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RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 06-11-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 2 UPDATE
I think the confidence side of things is kicking in I can feel a difference. I feel more outspoken, aggressive, charismatic, just plain more alpha. I'm really enjoying this stage so far. Action orientation has also kicked up a notch. There was a lot of procrastination last stage but I really think the sub is starting to work its magic on stage 2.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 06-14-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 2 UPDATE
Yesterday I took the first step in what I hope will be my service based business. I practiced the service that I will be offering with a friend. I'm hoping to be a life coach of sorts and be able to help people overcome issues and help them improve their lives.
I'm not declaring success until I'm getting paid clients. I'm happy with what I achieved so far but I also know I could have achieved this 6 months sooner. I have procrastinated a lot. I think this re-run of the first 2 stages of BASE has done me good and even though I have procrastinated at least I am taking action like I could have done 6 months ago.
Another observation is how these subliminals by Shannon let us cheat at life if you will. The subliminals help us cheat at life because there are people that have all these traits we get from the subliminals and they developed them naturally with no help of subliminals AND MUCH YOUNGER!
A few months ago I met a young guy early 20's and he was just really centered, mature, assertive, masculine, radiated integrity. He was like a poster boy for the alpha male program.
At his age I was nowhere near his level in fact he probably beats me in several areas right now even though he is like 10 years younger. Subliminals are a way to sort of catch up and speed ahead your development towards the greatest version of yourself which otherwise would take many years without them and just living life normally without the aid of subliminals.
I have gotten compliments from a woman I am seeing who is much older than me and she praises how mature I am and how knowledgeable I am. Then the universe presents somebody younger than me to keep things in perspective and to show me where I could be. I am not at the level I want to be still even though I am probably the happiest and most confident and assertive I have ever been. BASE is doing really good work at the garbage removal and strengthening my character. I can't wait to see how i'll be 4 months from now once i'm done with my first run.
Having a side business to make extra income with and being the best and strongest man I have ever been are definitely worth the $500 price tag for me
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 06-23-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 2 UPDATE
I have been battling with thoughts about not being able to make any money and failing at my business...and I have not even gotten started yet. Maybe it's a sense of not feeling worthy of people paying for my services. But anyway those thoughts have started to creep up when before I had a lot of optimism that I could make it work.
I have also been more quiet than usual. Someone came up to me at work to talk and I really didn't pay much attention to them and they left. This rarely happens I always make time for people. I was busy on something but didn't say it I just decided not to focus on the person instead of telling them I was busy.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 07-23-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 2 UPDATE
It has taken me a very long time but I will finally be finishing stage 2 next week. Life has been very challenging (financial challenges among other things). I been traveling and I had to miss some weekends plus losing motivation to listen sometimes so I ended up having to make up a lot of time. I did get a lot of things done in this stage and really stepped into action recently i'm happy for that. I can't wait to finish and get on stage 3. Looking forward to see if the stronger, more powerful voice module works for me which starts in stage 3. Having a stronger, more masculine voice is something I always wanted to have.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 08-07-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 3 UPDATE
I moved out from home. This is probably the biggest risk of my life. I used to live a good life I would go out and eat at restaurants, eat out with my women and I was comfortable. Now all that is gone as I can't afford to eat out anymore. I'm eating pasta almost everyday for dinner because it is cheap. I found a box of spaguetti for less than $1 and I use fasta pasta to make it. At work I only eat a hot dog from 711 for lunch and this is on a daily basis (sometimes a pizza or 2 for a $1 each). I had to cut down on food a lot sometimes I don't even eat breakfast, sometimes I only eat once a day.
I don't feel bad I realize I have to sacrifice for now if I want the joys of freedom and living away from family but it's worth it. I have much less stress being away from family (i still love them but a man needs space). I'm applying to better paying jobs and I recently started driving for Uber. I'm motivated to make more money and just hustle for a better life in the future. However I haven't been able to work on my side business because of this.
