(08-31-2017, 08:23 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 07:53 AM)TheChosenOne Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe the social route is the missing link...
I agree, and add that Emotional Intelligence is also a missing link.
Hit the nail right on the head. I didn't even think of that.
Social proof and social status are enormous in generating attraction naturally.
Also huge in increasing quality of life which itself makes a person more attractive.
Good pick up
Just adding on to before. I don't think I've ever met anyone good with the ladies who wasn't super social
Even when I've had women come at me left right and centre, those phases of my life have been at times when I was super social and really outgoing.
Definitly a pre requisite imo
Social skills are a necessity, but being super social is definitely not required.
However, it may be easier for a super-social guy to get multiple girls simply because he is putting himself out there more than the "not so social-guy".
But the "not so social-guy" may have a better chance of getting together with the woman he wants to get with. It all depends on which frame you're coming from.
(08-31-2017, 09:52 AM)ReeZoX Wrote: [ -> ]But the "not so social-guy" may have a better chance of getting together with the woman he wants to get with. It all depends on which frame you're coming from.
How did you come to that conclusion?
(08-31-2017, 08:36 AM)Determined Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 08:23 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 07:53 AM)TheChosenOne Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe the social route is the missing link...
I agree, and add that Emotional Intelligence is also a missing link.
Hit the nail right on the head. I didn't even think of that.
Social proof and social status are enormous in generating attraction naturally.
Also huge in increasing quality of life which itself makes a person more attractive.
Good pick up
Thanks.
Emotional Intelligence has been said to be the defining factor in success. More so than IQ from what I've read.
(08-31-2017, 10:30 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 08:36 AM)Determined Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 08:23 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 07:53 AM)TheChosenOne Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe the social route is the missing link...
I agree, and add that Emotional Intelligence is also a missing link.
Hit the nail right on the head. I didn't even think of that.
Social proof and social status are enormous in generating attraction naturally.
Also huge in increasing quality of life which itself makes a person more attractive.
Good pick up
Thanks.
Emotional Intelligence has been said to be the defining factor in success. More so than IQ from what I've read.
The real dumbs aren't those with low IQ...But those with low emotional intelligence.
I was pretty dumb, so I know.
I'd run such a sub in hope to be more outgoing, bold, witty, fun to be around too.
A charisma sub-module would be awesome too.
(08-31-2017, 10:28 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (08-31-2017, 09:52 AM)ReeZoX Wrote: [ -> ]But the "not so social-guy" may have a better chance of getting together with the woman he wants to get with. It all depends on which frame you're coming from.
How did you come to that conclusion?
Based on what I've seen and read
I'll try and make an example. We have Joe and we have Bob. Bob is the loud super-social guy who talks with everyone and is seen as a high-status guy. He always hangs out with the hottest and coolest girls. He is best-friend with Joe.
Joe in this instance is not necessarily anti-social guy, but he's definitely not a social guy. He is social when he wants to and when he actually gives a f*ck, he turns on his "charm".
Pretty much everyone else knows Joe is an "IDGAF" type of guy, and generally doesn't care about other people, or at least not interacting with them. But when he does find a woman who catches his eye. He is able to turn on this charm and show her that she's special. Of course, he still has to do this in ways which are non-needy and all that. But he has the ability of "choosing" people to interact with in a way Bob doesn't have the possibility of since Bob is seen as the "social guy".
This ability to choose makes people feel they're special, and that is something that CAN give Joe the upper-hand in regards to specific people.
Now as a "Bob" you can still make people feel special and all that, it's not a zero-sum game. But in general occasions, Joe will have the upper-hand in charming specific people.
Similar to how looking good/having good fashion can make you get an upper hand when first interacting with new people/women.
I see what you mean.
Yeah to me, social skills is the ability to "turn oin the charm".
In your examples, both guys have social skills, they just apply it differently.
I'm talking about a sub where those social skills are taught and improved.
Some of us (like me) don't have very good social skills, and neither Joe nor Bob's "method" would work for us.
To add to this idea. My Ideal Social Skills Sub would have:
- cool confidence
- supremely relaxed in all social situations
- ability to thrive in new social situations
- master the ability to build relationships
- master the ability to maintain relationships long term
- attract people to us that we would naturally vibe with
- DMSI Snipper but for connecting with people/Instant Rapport
- When talking with strangers it feels like you've known them forever. Treating everyone like your best friend.
- High Status Body Language
- Read Body Language
- Humor/Story Telling
- Charisma and Charm ALWAYS ON.
- Flirting power & Seduction skills
- Motivation to talk to strangers and make friends
- Autopilot from DMSI
- Manifesting FAME/Become famous.
- Persuasion skills (maybe a persuasion snipper or aura making people naturally want to do as you say)
- Boldness/Fearlessness in social situations
- IDGAF/Social Dominance attitude
- Protection from others manipulating you (manipulation shield)
- God-Like Frame Control (Nothing shakes you)
- Clam and collected if shit hits the fan
- Leadership traits
- Situational Aura. Similar to BASE were the Aura changes based on the situation at play.
- Assertiveness
- Anti-Sniper to repel those who mean you harm. Maybe make it manual activation? Sometimes you have to do business with shitty people and it could get in the way.
If this sub existed I would pay easily $500 for it. My line of work needs this.
AM6 Basically is a Social Skills sub. If you read the list it covers all you need for social skills.
(09-21-2017, 06:04 PM)Daredevil Wrote: [ -> ]AM6 Basically is a Social Skills sub. If you read the list it covers all you need for social skills.
AM6 is an alpha male sub with social skills being one small component. The idea behind this sub is to create a
focused social skills sub which incorporates many of the soft skills such as emotional intelligence, charm and charisma that AM6 doesn't necessarily touch upon or only does lightly.
Read the product description and the list of what's in there. It has a huge percentage of modules for socializing.
(09-21-2017, 07:48 PM)Daredevil Wrote: [ -> ]Read the product description and the list of what's in there. It has a huge percentage of modules for socializing.
Yes Daredevil, you are correct in identifying that AM6 contains modules on socialising
such as:
"An improved on circle of friends manifestation sequence, so that the friends you manifest are genuine, long term friends who will help you for the long haul, instead of stabbing you in the back."
Develop and display a fantastic sense of humor, which will make you socially popular and attractive to others, especially beautiful women."
"Be entirely comfortable in social situations of any type, whether they are familiar to you or not."
However, these are only a surface level of what social skills and socialising is about. These do not include; charm, charisma, emotional intelligence, mastering the ability to build and maintain relationships long term (relationship management), persuasion skills, social intelligence, influence, network building etc etc. These are all the soft skills that a focused social skills sub aims to incorporate.
It's does include 95% of what you just put down, it's just you didn't look for it.
If you want a standalone sub for social skills that's fine, my point was to say AM6 deals with that.