i actually put the bar even higher now that i started this, girls have to be beautiful for me to go all in.
(09-18-2016, 07:56 PM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ] (09-18-2016, 06:13 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Hmm. This always concerns me. I want to have sex with the women I find attractive now, not lose them for girls supposedly "more compatible".
You'll have to run it for yourself to see what happens. Either way, it'll be in your interest. It's not like you'll be saying, "Oh, GOD, she's fuckin' ugly! But I wanna **** her SO bad!" I still have sexual feelings for all the women I used to have sexual feelings for.
Ok, cool.
It will be interesting to see what the program can do for me. I also look forward to being able to offer some real input for Shannon aside from theories about the program.
(09-18-2016, 06:13 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]Hmm. This always concerns me. I want to have sex with the women I find attractive now, not lose them for girls supposedly "more compatible".
(09-18-2016, 06:04 PM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]I've noticed a number of shifts in my life regarding women since starting the DMSI series. Women disappearing who used to be giving me many IOIs. I've also lost interest in a number of women I used to find attractive, like my preferences changed for no reason what so ever.
I just see it as DMSI clearing up my life for somethings and someones better.
(09-18-2016, 07:56 PM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]I still have sexual feelings for all the women I used to have sexual feelings for.
(09-18-2016, 08:07 PM)Griffin Wrote: [ -> ]i actually put the bar even higher now that i started this, girls have to be beautiful for me to go all in.
RTBoss is a married man, it is a good thing he feels that way!!
I'm guessing Steven and Griffin are single men. As a single man, I agree with what they've experienced. Girls/Women I found attractive, I can see the flaws in their personalities and I noticed one woman I found "hot" has a beer gut!! Didn't see that before...
The sniping effect is looking for women who are genuinely attractive to you. So as I said before, all women will get the baseline, but it will snipe and focus on the ones who are GENUINELY attractive to you. In the process, you're not going to be weeding out women you would have actually been genuinely attracted to or compatible with. It's not something to be feared; it's a time saver and a problem preventative. Higher quality results.
(09-19-2016, 01:59 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]The sniping effect is looking for women who are genuinely attractive to you. So as I said before, all women will get the baseline, but it will snipe and focus on the ones who are GENUINELY attractive to you. In the process, you're not going to be weeding out women you would have actually been genuinely attracted to or compatible with. It's not something to be feared; it's a time saver and a problem preventative. Higher quality results.
I got you Shannon, thanks for clarifying.
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SargeMaximus
To the best of my knowledge of the ones I'm fairly sure of (and I can't confirm them all, just some), the ones it seems to be weeding out for me are women who are probably having anger towards men or problems relating to others. In other words, having even a pleasant conversation would be a challenge for them. To sum up, such people would probably be better off spending time with a counselor getting help rather than being sexually involved with someone.
There are plenty of people out there who can be relate-able and fun to be with.
PS Thanks for stopping by!
Yeah --
After experiencing the sniper this weekend, all of my fears about it have been laid to rest. It was truly a marvel.
(09-19-2016, 06:01 AM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
To the best of my knowledge of the ones I'm fairly sure of (and I can't confirm them all, just some), the ones it seems to be weeding out for me are women who are probably having anger towards men or problems relating to others. In other words, having even a pleasant conversation would be a challenge for them. To sum up, such people would probably be better off spending time with a counselor getting help rather than being sexually involved with someone.
B-but... that's MY problem! And is precisely why I AM going to a counselor.
(09-19-2016, 06:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (09-19-2016, 06:01 AM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
To the best of my knowledge of the ones I'm fairly sure of (and I can't confirm them all, just some), the ones it seems to be weeding out for me are women who are probably having anger towards men or problems relating to others. In other words, having even a pleasant conversation would be a challenge for them. To sum up, such people would probably be better off spending time with a counselor getting help rather than being sexually involved with someone.
B-but... that's MY problem! And is precisely why I AM going to a counselor.
Sarge --
DMSI will take care of this for you. I never said much, but I used to resonate with your posts when you said you hated women. Because I definitely hated women. Two weeks of DMSI, that disdain is fading. Now, that doesn't mean that I'm suddenly gonna become beta toward them. If anything, I'm setting strong boundaries with them, let them know what's acceptable and what isn't. On the flipside, I'm actually able to talk to them without totally pushing them away.
I really think you'll like this sub. The first week or so might be a little rough (depends on if the DMSI morphine drip kicks in for you), but once it clears, you'll feel great. Plus, you're like me -- you've got all that AM6 running through you, blooming. I think that's one reason I'm getting crazy results. It's like DMSI is taking the best of AM6 and amplifying it.
INFP's are naturally playful and well-liked anyway. My INFP bestie gets laid all the damn time. He just connects with women on such a primal level.
