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RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - RTBoss - 09-15-2018
(09-15-2018, 01:00 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(09-15-2018, 12:32 PM)Infinite Wrote: I wonder how long it takes from the time you start listening to the program for them to start approaching you, and what you have to do to encourge them. I know with men that the ones that have self respect will not approach me unless I smile at them first.
Heh.
So me approaching women is a sign of low self respect now is it? Why are you in my journal?
Touchy, touchy! I don't think she meant it as an insult. And it is nice to have a woman's perspective around here.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-15-2018
EDIT: Removed the low-blow comment I made to RT. Sorry man, that wasn't right.
(09-15-2018, 02:13 PM)RTBoss Wrote:(09-15-2018, 01:00 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(09-15-2018, 12:32 PM)Infinite Wrote: I wonder how long it takes from the time you start listening to the program for them to start approaching you, and what you have to do to encourge them. I know with men that the ones that have self respect will not approach me unless I smile at them first.
Heh.
So me approaching women is a sign of low self respect now is it? Why are you in my journal?
Touchy, touchy! I don't think she meant it as an insult. And it is nice to have a woman's perspective around here.
I'm not seeing a perspective here tbh.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - Infinite - 09-15-2018
You're reading too much into it.
I really do wonder how long it takes most users on dmsi to have people approaching them. Based on MY experience, the ugly ones approach me by being intrusive when I have never shown them any ioi. That was before dmsi.
I'm not implying that's the way that you do things to pick up women or that you have low self respect. Even if you were to approach girls who didn't give you any ioi, it doesn't mean that I think that you have low self respect, because I'm talking about my experiences.
To have women approach men, the user has to appear to be very approachable. I am not normally approachable, so for men to approach me, I would have to conduct myself in a way that I'm not used to.
My comment was just a thought based on your post. Almost like a conversation. It wasn't meant to be offensive or personal at all.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-15-2018
(09-15-2018, 04:47 PM)Infinite Wrote: You're reading too much into it.
I really do wonder how long it takes most users on dmsi to have people approaching them. Based on MY experience, the ugly ones approach me by being intrusive when I have never shown them any ioi. That was before dmsi.
I'm not implying that's the way that you do things to pick up women or that you have low self respect. Even if you were to approach girls who didn't give you any ioi, it doesn't mean that I think that you have low self respect, because I'm talking about my experiences.
Fair enough, thanks for clarifying.
Ime with DMSI, I have been approached (weak approach. Incidentals, or girls giving me shouts from across the room while at a bar) by attractive women since the first version I used (2.4 I think it was).
As for my approaching women, I just approach girls I want to f*ck. Not been successful and have stopped approaching till I learn more PUA but that's my main driving force. I don't like to be limited by "if she smiles at me" or not. Or if she's in my social circle. Life's too short for that shit.
However, I must admit the only sex I've had this year were from girls who initiated and did the seducing.
(09-15-2018, 04:47 PM)Infinite Wrote: To have women approach men, the user has to appear to be very approachable. I am not normally approachable, so for men to approach me, I would have to conduct myself in a way that I'm not used to.
I've been approached by women my whole life. But rarely had sex. I know it's a verbal game thing, but until I fix it, I'm afraid I'll be stuck in this "attractive but not touchable" paradigm.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-15-2018
Had a much better day after about 7 pm. I think I may have been overloaded from not taking the ASRB break which I will do tonight. Then it's back on ver. A.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-16-2018
So today I was in a funk. Was dreading sales and didn't want to go. Forced myself and made $150 in an hour. I should have kept going but I got too excited and left. Definitely something I can't afford to be doing.
The main victory was that it's cold and dreary out and I'm wearing different clothes yet still did VERY well. I am somewhat superstitious when it comes to sales and any slight change that is made makes me think that I won't be successful but today I am starting to feel like I have the control over how well I do not my outfit or the weather.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-17-2018
Back on ver. A
Just got back from Starbucks. Odd experience.
I came to the counter for my mobile order and the girl making my drink said "Sarge?" I'm like "Yes" she says "It's almost ready!" with a big smile.
"Perfect!" I say with a smirk.
Then as I'm waiting, the guy finishes off the drink (don't know if the girl told him to or not but I'm thinking she did for some reason because I've had this before. Almost like female servers don't want to serve me)
the guy brings me the drink and I say "Thank you so much!" with a smirk. He seems genuinely appreciated and smiles back saying "Have a great day!" I say "You too!" and walk out, ignoring the girl completely.
