(07-25-2016, 11:23 AM)Steven Wrote: Shannon,

I wanted to give you another observation. Since starting this DSMI series, I've seen tongue displays from women go from almost never to somewhat common. Women biting their tongues, licking their lips, sticking their tongues out at me, protruding their tongues, and they do it as they are talking with me. These are just women who work at stores I go to. I really don't know them at all. It just seems out of context.

I don't know what to make of it, but it's something that's happening much more frequently.

Also, this healing module that you put in seems to be working hard overtime on me. I'm feeling very introverted and uninterested in socializing much. I've also had more social anxiety since starting v2.2 than I've had in years. I'm guessing that's a sign the module is working because I really don't have any other explanation.

(07-25-2016, 08:21 AM)Ricardo Wrote:

(07-24-2016, 04:02 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-24-2016, 01:27 AM)Ricardo Wrote: Of course the only people that come out with the "women don't make you happy" bs are always the ones who have women in their lives. Try living without your wive's, girlfriends or what have you, for say the next 20 years, then make the same statement.

The only people who come out with that "women don't make you happy BS" are the people who have figured out what you guys who are miserable without women haven't, and we have women specifically because of it.

Here's how it works.

When you seek outside yourself for what you must find within yourself, you fail. When you seek inside yourself for what comes from within you, you succeed.

This is also why you hear people saying that it's when you stop looking that you find love. It's because you stopped seeking outside yourself for what must come from within you, and once you understand and do that, it is naturally available to you.

I have spent years and years on end alone and frustrated. Now I have women in my life because as a consequence of those experiences, I chose to seek within myself for what I need to get from within myself instead of playing the game of seeking it from someone else.

Seeking outside yourself for what you need from within you results, always in the following:

1. Having a harder and harder time accomplishing what you're seeking, because
2. it makes you move AWAY from the real source of what you seek and
3. this makes you desperate, and
4. it makes you appear and act desperate, which results in #1.

Until you guys GET this, you will ALWAYS have the mindset that restricts, limits and repels what you THINK you want from outside yourself.

Until you guys GET this, you will NEVER be truly happy.

But hey, what do I know. I've only achieved what you want, from where you are.

Yeah, but are you still content enough to go without females for the next 20 years?

(07-25-2016, 11:23 AM)Steven Wrote: Shannon,

I wanted to give you another observation. Since starting this DSMI series, I've seen tongue displays from women go from almost never to somewhat common. Women biting their tongues, licking their lips, sticking their tongues out at me, protruding their tongues, and they do it as they are talking with me. These are just women who work at stores I go to. I really don't know them at all. It just seems out of context.

I don't know what to make of it, but it's something that's happening much more frequently.

Also, this healing module that you put in seems to be working hard overtime on me. I'm feeling very introverted and uninterested in socializing much. I've also had more social anxiety since starting v2.2 than I've had in years. I'm guessing that's a sign the module is working because I really don't have any other explanation.

(07-26-2016, 06:20 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-25-2016, 08:21 AM)Ricardo Wrote:

(07-24-2016, 04:02 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-24-2016, 01:27 AM)Ricardo Wrote: Of course the only people that come out with the "women don't make you happy" bs are always the ones who have women in their lives. Try living without your wive's, girlfriends or what have you, for say the next 20 years, then make the same statement.

The only people who come out with that "women don't make you happy BS" are the people who have figured out what you guys who are miserable without women haven't, and we have women specifically because of it.

Here's how it works.

When you seek outside yourself for what you must find within yourself, you fail. When you seek inside yourself for what comes from within you, you succeed.

This is also why you hear people saying that it's when you stop looking that you find love. It's because you stopped seeking outside yourself for what must come from within you, and once you understand and do that, it is naturally available to you.

I have spent years and years on end alone and frustrated. Now I have women in my life because as a consequence of those experiences, I chose to seek within myself for what I need to get from within myself instead of playing the game of seeking it from someone else.

Seeking outside yourself for what you need from within you results, always in the following:

1. Having a harder and harder time accomplishing what you're seeking, because
2. it makes you move AWAY from the real source of what you seek and
3. this makes you desperate, and
4. it makes you appear and act desperate, which results in #1.

Until you guys GET this, you will ALWAYS have the mindset that restricts, limits and repels what you THINK you want from outside yourself.

Until you guys GET this, you will NEVER be truly happy.

But hey, what do I know. I've only achieved what you want, from where you are.

Yeah, but are you still content enough to go without females for the next 20 years?

I think that's kind of a moot point, since I get it from having gone through that stage and outgrown it. If it took you 20 years, then you're wearing your failure like a badge of honor when you really need to just look at what you're doing and change it.

I can go for however long without females, either romantically or sexually. I prefer not to, but I am perfectly capable of being alone and happy.

(07-24-2016, 04:02 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(07-24-2016, 01:27 AM)Ricardo Wrote: Yeah, but are you still content enough to go without females for the next 20 years?

I think that's kind of a moot point, since I get it from having gone through that stage and outgrown it. If it took you 20 years, then you're wearing your failure like a badge of honor when you really need to just look at what you're doing and change it.

I can go for however long without females, either romantically or sexually. I prefer not to, but I am perfectly capable of being alone and happy.

(07-31-2016, 09:31 AM)Steven Wrote: Shannon,

Less anxiety. More urge to be social. Feel like I might be coming out of the healing a bit. Less introverted, but still not as social as I was 2 months ago.

The other night I went to a party. Long story short, something happened that I've never done before. I may have had an autopilot moment or two. I started telling this woman I just met at this party how hot I thought she was and what I'd like to do with her. She looked completely normal about it. She smiled really big, like one of those genuine happy smiles like I made her week or month. But then it was like she caught herself enjoying it too much and did the "I don't know you well".

Also, I made out with her. I never did that before either making out with a woman I just met. By the time I was kissing her I still didn't realize I was doing it because it just felt normal. At first, she refrained from turning to me when I leaned in and made some noise like a sigh or something, but when I touched her cheek she turned to me. And by the second kiss she tried slipping me half her tongue! (There are those tongue display type presentations I keep getting.) I was a bit surprised she tried to tongue me, but I went with it. Then I stopped when she did the "I don't know you well" and stiffened up. But after that she was MUCH more affectionate and friendly. She gave me lots of compliments. We kissed a bit again later, but then she stiffened and did the "I don't know you well" again. So I stopped and left soon after that.

Perhaps this is another DMSI moment.

That night was a bit jumbled in my head because there were a number of times when I was thinking "I can't believe I'm saying that" or "I can't believe I just did that".

PS This post is NOT advice to go up to a woman you just met and start telling her how hot she is or what you want to do with her or start making out with her.