Subliminal Talk

yeah i know right lol. (to both tom hardy comment and "hella" comment).

I thought she meant the later, as in "I'm down!"

Just some constructive criticism. Ask less questions. The 20 question game is a sucky trap to get in. We dont know what to say so we ask questions. When a girl wont stop asking me questions I know I've got her on the hook, just saying Anyway, she's still short answering you... and tbh its not an awesome conversation. I would lay low for a little while and let her wonder what you're up to. Perhaps a "Hey I'm super busy this week but hit me up sometime to smoke" has worked for me in the past. Texting sucks.

(09-11-2017, 08:20 PM)Arsenic Wrote: [ -> ]Just some constructive criticism. Ask less questions. The 20 question game is a sucky trap to get in. We dont know what to say so we ask questions. When a girl wont stop asking me questions I know I've got her on the hook, just saying Anyway, she's still short answering you... and tbh its not an awesome conversation. I would lay low for a little while and let her wonder what you're up to. Perhaps a "Hey I'm super busy this week but hit me up sometime to smoke" has worked for me in the past. Texting sucks.

What're some places in that last post of screenshots i put where you were thinking a statement could replace the question? Or other examples

But yeah she was kind of short answering, but I don't think it was on purpose in this convo. She was almost insta-replying, even when I was taking a minute or two to reply; which means she had notifications back on while talking to me, or she was keeping her eye right on the chat window almost always. I got the vibe she was into the convo and liked it.

Also, in our situation it's less of a pick-up or daygame or anything in that world, so I feel like those "guidelines" or rules about not asking too many questions applies a bit less, kinda like you said before. I agree though some of those questions were a bit superfluous, probably could have added some more emotionally striking or interesting statement type msgs rather than questions for some of those. Also, how do you get someone to invest more, and ask questions of their own? Or is that sort of out of your control, and just depends on how much they are into you?

Overall though, I think were just feeling each other out getting to know each other with no expectations, and we both know were gonna be on whisper checking our messages occasionally, and it's not even texting, its just messaging each other on Whisper app, as like a side thing to do between our main everyday lives.

I would totally already have asked to meet up if this was actual text messaging but I feel like I need to take it pretty slow and gradual with this girl, since she has a boyfriend and this isn't a dating app, and were basically keeping in touch as like a small for-fun side chat and just gradually get to know each other more and see where things go and how we feel about each other.

What're your thoughts?

You kno what I realized... when she said "you got weed?" ...that meant she was down to chill LMAO. So i can basically ask her anytime to chill at this point.

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