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How to get rid of this problem. - IronSmooth - 03-28-2013
Hey guys.
Im listening to Asc 5g right now and im 2 weeks in, but im planning to go 90 days or more with this sub because i want it to stick long term and im curious to see what this thing can do at 8 plus hours with nothing else in the mix.
Ive read Mats journal i think, where he went 120 days but he didnt go full 8 hours and he had great results, so im stocked.
Ive had my ups and downs with this sub already, and currently im on a low point, but thats every sub after the first week, always a drop before the lift again and i understand it has to be done, resistance, trash and such.
When im going to finish this sub, im definitely getting another one because Shannon is a genius and awesome guy who obviously does more than any business man ive seen, to help any way he can. And since his subs work better than anything else out there, i will be getting multiple subs, AM and WM are definitely going to be purchased later.
That being said i got an issue i need some help with.
I was raised in a strict household where fun was not in the vocabulary to say the least, it was study study study and nothing else.
Im no nerd, i look nothing like one, i got a shaved head, i lift hard and weigh 190 at 5'10 with low bf. I started lifting 2 years ago and put on alot of mass and females notice that.
I have no problem going up to girls and talking to them, no approach anxiety sincei started lifting because they are obviously attracted to me, most of them will see me and always giving me subtle hits and gestures that they want to meet me, but i rarely act on it for one reason.
I have nothing to talk about, i read (red) books all my life and dont know much about small talk, when i converse with the ladies i tend be very down to business, serious subject i cant think of anything fun and lighthearted to say, i open up, they open up, but i want to be more interesting because its much more enjoyable that way.
Im not interested in sweet talking them to bed, thats not very difficult when you got a built frame and say the right words.
I just want to have something more interesting to say than the usual, the bottom line is
I dont know how to banter
I dont how to small talk
How do i change this?
If its my personality and cant be changed then im just gonna learn the hard way, but if Shannon has something in the store i would LOVE to know.
Thank you all.
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - Shannon - 03-29-2013
Hi, Iron, Thanks for the compliment.
The things in the store that you will probably get the most benefit from in this direction are:
- Overcome Approach Anxiety For Men (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/of-interest-to-men/overcome-approach-anxiety-for-men/)
- Improve Your Flirting Skills (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/adult-related-verified/improve-your-flirting-skills/)
- Woman Magnet (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/of-interest-to-men/woman-magnet-2-0/)
You have already indicated that you know about WM and will be doing it after AM, so in the mean time, you might want to look at Overcoming Approach Anxiety (read the script, it covers what you're talking about). Improve Your Flirting Skills is a 3G atm, but it also goes in the right direction.
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - IronSmooth - 03-29-2013
(03-29-2013, 01:05 AM)Shannon Wrote: Hi, Iron, Thanks for the compliment.
The things in the store that you will probably get the most benefit from in this direction are:
- Overcome Approach Anxiety For Men (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/of-interest-to-men/overcome-approach-anxiety-for-men/)
- Improve Your Flirting Skills (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/adult-related-verified/improve-your-flirting-skills/)
- Woman Magnet (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/of-interest-to-men/woman-magnet-2-0/)
You have already indicated that you know about WM and will be doing it after AM, so in the mean time, you might want to look at Overcoming Approach Anxiety (read the script, it covers what you're talking about). Improve Your Flirting Skills is a 3G atm, but it also goes in the right direction.
Thank you dear and awesome Shannon
Will get them both for sure.
If you happen to read this again..
Would "Socializing Is Just A Fun Game" be a nice addition?
How would you say it will help my social skills? (as it states)
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - ShanghaiKiwi - 03-29-2013
Yeah thats the one I was thinking of when I read your post - however I can't say I've tried it out
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - IronSmooth - 03-29-2013
(03-29-2013, 03:32 AM)brad1984mason Wrote: Yeah thats the one I was thinking of when I read your post - however I can't say I've tried it out
Thanks Brad
Cant seem to find any logs either..
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - Shannon - 03-29-2013
(03-29-2013, 01:51 AM)IronSmooth Wrote:(03-29-2013, 01:05 AM)Shannon Wrote: Hi, Iron, Thanks for the compliment.
The things in the store that you will probably get the most benefit from in this direction are:
- Overcome Approach Anxiety For Men (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/of-interest-to-men/overcome-approach-anxiety-for-men/)
- Improve Your Flirting Skills (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/adult-related-verified/improve-your-flirting-skills/)
- Woman Magnet (http://subliminal-shop.com/categories/of-interest-to-men/woman-magnet-2-0/)
You have already indicated that you know about WM and will be doing it after AM, so in the mean time, you might want to look at Overcoming Approach Anxiety (read the script, it covers what you're talking about). Improve Your Flirting Skills is a 3G atm, but it also goes in the right direction.
Thank you dear and awesome Shannon
Will get them both for sure.
If you happen to read this again..
Would "Socializing Is Just A Fun Game" be a nice addition?
How would you say it will help my social skills? (as it states)
Socializing Is Just A Fun Game could also be useful, but you seem to want to flirt. SIJAFG is less useful specifically for flirting, but definitely can be useful. Reading the script sample, it should be obvious how it will affect your social skills. It makes socializing a lot of fun, and as such, it becomes something you enjoy, and seek out. You relax, you have fun, you get more experience with it, and you don't take it seriously.
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - IronSmooth - 03-29-2013
I shall buy that one too then
RE: How to get rid of this problem. - Shannon - 03-29-2013
Just remember the limits on which ones can be used together and such. No point in getting them if you can't benefit from them.