11-14-2016, 12:20 PM
WHAT I WANT FROM THIS TAPE ---> I have noticed during the past few years that when going out, groups of men are repelled by my space unless directly invited, and the most attractive girls move into my space in large groups to fill the gap in the crowd, but they weren't starting conversations with me or becoming blatantly open. It's like these women were simply looking for safety in bars and clubs. It's been noticed by others. I could write an entire book about this type of experience. My view was that if women are going to lean on me for safe space on public drinking occasions, we should be talking to each other.
Some girls have viewed me as a 'Clubber' type, but I rarely go out to bars and clubs, and almost always have this type of experience. I've met most of my past LTRs after college during the day or through mutual interests, living life, etc. I wanted to expand my influence and have a breakthrough in nightlife with this tape.
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CURRENT STATUS: I have been listening to this for a few weeks now and am experiencing what I would consider to be very negative results. I am early 30s with a killer career, I've had girlfriends in my life since I was 10 and had been with 100+ girls by the time I graduated college. Since then I've made strides to up my potential and concentrate only on high value women I want to keep, while treating everyone else with decency and respect. I enforce standards wherever I am. People in groups I'm a part of look for my approval and most of the public moves out of my way when I walk through crowds (I'm about 5'11 and 150lbs so this last bit is very noticeable to anyone I go out with). Nothing bad every happens when I'm out and people are generally on their best behavior around me. Friends (especially female friends) have noticed and asked me about this many times.
The results for me have been terrible so far. I'm getting ghosted almost every where I go. And I'm starting to feel like a faggy loser . My personal value has definitely not increased, if anything it has taken a direct hit. Girls I'm interested in do not seem to look in my direction anymore. And worse than that, my self control is starting to be affected, I catch myself looking with a wondering eye rather than keeping my focus, which makes me feel creepy.
I just moved to SoCal, my male roommates said I was intense but girls seemed to go out of their way to get noticed while I'm out. I have a 9 girlfriend who constantly talks about how she doesn't like going out in public without me because she gets bothered. She tells her friends about my "power bubble" and how it's the safest place to be in the world. But even she has asked me what I've been up to because she senses my power being diminished. I feel more go with the flow, my body language has changed noticeably, and I am definitely MUCH less decisive than I was just a few weeks ago. Basically - I feel like I'm going full Beta and it is terrible for me, my gf, and everyone else around me.
It took me years to polish myself to where I was. If this tape is going to undo or "reset" me to a lower value version of myself I can't tell you how many people that will negatively impact (business, personal, the general public). I think I'm at a place where I could stop the tape and rebound by doubling down what I was doing before.
I read several threads about guys having negative reactions to this tape. Anyone having a similar experience? What the heck is going on here?
---Consider this before you reply:
1. It's not good to be ghosted UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. Social value is created by people wanting things from you. It is much better to have opportunities coupled with the ability to make the correct choice for yourself. I don't think Autopiloting my subconscience to repel segments of women may be the best way to increase personal value.
2. I feel that the alpha state can be a burden; I have considered this as an impact. However, I don't see being a leader as a way to get what I personally want, I view it as a services to those around me that I've been happy to provide in the past. I just want ROI for who I am being seen as.
3. Is this tape designed to get girls to do all the work? I'm not a male bodybuilding supermodel but have been successful with very high value women. I certainly don't mind putting in the work to socialize when it's being invited. I simply want more open invitations, more friends, good times..
4. Access to a woman's body is like 8% of my world, its generally assumed and not an issue worth noting. I'm interested in being my best and having fun more than banging randoms.
5. Maybe my personal space (aura) is powerful but not overtly sexual?
----> Keep listening and take my chances? Or Eject and carry on my life?
Some girls have viewed me as a 'Clubber' type, but I rarely go out to bars and clubs, and almost always have this type of experience. I've met most of my past LTRs after college during the day or through mutual interests, living life, etc. I wanted to expand my influence and have a breakthrough in nightlife with this tape.
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CURRENT STATUS: I have been listening to this for a few weeks now and am experiencing what I would consider to be very negative results. I am early 30s with a killer career, I've had girlfriends in my life since I was 10 and had been with 100+ girls by the time I graduated college. Since then I've made strides to up my potential and concentrate only on high value women I want to keep, while treating everyone else with decency and respect. I enforce standards wherever I am. People in groups I'm a part of look for my approval and most of the public moves out of my way when I walk through crowds (I'm about 5'11 and 150lbs so this last bit is very noticeable to anyone I go out with). Nothing bad every happens when I'm out and people are generally on their best behavior around me. Friends (especially female friends) have noticed and asked me about this many times.
The results for me have been terrible so far. I'm getting ghosted almost every where I go. And I'm starting to feel like a faggy loser . My personal value has definitely not increased, if anything it has taken a direct hit. Girls I'm interested in do not seem to look in my direction anymore. And worse than that, my self control is starting to be affected, I catch myself looking with a wondering eye rather than keeping my focus, which makes me feel creepy.
I just moved to SoCal, my male roommates said I was intense but girls seemed to go out of their way to get noticed while I'm out. I have a 9 girlfriend who constantly talks about how she doesn't like going out in public without me because she gets bothered. She tells her friends about my "power bubble" and how it's the safest place to be in the world. But even she has asked me what I've been up to because she senses my power being diminished. I feel more go with the flow, my body language has changed noticeably, and I am definitely MUCH less decisive than I was just a few weeks ago. Basically - I feel like I'm going full Beta and it is terrible for me, my gf, and everyone else around me.
It took me years to polish myself to where I was. If this tape is going to undo or "reset" me to a lower value version of myself I can't tell you how many people that will negatively impact (business, personal, the general public). I think I'm at a place where I could stop the tape and rebound by doubling down what I was doing before.
I read several threads about guys having negative reactions to this tape. Anyone having a similar experience? What the heck is going on here?
---Consider this before you reply:
1. It's not good to be ghosted UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. Social value is created by people wanting things from you. It is much better to have opportunities coupled with the ability to make the correct choice for yourself. I don't think Autopiloting my subconscience to repel segments of women may be the best way to increase personal value.
2. I feel that the alpha state can be a burden; I have considered this as an impact. However, I don't see being a leader as a way to get what I personally want, I view it as a services to those around me that I've been happy to provide in the past. I just want ROI for who I am being seen as.
3. Is this tape designed to get girls to do all the work? I'm not a male bodybuilding supermodel but have been successful with very high value women. I certainly don't mind putting in the work to socialize when it's being invited. I simply want more open invitations, more friends, good times..
4. Access to a woman's body is like 8% of my world, its generally assumed and not an issue worth noting. I'm interested in being my best and having fun more than banging randoms.
5. Maybe my personal space (aura) is powerful but not overtly sexual?
----> Keep listening and take my chances? Or Eject and carry on my life?