(11-20-2018, 07:17 AM)ncbeareatingman Wrote:

(11-19-2018, 05:32 PM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-19-2018, 04:41 PM)KingDavid93 Wrote: After a couple weeks on USLM3 now I feel much lighter physically, my mind is much clearer and I feel the urge to stand up straighter

I’ve also noticed bouts of fatigue and soreness and I find myself sleeping 3-5 hrs longer than normal and still waking up a bit groggy.

The former is the result of what you have accomplished with the FRM. The latter is the result of what you are doing to make the FRM achieve its goals.

Over time, the former will be improved and the latter will fade away as the "hard work" is finished up.

The FRM is no joke, it is very demanding, and it is so because to accomplish what it is trying to do, it has to be. V4 is going to make v3.x look like a piker in comparison, and that may include being even more demanding of energy.

My goal is to make it work so fast that there is little to no inconvenience. So if v4 does what I have designed it to do, it shouldn't take very long at all to accomplish its goals. The idea is to knock it out too quickly to be inconvenient.

Dayuummm, that some serious programming ya got going there Fella! wow.V4.whew!
been dying to ask this question: Once UMS comes out would I Need a break from USLM3 V3...or more than Likely I could just sail on in to it, without necessarily taking a break from one to start the other??? Similar to what we did from USLM2 to USLM3?

Quote:Might it also include, an Aura of Success or money attractor in the energy field?

(11-20-2018, 08:22 AM)whome Wrote: I just finished the 35 day cool-off from my DMSI 3.2 run that didn't go far, and have been waiting for the new DMSI with FRM. However, I've been feeling a slow slide down into bodily pain/grief, which is, AFAIK, very fear-driven, and given that DMSI 3.3 is still a while away, I'm now wondering if USLM3 is a better option.

The notion of being sexually irresistible is tempting, but I could live without it. My fears/terrors are in the area of interacting with people and expressing myself, so perhaps if I pick my goals for USLM3 very carefully? If I pick "I keep encountering beautiful women who want casual but meaningful relationships" and "I find surprising connections with people I meet", then can I indirectly aim the FRM at removing the fears that I want it to?

The only thing that is really worrying me is that doing this is a three-month commitment, and at that point I'd probably jump to the new LTU and not get to play with DMSI, but right now it feels like the pain is pushing me to take some action and get started rather than wait.

(11-20-2018, 08:48 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 08:22 AM)whome Wrote: I just finished the 35 day cool-off from my DMSI 3.2 run that didn't go far, and have been waiting for the new DMSI with FRM. However, I've been feeling a slow slide down into bodily pain/grief, which is, AFAIK, very fear-driven, and given that DMSI 3.3 is still a while away, I'm now wondering if USLM3 is a better option.

The notion of being sexually irresistible is tempting, but I could live without it. My fears/terrors are in the area of interacting with people and expressing myself, so perhaps if I pick my goals for USLM3 very carefully? If I pick "I keep encountering beautiful women who want casual but meaningful relationships" and "I find surprising connections with people I meet", then can I indirectly aim the FRM at removing the fears that I want it to?

The only thing that is really worrying me is that doing this is a three-month commitment, and at that point I'd probably jump to the new LTU and not get to play with DMSI, but right now it feels like the pain is pushing me to take some action and get started rather than wait.

You would have to be VERY careful about phrasing your goals, because the subconscious is absolutely literal. For "I keep encountering beautiful women who want casual but meaningful relationships", you have a contradiction... casual is not meaningful. It is casual. So you're likely to end up with relationships that are self contradictory and which drive you crazy. Or women who are and do...

And for "I find surprising connections with people I meet", what does that have to do with sex and relationships? You might start meeting people who went to your school, or long lost relatives.

You aren't going to finish making the necessary changes in less than about 3 months, but the LTU has USLM in it also.

If you go for USLM, I suggest you aim for goals that are more broad, like, "My goal is to improve my sex life, increase the frequency at which I have sex, and improve my ability to perform sexually."

(11-20-2018, 08:48 AM)Shannon Wrote: You would have to be VERY careful about phrasing your goals

(11-20-2018, 10:22 AM)freerad98 Wrote: @Shannon This FRM (that's in USLM3 (so far)), is your greatest achievement yet. I haven't reached my goals set for USLM3 yet, but the FRM, I can tell it's absolutely fantastic. I've been able to sing karaoke even though my voice is just ok, and I never would have done that ever before. I didn't care what people thought, I was just having fun. There are other ways that it works and is very subtle. It's like a happy little ZFG attitude, not a$$holish, but very smooth and balanced.
Can't wait for DMSI 3.3.
As always, thanks for your continued research and progress!

