You'll find that mixing both, having sex at work achieves both goals. From my experience, as exciting as it is to almost get caught... there is a lot of drama when you have sex with a coworker.

Yes it can be done. Hope you enjoy the roller coaster ride!!

Of course on the road towards financial wealth, I'll spend more time at work than socializing but that's fine. 14-18 hours of work per day for grest success is worth it. But of course there will be days where I dont work so I can better focus on socializing. I think everything will work out.

The reason why I said "socialise hard" instead of "play hard" is because it's important to do so with other people. Playing hard can encompass a broader range of activities which don't necessarily include connecting with others in a meaningful way.

Just out of curiousity, in which field are you looking to work 14-18 hours a day?

(12-25-2017, 07:48 AM)Determined Wrote: Fair enough. I'm sure you're more than capable. Great men have achieved great success in the past without the help of subliminals but they do help the mind evolve faster. I've always used mine as tools to achieve whatever outcome I desire much more efficiently than I would without them. I've been having great success with MLS without having to journal about it too much, so don't ever feel you have to journal. The subs are for your benefit.

If you can find what motivates you, what fires your passion and have an eye for who you want to be/ what kind of life you'd like to lead in 5,10,20 years from now then you'll succeed without any doubt.

Good luck man

(12-25-2017, 07:48 AM)Determined Wrote: Fair enough. I'm sure you're more than capable. Great men have achieved great success in the past without the help of subliminals but they do help the mind evolve faster. I've always used mine as tools to achieve whatever outcome I desire much more efficiently than I would without them. I've been having great success with MLS without having to journal about it too much, so don't ever feel you have to journal. The subs are for your benefit.

If you can find what motivates you, what fires your passion and have an eye for who you want to be/ what kind of life you'd like to lead in 5,10,20 years from now then you'll succeed without any doubt.

Good luck man

(12-28-2017, 10:55 AM)Vincent_Vega Wrote: If you have money, you have women. Simple as that. Go for success. But that doesn't mean that you can't have hobbies and socialize with other people. Just your main focus should be success.

(12-25-2017, 03:22 AM)rayrocanaldo Wrote: Man, I want both. I want sex with beautiful women and an amazing social life but I feel like if I go after the money, I wont have time for my sex life. Which one should I work on ? And if I go after wealth will I have time for my sex life ?