I am really liking how I feel at this stage. I am much more productive at work, and trying to get things done right away. I credit Shannon's subliminals for saving my job. I went through a bad break up and it took me a while to recover. I went from a top performer to a procrastinator and being a few mistakes away from losing my job. I have grown in maturity a lot and my performance at work reflects that and I thank Shannon and the subliminals.
Right now the future is kinda uncertain. I survived this month and i'm trying to spend as little as possible to not have money problems. My social life is really dead for now as spending gas money to go have fun is a luxury I can't have.
But i'm not worried at all for some reason I was actually more worried when I was living at home more comfortable.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 08-26-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 3 UPDATE
As I already mentioned I had hearing issues that prevented me from listening to the subliminals as much as I wanted. Thanks to a pranic healing session with a veteran healer I was able to overcome them, and I am now grateful that I can listen to the subliminals at night while sleeping. The times I tried I would get headaches.
I don't know if I was doing something wrong, or maybe it was resistance, or maybe my brain finally got used to listening to them who knows! But thankfully I am now getting a good 6 hours of listening time while sleeping (that's what I usually sleep). This has made it easier to get my 8 hours in.
I am dating 2 women at the moment. This is the second time I do this. A couple months back I was doing the same thing till one of them moved on. This is interesting because I have really not gone out much these past couple of months. Some months I didn't go out at all in my city. Makes me wonder how many girls I could attract if I actually went out and about.
People have reported that BASE makes them more attractive to women and I don't doubt it because of all the alpha modules in there plus healing modules. I guess it's been an added benefit as I have not been looking to get another girl at all, but because I got the taste of a new girl I feel like getting just one more to have 3.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 09-24-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 4 UPDATE
The level of self validation I have is incredible and I have never felt before. I have been focusing on myself and myself only and my self improvement and I have little desire to do much else except that and make money.
Very little desire to be social and go out which I don't see as a bad thing compared to how I was before (living for the moment and always out for having fun). I'm much more focused and serious and I would say manlier rather than just the YOLO type of guy i was before.
MODULES THAT ARE DEFINITELY WORKING
One module I know has worked is the de-clutter module. Someone at work made a comment at how my cubicle was the cleanest and most organized in the office. Another co-worker asked me if I was leaving due to my cubicle being so clean.
On a regular basis I am looking at ways for making my work space and my living space more "zen" and organized. It's a big 180 from how things were back before BASE. I remember I got a comment from a coworker one time on how I was "such a boy" when she looked at my cubicle and it was all messy.
That was before BASE maybe about a year ago and I still remember that moment. And now to have 2 people comment on how it's so clean and organized shows how I have changed.
LEARNING MODULE
I will definitely achieve my goal of reading at least 15 books this year (my goal was 24 but will make it my goal for next year). I am constantly seeking knowledge and wisdom to improve myself.
Yesterday I went to my library's webpage and put in request for about 50 books that I have to read. I put them for request for december because obviously I can't read all 50 now. I did that so I could have a list of them already in my library's webpage so when I finish one I could request the next one and have it on hold. Basically a wish list. I recommend this as a good way to not forget books you have to read. Just request them for a couple of months in the future but when you feel you are ready to read them you could change the request date so that you can have them be on hold for you right now.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 09-30-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 4 UPDATE
I had to speak in front of my coworkers everyday this week for a few minutes in the morning. I really hated doing this and was always nervous in the past. I was surprised at how calm, cool and collected I was this time around. I felt I had really grown in confidence. I don't know if this is the public speaking module/strong clear voice module at work but I definitely felt that this task which always gave me trouble in the end it was nothing for me now.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 12-28-2016
BASE 2.1 STAGE 6 UPDATE
Today was my last day of BASE 2.1. It was quite a journey and i'll write a more detailed overview before my break is over. I plan to take a 2 week break and then start on another sub.
