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RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - LionKing - 02-06-2015
Not sure about stamina, but I do remember not being satisfied with my drive towards the end of AM6, which was one of the reasons I went for SM. I'll take a week off after this final stage and report how it affects my energy levels. As it happens I'm seriously tired today, can hardly keep my eyes open
New stage, lots of listening hours.
Stage 5, Day 22 - Shawn - 03-02-2015
Time for a quick update. This stage seems to make me more solid on the one side, but it also sucks a lot of energy. The result is tiredness and low sex drive. Neediness is as low as never before. There is also a strange kind of resistance some days. It's like I am avoiding to listen to the sub, don't know how to describe better.
I had a date on the weekend. She was very cute and the time with her was cool. I didn't feel much pressure or something like that. It was very comfortable. I am just hoping it wasn't TOO comfortable. However, I don't even care that much about becoming just friends with her. Even if I have got other things in mind
. There is another girl I wanted to meet but haven't until now. She said she is out of town. I didn't have the impression that it was an excuse, but who knows. Had a few more online matches but wasn't interested in. About a half of the stage is done. I had to stop and do MIR for five days, so I have to add about eight days.
Stage 5, Day 33 - Shawn - 03-13-2015
Time for an update again. Since my last update I was thinking more about my finances and becoming an entrepreneur than about women. I also did some research at this topic and I am trying to figure out what can I do in best case. I know, I am doing SM3 and there should be more about women than business, but for some reasons it is not.
When it comes to women I can't tell much here. Get still looks and smiles from women but cold approach seems still difficult. On the other side my motivation to do the approaches is very low at this time. If you take these two things together it is not a miracle that not much happens here.
Oh, I forgot one thing at my last update. I was taking an exam and there was a girl from another study course. She sat to my right. I noticed that both her feet were pointing towards me. Shannon said somewhere this happens if women are attracted. However, it looked ridiculous. But than it becomes more interesting, because after some time her whole body pointed towards me. And since I never saw her sitting this was in a lecture I think she must be really attracted. Next month the new semester begins. I think I have to really make something out of this.
I talked to the girl I had the date with. Well, she found it really nice but isn't really interested in something more than friends - at least for now. Like I said I don't care, because I am not in love with her nor I am as much attracted that I really want her that much. Maybe we can really become friends. Maybe she will become a good Winggirl
. Have still some days to do because of MIR at this stage. So far for now.
Stage 6, Day 16 - Shawn - 03-31-2015
Half time at stage 6. I am noticing girls start talking to me. For example few day ago my neighbor started talking to me and told me about her vacation while I went out of my house. She never said more than hello in all the years I am living here. So the turn from "you approach her" to "she approaches you" seems to work. Unfortunately it looks like I can't do anything out of such situations. Maybe some sort of fear, because in the past I realized that I can flirt with a women I already know. So maybe my comfort level here still isn't enough. Having not enough time and money to practice don't make the things better. As well as having not enough energy. At begin of this stage my sex drive went up again, but now it hits the bottom. This is pretty much frustrating.
Also I had irrational fear and thoughts about the AP code. I know that I purchased all subs legally and I didn't give them away as well as I didn't let listen them to other people while I don't (maybe if I was out to the toilet and someone could hear it, but that's not something intentionally), but the thoughts are still there. Hope I come over it because it drives me crazy.
So still a bit more than two weeks to go. I don't expect something big happening anymore, but who knows.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - Inconceivablezen - 03-31-2015
SM3 is like godmode for your social life. The new company I've been working at for just a week and a half, already trusts me to send new applicants.
Really takes care of the social side of things, and I can see Sex Magnet helping in the area of the social life.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - JackOfHearts - 03-31-2015
(03-31-2015, 04:13 PM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: Half time at stage 6. I am noticing girls start talking to me. For example few day ago my neighbor started talking to me and told me about her vacation while I went out of my house. She never said more than hello in all the years I am living here. So the turn from "you approach her" to "she approaches you" seems to work. Unfortunately it looks like I can't do anything out of such situations. Maybe some sort of fear, because in the past I realized that I can flirt with a women I already know. So maybe my comfort level here still isn't enough. Having not enough time and money to practice don't make the things better. As well as having not enough energy. At begin of this stage my sex drive went up again, but now it hits the bottom. This is pretty much frustrating.
