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RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 12-08-2017
(12-08-2017, 01:46 PM)Illusive Man Wrote: On ARA you seem to be doing really well. I think you should stay on it even if DMSI has ARA simply because DMSI is so many things at once. Something as laser specific as ARA is great. I have been using it as well and it is incredibly calming. I have not drank or smoked for the month using it.
I really like your progress in your journal with ARA and especially the approaching and wanting to make a pUA company. Very inspiring and enjoyable to read.
Thanks man, but the PUA company idea came about because of AM refresher, also I always wanted to do it but for the last 2 1/2 years I stopped thinking / working towards it.
But now I'm more serious then ever about it, and anxiety Relief is probably the reason because I'm not fearful or doubtful about it. I know I can do it now.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 12-08-2017
Just been thinking about how much fear I have about phone game / conversations with women. And I'm wondering how to resolve this issue and which sub would help the most for that?
Nothing really has helped me, only however on SM after having done AM back to back I was able to call this one chick at ease, but other then that. phone game has always been my sticking point. I'm fine in person though.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 12-09-2017
Did another approach today, I was at Red Robins and after I was done eating I went up the the Hostess that was our hostess as she was at the front of the restaurant by the doors with like 12 people there waiting to be hosted by.
I told her "I don't want to be wierd or anything but I thought you were pretty and I wanted to come say hi And basically it was hard to talk because she was working but I said I don't want to get you in trouble (by talking to her here) but why don't i grab your number and we can chill.
She said she had a boyfriend and her cheeks and face was bright red and she was a little shy, I said " do you really?" She said "Yeah three years"
Then we both smiled and I said good for you and I left. It was a nice experience.
My anxiety is DRAMATICALLY down now. I could never have done this in the past, especially after waiting so long to do it. I wanted to approach her from the moment I got there but didn't til after I ate.
oh its also important to note i tried calling one chick today but she didn't answer.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Zane - 12-09-2017
I wonder what will happen if Shannon made OF - 5.5G
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 12-09-2017
(12-09-2017, 06:30 PM)Zane Wrote: I wonder what will happen if Shannon made OF - 5.5G
The great part is I have had 0 resistance. None at all since I've started the program. Only results.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Zane - 12-09-2017
(12-09-2017, 07:13 PM)Raykon Wrote:(12-09-2017, 06:30 PM)Zane Wrote: I wonder what will happen if Shannon made OF - 5.5G
The great part is I have had 0 resistance. None at all since I've started the program. Only results.
That's great. Can wait for other subs to be out. I am on DRA-5.5G already lets see what happens
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 12-12-2017
I noticed as of the last week or so my procasination is dramatically reduced.
I'm cleaning the moment I enter the house and making sure everything is tidy. I have more of an OCD towards cleaning and no procrastination like I usually do.
I also have been killing it in the gym and not allowing excuses to let me skip the gym and stuff. I have been doing things lately that I never was able to do in the past due to my my own mind playing games with me.
Now I don't think of the issues / worries that usually prevented me from going to the gym, because of illusions in my mind that made me excused from going based on that illusion.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - SargeMaximus - 12-12-2017
Awesome man! Good to hear!
How about the weed situation, are you using it less?
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Zane - 12-12-2017
This will be my next subliminal.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 01-16-2018
Been on this subliminal for the last two nights now.
Last time I went approaching by myself I had much more anxiety then I did after 3 days of using ARA and I went approaching. I had almost 0 anxiety after only using this program for 3 days.
So I'm jumping back on this program because I realize my self esteem is allot higher, but my anxiety is crippling. If it surfaces when talking to a women she is turned off immediately.only when I don't have anxiety I can attract women really easily.
The anxiety prevents my body language from being perfect.
so yeah I'm going back on this program.
I had a dream last night some tall guy was abusing me and someone else physically and verbally and treating us like dirt and I went and got a machete and came back swinging at his legs.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 01-18-2018
Day 4
feeling better already. Noticing ARA working now. I feel more at ease and less worried about outcomes.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 01-19-2018
Day 5
Still talking to one of the 10/10 chicks from a while ago I met.
She sends me selfies of her self in cute dog/cat ear filters still allot of the time.
I told her last night
"I can't wait to see those big anime eyes of yours again, I wish i wasn't so busy this weekend and upcoming week" (anime eyes is a inside joke to first time i met her)
she said "LOL if you wanted to see me so bad you'd make time ;P lmao big anime eyes (laughing emoji)
so shes def interested still and likes me allot. She also asked me to cheer her up the other day when she was upset at work and I ended up making her laugh and being a bit of an anchor for her.
she likes me allot. everything as of now has been perfect when dealing with her. I've been perfectly sexual perfectly comfort and perfect amount of communication.
I like her too looking forward to going out with her. I can tell there is allot of anticipation on both sides.
Btw the reason I was a bit sweet in that text above is because I've been ignoring her a bit and playing hard to get , so to balance that out a bit I pulled her in a bit, too much pull or too much push is a bad thing. perfect balance is good, which is usually more push then pull.
hard to get is good if its done right and natural.
btw this the same chick that i've literally told over text before I want to fuck her (in a better context , however it was still sexual and overt when I said it)
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - K-Train - 01-19-2018
Hey there Raykon, your ARA experience has really been intriguing man. Especially since it seems you utilize a lot of direct game in your interactions. On a scale of 1 to 10 where was you level of anxiety in regards to approaching women and "difficult" situations (such as public speaking, working at your job or doing something new) and where would you rate your anxiety now? Also, do you find yourself more at peace when you're on ARA or has that generally just been your personality from the get go? Thanks in advance man.
RE: Raykons Anxiety Relief - Never live in regret again! - Raykon - 01-19-2018
(01-19-2018, 07:00 PM)K-Train Wrote: Hey there Raykon, your ARA experience has really been intriguing man. Especially since it seems you utilize a lot of direct game in your interactions. On a scale of 1 to 10 where was you level of anxiety in regards to approaching women and "difficult" situations (such as public speaking, working at your job or doing something new) and where would you rate your anxiety now? Also, do you find yourself more at peace when you're on ARA or has that generally just been your personality from the get go? Thanks in advance man.
Well before using ARA, if I had to approach a women the anxiety would be enough to make my body language off and not come across relaxed /smooth.
After 3 days of ARA that went out away and I was super relaxed when approaching even though minor anxiety would surface before the approach it would go away while talking to the women.
The anxiety came back allot after having been off the program for 22 days while using SE 5.5g. I only used ARA for 2 weeks plus the 5 days i'eve been on it now.
ARA definitely helped, but I should probably have stayed on it. SE also feels like it isn't as strongly affecting me and its only been 5 days ive been off it.