But yes, something is amiss in that regard.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-17-2018
I'm exhausted. Granted it's after 1 am but that hasn't bothered me the last few nights. I suspect it's because I haven't been taking my multivitamins. I recall DMSI product page mentioned to take a good multivitamin. Need to get more as I ran out.
ION, been doing lots of online game, mostly just trying to get DTF girls. Latest convo was like this:
Her: DT
Me: F?
Her: *Hey haha
Me: Ah, hey
I'm not sure if I'm getting closer to that reality or if it's just a losing strategy but I got nothing else to go on till I can pay my pua coach.
Also, had emails with someone I suspected was a scammer. Sure enough they wanted me to join some site before agreeing to a meet. Instant red flag. I tried to get nudes out of it tho as I know they got a stash, and whoever the girl was they had pics of was hot. I suspect the scammer is a guy tho, but try as I might I couldn't get the nudes. "Join the site and I'll send nudes baby" lol right. I'm amazed people actually fall for that shit.
Anyhow, not a whole lot going on otherwise. Sales was decent today. Got out later than I wanted and called my cousin which wasted some time. Made $200 total.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-18-2018
Still on ver. A. I’m not taking a break till 3.3
Last night I woke up with a raging hard on as is common. I decided to watch some porn and jack off and I had little sensitivity. I was thinking “wow this is great! Why can’t I be like this all the time?” In the morning my sensitivity had returned and edging was impossible. I stopped within a minute cause I didn’t want to cum.
I thought it was relevant to report as the sensitivity was very different between the two times and I think it must have something to do with DMSI.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-19-2018
Today went for an ultrasound of my arm (nothing serious, just may have tendanitis or carpel tunnel). Anyhow the woman doing it was cute. Older but still cute. I started getting a chub while laying there and then actively tried to keep it from going full hard-on. I didn't know how to handle the situation if I had gotten one.
ION, a 21 y.o. girl seems keen to meet but is shit testing HARD and I assume nothing will become of it. But it is interesting. Perhaps it's TID.
Still want my old FWB to contact me again for sexy times. She was fun.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-19-2018
Was trying for $325 today but only made $275. I was dragging my feet for the first hour. Otherwise I would have hit it easily.
Tomorrow I text the 21 y.o. to see if we still on for the date. Part of me hopes not simply because she doesn't live alone so I can't go to her house to bang her and I don't want to bring her to my place as it's messy and my brother lives here. Also she's arabic (has the shawl and everything) and my landlord is Lebanese. Would hate for her to get in trouble. Clearly she wants to explore sex and has mentioned her strict parents a few times.
If we do end up going on the date I figure I'll just drive to a secluded spot and try for a car bang. She'll prolly love it since she's looking for adventure.
Honestly tho, I want a woman I can go to her house. It's not worth it to get a hotel.
That's all for now.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-20-2018
Texted 21 y.o. and no response. Guess I lost yet another girl over text. That makes it a hundred percent I think.
I've decided to just let DMSI do it's thing till I'm able to pay my PUA coach and get the answers I need. It's too distracting to try and figure it out myself. So the rules are:
- The girl has to contact first
- The girl has to pitch the meet
I don't expect any action from this, but we'll see.
ION had a very interesting dream. First some context: Over the last few months when visiting hairstylists I slowly 'lost' my hairline. As in, they would cut it back a bit each time till now it looks uneven. So my latest barber pointed it out and said we gotta let it grow. This makes it look pretty ugly atm, but I know in the long run it will end up looking way better than it otherwise would.
In the dreamsomeone was pointing out how hideous my hair was and trying to shame me into cutting it but I knew I had to let it grow for bigger payouts down the road.
Also, don't know if it was the same dream, but my estranged brother was in it. We're not estranged per-se, we just don't hang out. But we talk and laugh and get along fine when we're around each other.
Anyhow he was in it quite prominently but I can't remember what the plot was.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 09-20-2018
Not pleased with how I ended off the week. Very lazy and dragging my feet again. Need to overcome that. Won't be able to pay my PUA this week. Prolly resistance. I gotta smash it out of the park next week. I plan to work tomorrow and every day to make up for it next week.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - lano1106 - 09-20-2018
Sarge,
I am super curious about your PUA coaching. How much does that cost and what do you get for the price?
1on1 mindset tuning + infield training
or something else?
Not sure if this is going to cheer you up but I didn't have a great week for sales neither. A lot of vendors in my niche are currently organizing events for affiliates which dries up my own source of leads and I don't have time to dedicate to do the marketing myself as I'm busy releasing a new product which I target to launch end of October...