Also I had irrational fear and thoughts about the AP code. I know that I purchased all subs legally and I didn't give them away as well as I didn't let listen them to other people while I don't (maybe if I was out to the toilet and someone could hear it, but that's not something intentionally), but the thoughts are still there. Hope I come over it because it drives me crazy.
So still a bit more than two weeks to go. I don't expect something big happening anymore, but who knows.
I don't understand why people who buy their subliminal are afraid of the AP code. Do they know that the subliminal work even when you pirated it. So there are absolutely no reason to be afraid if you bought the sub. Because even you pirated it there is no reason
This is the most misunderstood stuff
because it's not logical. Why are you afraid, there is absolutely no risk.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - GlaizenGold777 - 03-31-2015
(03-31-2015, 11:27 PM)Alpha360 Wrote:(03-31-2015, 04:13 PM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: Half time at stage 6. I am noticing girls start talking to me. For example few day ago my neighbor started talking to me and told me about her vacation while I went out of my house. She never said more than hello in all the years I am living here. So the turn from "you approach her" to "she approaches you" seems to work. Unfortunately it looks like I can't do anything out of such situations. Maybe some sort of fear, because in the past I realized that I can flirt with a women I already know. So maybe my comfort level here still isn't enough. Having not enough time and money to practice don't make the things better. As well as having not enough energy. At begin of this stage my sex drive went up again, but now it hits the bottom. This is pretty much frustrating.
Also I had irrational fear and thoughts about the AP code. I know that I purchased all subs legally and I didn't give them away as well as I didn't let listen them to other people while I don't (maybe if I was out to the toilet and someone could hear it, but that's not something intentionally), but the thoughts are still there. Hope I come over it because it drives me crazy.
So still a bit more than two weeks to go. I don't expect something big happening anymore, but who knows.
I don't understand why people who buy their subliminal are afraid of the AP code. Do they know that the subliminal work even when you pirated it. So there are absolutely no reason to be afraid if you bought the sub. Because even you pirated it there is no reason
This is the most misunderstood stuff
Absolutely correct!
Mr. Anderson, you're just too afraid. Cool down, man.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - Shawn - 04-01-2015
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Stage 6, Day 23 - Shawn - 04-08-2015
Time for an update. Last weekend I almost got laid. Just "almost" because I refused to sleep with her. There were good reasons not to do so and I don't want to mention all details beside one. While being with her I had thoughts about her getting pregnant. Sure, maybe it was just another irrational fear, but the thing is, I never was concerned about a woman getting pregnant to such high degree. This make me think that Shannon's pregnancy & STD protection within SM let my spider sense tingle. However, I cannot be sure about that. The other thing is, I didn't really felt fear in that situation but it was somehow uncomfortable. So it made it easy to refuse sex at all. Probably there are still some issues with the sex thing.
Besides of all that I feel pretty good and relaxed but also really tired. Today while being out of house there was a girl with her bf. There were paying for something (at least I think so). As I come closer she looked at me and smiled. After paying they went away, but the girl looked back at me and smiled again. Her bf didn't notice it so far. She was a really cute one.
After the last few days I think I can already write a pre-summary. Here is it:
1. SM works
- The story last weekend is a strong indication for me, because it never happened before that a woman was trying to seduce me. And I also didn't expect a woman trying to do so in a so direct and bold way. I don't think it's a coincidence. The other things SM did for me are: Killing a BIG amount of neediness, don't care about women so much, making me more approachable and social to people in general, reduced fear of sex and women. These are the really noticeable things for me.
2. I still have some issues that prevent me from experiencing the full benefits from SM
- It looks like there is still some fear, discomfort and insecurity towards women and sex, as well as self sabotage (this is probably a big one for me). I think my results could be much better without these problems. Possible solution: EPRHA
3. I am not yet that (quality) Alpha Male I want to be
- It means you attract what you are. According to the perfect lover attraction within the subliminal I am attracting women who are still below my conscious imagination of a perfect lover (even if the looks get better). So I think I need two more runs AM6 to become what I want to be (well, maybe we get AM7 with 5.5G technology
). Solution: AM6So, should you rung SM3 after a single run AM6? Well, it depends. If you already were at a good level before AM6 or if AM6 gives you really great results then YES. If you weren't as good before running AM6 or just got poor results then MAYBE. Maybe because you probably don't get the results you want but you probably will still improve. Look at me, I didn't become a real sex magnet, but the decreased neediness and the improved socialization made it still worth running this program. But if you really want the full benefits you should lay a really good foundation with EPRHA and AM6. I would really like to run WM, but I have to make sure to get better foundation. So my next sub will be EPRHA (just hoping the improved version will be available) and then probably a second run AM6. So far.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - Womanizer - 04-08-2015
You will be Allright , just because you didn't get laid or as much as you wanted to doesn't mean you aren't a sex magnet. Chasing women is alot of work and it cost alot time , energy and money. I personally don't believe in approaching 1000 women to beat approach anxiety , but approaching ones that you think you might like. But who knows maybe you're right.