(11-20-2018, 09:45 AM)THolt Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 08:48 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 08:22 AM)whome Wrote: I just finished the 35 day cool-off from my DMSI 3.2 run that didn't go far, and have been waiting for the new DMSI with FRM. However, I've been feeling a slow slide down into bodily pain/grief, which is, AFAIK, very fear-driven, and given that DMSI 3.3 is still a while away, I'm now wondering if USLM3 is a better option.

The notion of being sexually irresistible is tempting, but I could live without it. My fears/terrors are in the area of interacting with people and expressing myself, so perhaps if I pick my goals for USLM3 very carefully? If I pick "I keep encountering beautiful women who want casual but meaningful relationships" and "I find surprising connections with people I meet", then can I indirectly aim the FRM at removing the fears that I want it to?

The only thing that is really worrying me is that doing this is a three-month commitment, and at that point I'd probably jump to the new LTU and not get to play with DMSI, but right now it feels like the pain is pushing me to take some action and get started rather than wait.

You would have to be VERY careful about phrasing your goals, because the subconscious is absolutely literal. For "I keep encountering beautiful women who want casual but meaningful relationships", you have a contradiction... casual is not meaningful. It is casual. So you're likely to end up with relationships that are self contradictory and which drive you crazy. Or women who are and do...

And for "I find surprising connections with people I meet", what does that have to do with sex and relationships? You might start meeting people who went to your school, or long lost relatives.

You aren't going to finish making the necessary changes in less than about 3 months, but the LTU has USLM in it also.

If you go for USLM, I suggest you aim for goals that are more broad, like, "My goal is to improve my sex life, increase the frequency at which I have sex, and improve my ability to perform sexually."

@Shannon
I have been trying to phrase a goal I have for friendships. Basically I want to be able to meet more people in my age group and to have a meaninful relationships with those people as opposed to come and go relationships. Is there a certain way I should I phrase this goal?

(11-20-2018, 10:07 AM)whome Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 08:48 AM)Shannon Wrote: You would have to be VERY careful about phrasing your goals

I disagree about "casual but meaningful" being a contradiction; I have a specific feeling in my gut that it refers to. But you're not wrong about my phrasing otherwise being unclear. Let me back up.

Fear runs my life. I see it as a general fear of existing and connecting to others, showing up strongly in my social life (both sexual and friendship).

I'm looking forward to the new DMSI as I imagine that the fears removed by the FRM in it would be most of the fears I am aware of in myself (and because I already have DMSI). But as you're still working on DMSI, the question arose in my head of whether I could figure out statements to use for USLM3 so that I could use its FRM to target my fears.

Is targeting the FRM in that way a good idea? If so I'll try to come up with better statements; if not I'll hang out and wait for DMSI.

(11-20-2018, 10:49 AM)AlphaRomeo Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 10:22 AM)freerad98 Wrote: @Shannon This FRM (that's in USLM3 (so far)), is your greatest achievement yet. I haven't reached my goals set for USLM3 yet, but the FRM, I can tell it's absolutely fantastic. I've been able to sing karaoke even though my voice is just ok, and I never would have done that ever before. I didn't care what people thought, I was just having fun. There are other ways that it works and is very subtle. It's like a happy little ZFG attitude, not a$$holish, but very smooth and balanced.
Can't wait for DMSI 3.3.
As always, thanks for your continued research and progress!

ZFG?

(11-20-2018, 10:22 AM)freerad98 Wrote: @Shannon This FRM (that's in USLM3 (so far)), is your greatest achievement yet. I haven't reached my goals set for USLM3 yet, but the FRM, I can tell it's absolutely fantastic. I've been able to sing karaoke even though my voice is just ok, and I never would have done that ever before. I didn't care what people thought, I was just having fun. There are other ways that it works and is very subtle. It's like a happy little ZFG attitude, not a$$holish, but very smooth and balanced.
Can't wait for DMSI 3.3.
As always, thanks for your continued research and progress!

(11-20-2018, 11:16 AM)Shannon Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 10:49 AM)AlphaRomeo Wrote:

(11-20-2018, 10:22 AM)freerad98 Wrote: @Shannon This FRM (that's in USLM3 (so far)), is your greatest achievement yet. I haven't reached my goals set for USLM3 yet, but the FRM, I can tell it's absolutely fantastic. I've been able to sing karaoke even though my voice is just ok, and I never would have done that ever before. I didn't care what people thought, I was just having fun. There are other ways that it works and is very subtle. It's like a happy little ZFG attitude, not a$$holish, but very smooth and balanced.
Can't wait for DMSI 3.3.
As always, thanks for your continued research and progress!

ZFG?

Zero fucks given