RE: Time to get on BASE: My journey - AbundanceCH - 01-16-2017
BASE REVIEW
Moving out
Life is much different than from when I started. I am living on my own for first time in my life. This was always my dream and was always the biggest source of frustration in my life. I just needed to get out and move away from family. Not that I don't love my family but every man needs to make his own path and needs space to do his thing. I couldn't do it because of fear. Fear of not being able to afford it and just fear of making the decision. When I made the decision it was spontaneous and frankly not very well thought out. I always wanted things to be perfect and have everything planned out, but I just took a chance without thinking about it much and just did it. Somehow maybe because of BASE I wasn't afraid and I just somehow knew things would work out. So far everything has worked out.
Social life is gone
Looking at the way that I was before I started BASE and after I finished BASE I am two different people. One of my close friends tells me how I am much more focused now when as before I was just a happy go lucky guy.
I used to go out a lot to have fun and women were on my mind most of the day. Since I started BASE I have become a learning machine. I read over 15 books last year and my goal for this year is 40. I stopped going out, I haven't talked to most of my old friends, my social life is non-existent.
It's a night and day difference how I was. From a guy that used to go out several times a week to a guy that stopped going out. From a guy that would jump at the chance of going out with a woman to a guy that rather stay home and finish reading a book instead of going out on a saturday night with a girl. It really is a night and day difference.
I would sleep in my car during lunch time at work because I would go out the night before. I used to do this several times a week. To go from that to a guy with no social life is simply amazing.
Some might think of that as a bad thing but I don't see it that way. I think I was still a boy that was out looking for fun before BASE. Now i'm more of a man focused on myself and becoming the greatest version of myself. I am no longer a sheep that is out to party on the weekends. I'm a lion that wants to achieve freedom and is willing to sacrifice the weekends for it.
Maybe this is all the self validation stuff in BASE which kills your need for happiness from external factors. Before I was only happy when going out and having fun I couldn't stay in the house. If I stayed in the house on a saturday night i would be depressed. Now a days I rather stay home and work on my stuff even if a girl is the one asking me to go out to see her. I really value alone time.
You can't help but get some improvement in yourself when you're listening to a subliminal that has so many healing modules and you do this over the course of several months.
Neediness for women gone
BASE killed my neediness for women. Maybe it's the self validation and I am more self validated than ever in my life. I'm a good looking guy but I didn't have the inner masculinity and strength that I now have after BASE. I had many relationships where the women were crazy for me at the beginning, but my outer appearance wasn't backed up by a strong masculine inner factor so I lost them. The women I had while on BASE I have done much better with and things have been very smooth. They see that I am so focused on becoming the greatest version of myself and they really respect that. Before I made women my number 1 priority and yes women will resent you for that. Women do not want you to make them your number 1 priority. Even though I haven't gone out much I have been dating multiple women. I can only imagine how things would be if I did go out more.
Entrepreneurship
When it comes to money and entrepreneurship I got a second job which lets me survive but when it comes to entrepreneurship I know what to do but I refuse to do it. Procrastination is still very much alive in me. I have put off doing the things I need to do for months. This is by far the most disappointing thing about BASE. It has helped me with everything except the goal of the program itself!
Biggest pro:
Self validation: I am a happy person just by myself. Yes I do have women in my life but before BASE my source of happiness came from women and going out and having fun. Now it comes from me.
Biggest con:
Procrastination: It is still very much there. The healing modules do a great job but one does wonder if they do the job a little too well that you aren't as motivated to pursue goals. I think overcome procrastination should have been included.
Final thoughts:
BASE made me a much stronger man and I wish it was around 10 years ago! It has not helped me much with its goal (entrepreneurship). I was a bit worried about some of the stuff about AM making guys a little depressed and just dark. I wanted to keep my attitude while making me more focused rather than making me into something I am not. I think BASE did that it refined me and made me overall a healthier, stronger man. I Wish it would deal more strongly with procrastination. While i'm happy that I am now the provider of my own happiness and that I am self validated I wish I didn't lose interest in people completely! I just don't care about people anymore.
I keep things very simple the only times I go out is when I go out with a woman. I wouldn't like to go back to my old social life but I do wish I had some social life or at least the networking module of BASE did work. So far I haven't met anybody that can help me with the goals of the program.
I can't wait to run it again and see what sort of changes I can achieve.