As far as a lack of motivation. For the most part we're motivated by negativity, survival etc. Making the switch to a more positive frame of mind and not having your self worth dependent on you being or doing something, means you will have to find a new paradigm. To be motivated by doing something for the sake of it's self, or the benefits you want to enjoy, whether it's stimulation of your curiousity, achieving new heights/pushing your own boundaries to see what's possible or whatever...
'I need good grades and to do well at school because others are' or whatever is not gonna work. What every one else does and says is soon not going to matter...what makes you feel alive will.
If you've been on drugs (I was prescribed a range of ADHD meds, and coming off them was rough) then hoonesyly the best approach in my experience is to be obsessive about exercise. it's the natural way to take drugs - endorphins from a good work out feel good and make you clear and stabilise your mood.
again, just my opinion, you can take it or leave it.
YES. I'm not doing anything anymore :/. All my motivation has been based on negativity and now I can't do anything without reinforcing that negativity... It doesn't help that everyone encourages me to be "responsible".
(01-16-2017, 08:27 AM)Darwin Wrote: [ -> ]As far as a lack of motivation. For the most part we're motivated by negativity, survival etc. Making the switch to a more positive frame of mind and not having your self worth dependent on you being or doing something, means you will have to find a new paradigm. To be motivated by doing something for the sake of it's self, or the benefits you want to enjoy, whether it's stimulation of your curiousity, achieving new heights/pushing your own boundaries to see what's possible or whatever...
'I need good grades and to do well at school because others are' or whatever is not gonna work. What every one else does and says is soon not going to matter...what makes you feel alive will.
If you've been on drugs (I was prescribed a range of ADHD meds, and coming off them was rough) then hoonesyly the best approach in my experience is to be obsessive about exercise. it's the natural way to take drugs - endorphins from a good work out feel good and make you clear and stabilise your mood.
again, just my opinion, you can take it or leave it.
Thanks for taking the time to give your advice. It makes perfect sense.
(01-16-2017, 12:29 PM)Frosted Wrote: [ -> ]YES. I'm not doing anything anymore :/. All my motivation has been based on negativity and now I can't do anything without reinforcing that negativity... It doesn't help that everyone encourages me to be "responsible".
That sucks frosted, so it's not even resistance anymore that's giving you problems.
(01-16-2017, 12:29 PM)Frosted Wrote: [ -> ]YES. I'm not doing anything anymore :/. All my motivation has been based on negativity and now I can't do anything without reinforcing that negativity... It doesn't help that everyone encourages me to be "responsible".
It's good man. Once you become stimulated by challenge, by a sense of your own possibility and your potential to create, there is little looking back. Here's my question, what possibility could you create right now which would make you feel alive if you were going for it?
Lol didn't you mean to title your thread DMSI? :p
Sooo... I'm sure the question everybody's asking themselves is, did LTU get you laid? I may have to jump on that LTU train we gettin more pussy over here than DMSI.
He's not the first person to get laid on LTU
People get laid all the time, you could also say no subs is the best way to get laid... since percentage wise it is
I broke a year long dry streak on LTU lol
(01-21-2017, 01:06 PM)Frosted Wrote: [ -> ]Sooo... I'm sure the question everybody's asking themselves is, did LTU get you laid? I may have to jump on that LTU train we gettin more pussy over here than DMSI.
This is a silly and incorrect statement.
I, for one, am getting sick of the naysayers, stonewallers and people that refuse to cooperate with the subliminal saying ridiculous things like this. And I'm going to start calling them out every time I see it.
In the last three weeks, DMSI has helped a number of our members get laid and have amazing experiences. Of course, there's a ridiculous subset of people that are so terrified of achieving the design goal that they've resorted to outright ignoring people's results, refusing to read the forum (and bragging about it), while still making blanket statements as if they're somehow in the know.
Frosted, you're doing everything you can to avoid running DMSI. It's pretty obvious that you are subconsciously terrified of actually achieving the target goal of easy access to sex.
You know will get rid of that?
DMSI.
(01-22-2017, 11:48 AM)Frosted Wrote: [ -> ] (01-22-2017, 03:25 AM)HorizonPUA Wrote: [ -> ]People get laid all the time, you could also say no subs is the best way to get laid... since percentage wise it is
Lol I like how people try to paint sub users as weird losers (and by some of its own users, no less). To some extent its true because we all came from a negative place, but honestly a lot of us are probably better off than a lot of the population or will be soon (maybe not in the department of women, I guess unless you're running DMSI). Honestly what is with this obsession with getting laid? I saw on a phero website this guy being like "oh those subs don't work Frosted, Sarge blah blah they used subs and haven't had sex". Like wtf. It's like I need to base my self worth on this shit and do everything I can to get laid. No thanks.
Sorry, didnt mean to attack any one or criticize. We are all on our own way and journey and shouldnt compare our results. But also you should ask yourself why you feel attacked by my post?! Its some hidden believes and pain there
What i want to say by my post you cant say what got him laid in the end, could have been the sub, could have been a sub from the past, could have been that he just had a good day or maybe the girl was just horny... Can be any reason, so stop connecting every little result to only the subs.