Stage 6, Day 26 - Shawn - 04-10-2015
Had a major realization today. It looks like I have got the "I don't need anybody"-attitude within, which makes me reject women (and people in general). I think it's from my childhood where I heard lot of the "men are strong", "men don't cry",... stuff. Probably it's also a reason for my self-sabotage. However, I felt a really BIG relief afterwards. Maybe it helps me to be even more open to people now.
EDIT: Looks like this is my post number 500. This means I have been much more active here than in all the other boards I am member. Probably more than in all other boards together.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - Shannon - 04-10-2015
The guys who women will go after and try to seduce are the ones who really, REALLY attract and arouse their interest. Which ones are those? Regardless of what she says, what she will almost always DO is go for the guys who just... don't... care. The IDGAF attitude is like crack for high value women, and the higher she rates on the hottie scale when you hit her with it, the more intrigued and interested she will typically become, in my experience.
Imagine, a ten who gets guys attention all day long. Every day. Most guys don't have enough self confidence to even talk to her, and she's used to a lot of the guys who do come up to her actually shaking as they (try to) talk to her. She's only confidently approached by two types: Alphas (extremely rare) and a**holes (99.99% of the guys she encounters who approach confidently).
She appears to be attracted to the a**holes, but she's not: she's attracted to men who project themselves as being on (or slightly above) her level of value. She's looking for the man who isn't impressed by her stunning good looks, because he's the guy who has other major options, and that, her genes tell her, is the alpha, and the alpha is who she needs to breed with.
One of the biggest signs that a man is alpha? Not really noticing, paying much attention to, or seeming very impressed with the hottest woman in the room. Her. And this is why the IDGAF attitude interests her. And partly why the SM3 can induce that attitude.
Could it be resistance, etc? Yes. But it could also be you developing higher value responses. Give her the signal that you're higher value than she is because you have multiple options as good looking or better than she is, and she will see that extremely rare man who she just cannot ignore. Then, she will start approaching you. No matter how ood looking she is, and no matter how good looking you are.
But, you have to pull it off right, and that will vary depending on your results in her instant-assessment. If she instantly assesses you to look lower value than she believes herself to be, your actions, attitude, body language, sense of humor and such will be critically important to interesting her and changing her mind about your actual value. Such a man must approach while interacting in an interesting way (keep her interested enough to have a chance to demonstrate his high value to her in other ways) while not giving any signal of sexual or romantic interest or attraction, as she expects.
The story would be very different if he is also a 10, or if she perceives him to be of better looks, higher status or higher value than she is. That man can pretty much completely ignore her and she will either seek him out, or possibly be intimidated by him and instead signal interest, but not approach for fear of getting shot down.
The higher value a woman is, the more afraid she secretly is of being shot down, because she has had no need to approach, and is used to a steady diet of positive responses and comments/compliments to sustain her self image. That is why a "neg" can work wonders with a 10, although these days, it must be a natural one and not a fake one, because women learn quickly in order to defend themselves from those who would prey on their emotions just for a night of fun.
In any case, there are other possibilities here.
RE: SM3: Becoming a Sex Magnet - Shawn - 04-11-2015
Hm, interesting. I was thinking that this attitude is something from the past, because the moment I realized it felt like it is something that separates me from people. But what you describe makes also sense. An attitude developed while doing SM3 and went over the edge will become balanced at stage 6 - where I am actually. But whatever reason it was, it feels good now. Thanks for your input Shannon.
Stage 6, Day 27 - Shawn - 04-12-2015
Had a dream tonight where a girl was really interested in me but always found an excuse for not taking things further. She ended up kissing another guy. I didn't feel jealous in this dream.