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Overcoming Fear - Let's see what happens - P.O.G - 02-04-2023
Hi All, there's a 99 percent chance I'll be starting this sub over the weekend. Ironically I've always had fear to start using this sub, based on how it may change my personality and how I behave. I'm still scared to use it, but think it could be good for me. Bear in mind I'll stop using the sub immediately if OED or anything of that nature looks like it'll be released.
The main fears I aim to get rid of are
- Mice and rats. I've always been scared of them since I was a kid. It's a crippling fear for me. I see a rodent, I take off running. I've moved out of houses before because I've seen a mouse in them. Really hope to get rid of this.
- Fear of public speaking. I'm terrified of speaking in groups or in groups that of people that I don't know. Also terrified of delivering presentations. The majority of my job is leading on calls and meetings, and I'm a wreck before and during each meeting. I literally have to prepare a word for word script before each meeting, as I can't seem to think off my feet or recall information very well when nervous or under pressure. Currently working from home so this is feasible, but once meetings are in person, it won't be good for me.
- Speech. I tend to struggle to get my words out, and stutter sometimes. This has only been apparent over the past 10 years if I remember correctly, and it's apparently a fear based response. Hopefully this resolves that issue.
- Nervousness in some social situations, especially around new people. I can fake being confident, but I'd like it be natural, and like to be much more relaxed.
- Any improvements with anything OED related.
RE: Overcoming Fear - Let's see what happens - P.O.G - 02-04-2023
Is the 20 clicks out of 30 for a Google phone recommended through headphones? I usually listen to subs using wired headphones through my phone.
RE: Overcoming Fear - Let's see what happens - AmpersndThe2nd - 02-04-2023
Good on ya! Overcoming Fear is the subliminal I will put my children on when they turn 18 (when I eventually do have children).
I can't overstate the benefits you'll experience from this; deeper layers of fear get stripped away without you noticing.
And it's honestly the "mature grown up" subliminal to run in my opinion; that would go alongside the Emotional Healing sub and Shame/Guilt removal sub.
I've done 5 months on OF v.3 and 6 months on OF v.4. You're on the right track!