(05-03-2016, 06:08 PM)Shannon Wrote: If Stratos is right - and his explanation makes very good sense - then it is likely that you have anger issues regarding gender. You're consciously trying to become more feminine, and perhaps subconsciously see femininity as being weakness or prone to being taken advantage of. I have noticed that a lot of women who try to be everything to everyone have the belief subconsciously that being feminine means being weak, when in fact nothing could be further from the truth. "Masculine" and "feminine" are two sides of the same coin, and their strengths are not out of balance with eachother - just different and complimentary. Being feminine is it's own form of strength, but these days most women in the United States at least have swallowed the lie that feminine = weak and helpless.
Wing Chun proves that Yin (Feminine) is anything but weak, and Yang is not always the better, "stronger" way. Wing Chun is a martial art designed by a woman to take advantage of the Yin qualities she had in abundance with which to work.

Let go of this, and you'll go much faster.

(05-05-2016, 07:06 AM)Sickologist Wrote: My only goal was to become the hottest guy everywhere I went. After 14 months of AOS and hard work, that's not an unrealistic claim. So it depends on your nr.1 goal. I can't multitask so I focus on one primary goal at a time.

Yeah, results will be fun. Ideas will pop into your head that you never had before and I find it best to just roll with it even if it seems silly. It's a ride, to go from good looking to ooze fierce sexuality. That's how it was for me, the idea is to make that vision of yourself a reality.