(09-19-2016, 06:51 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: [ -> ] (09-19-2016, 06:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (09-19-2016, 06:01 AM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
To the best of my knowledge of the ones I'm fairly sure of (and I can't confirm them all, just some), the ones it seems to be weeding out for me are women who are probably having anger towards men or problems relating to others. In other words, having even a pleasant conversation would be a challenge for them. To sum up, such people would probably be better off spending time with a counselor getting help rather than being sexually involved with someone.
B-but... that's MY problem! And is precisely why I AM going to a counselor.
Sarge --
DMSI will take care of this for you. I never said much, but I used to resonate with your posts when you said you hated women. Because I definitely hated women. Two weeks of DMSI, that disdain is fading. Now, that doesn't mean that I'm suddenly gonna become beta toward them. If anything, I'm setting strong boundaries with them, let them know what's acceptable and what isn't. On the flipside, I'm actually able to talk to them without totally pushing them away.
I really think you'll like this sub. The first week or so might be a little rough (depends on if the DMSI morphine drip kicks in for you), but once it clears, you'll feel great. Plus, you're like me -- you've got all that AM6 running through you, blooming. I think that's one reason I'm getting crazy results. It's like DMSI is taking the best of AM6 and amplifying it.
INFP's are naturally playful and well-liked anyway. My INFP bestie gets laid all the damn time. He just connects with women on such a primal level.
Yeah I guess I'm just letting the self-doubt get to me.
Thanks man.
EDIT: Oh, but wait. I think you misunderstood my post.
My problem is that I can't have conversations and can't relate to people. I never saw hating women as a problem because it got me results.
Shannon,
I may need a reality check.
That magnet you put in there.
After a woman employee at a store assists me with something, if I find her attractive... she tends to linger, or stare at me from across the store, or approach me again to ask if I need any more help, or starts to walk towards me again then stops...
After a woman employee at a store assists me with something, if I don't find her attractive... she ignores me, or disappears... and also when she is in the process of assisting me, she does it REALLY fast. They're nice about it. They may even give IOIs. Some even look like they are enjoying being around me. But in the end, it's like they feel compelled to leave my presence.
Does this magnet work both ways? Attract and repel?
(09-19-2016, 06:56 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (09-19-2016, 06:51 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: [ -> ] (09-19-2016, 06:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (09-19-2016, 06:01 AM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
To the best of my knowledge of the ones I'm fairly sure of (and I can't confirm them all, just some), the ones it seems to be weeding out for me are women who are probably having anger towards men or problems relating to others. In other words, having even a pleasant conversation would be a challenge for them. To sum up, such people would probably be better off spending time with a counselor getting help rather than being sexually involved with someone.
B-but... that's MY problem! And is precisely why I AM going to a counselor.
Sarge --
DMSI will take care of this for you. I never said much, but I used to resonate with your posts when you said you hated women. Because I definitely hated women. Two weeks of DMSI, that disdain is fading. Now, that doesn't mean that I'm suddenly gonna become beta toward them. If anything, I'm setting strong boundaries with them, let them know what's acceptable and what isn't. On the flipside, I'm actually able to talk to them without totally pushing them away.
I really think you'll like this sub. The first week or so might be a little rough (depends on if the DMSI morphine drip kicks in for you), but once it clears, you'll feel great. Plus, you're like me -- you've got all that AM6 running through you, blooming. I think that's one reason I'm getting crazy results. It's like DMSI is taking the best of AM6 and amplifying it.
INFP's are naturally playful and well-liked anyway. My INFP bestie gets laid all the damn time. He just connects with women on such a primal level.
Yeah I guess I'm just letting the self-doubt get to me.
Thanks man.
EDIT: Oh, but wait. I think you misunderstood my post.
My problem is that I can't have conversations and can't relate to people. I never saw hating women as a problem because it got me results.
Hating women isn't what brought the results -- it was the alpha attitude that comes along with it. You can like / love women and still be that alpha that doesn't let women run over him. In my DMSI experience, women are much more fun and enjoyable when I don't "hate" them, but still maintain strong boundaries, letting them know that my time and energy won't be wasted.
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SargeMaximus
I can't speak to your situation but I can say that your ideas intrigue me and I understand the logic behind them.
I can only say that I don't want a woman with those issues in my life. And so my point was more that this attraction thing in DMSI seems to work more than skin deep. It seems to be honing in on my other preferences too. Preferences that are more than physical beauty and in addition to physical beauty. I don't know how else to say it but I do know I'm glad you said something so I can clarify.
I apologize if this or any thing else I posted got you self-conscious in a bad way. I want you to post your ideas and feel free to do so. Your posts get me thinking in ways I never expected. I learn from you and hope you can learn from me.
(09-19-2016, 07:08 PM)chaosvrgn Wrote: [ -> ]Hating women isn't what brought the results -- it was the alpha attitude that comes along with it. You can like / love women and still be that alpha that doesn't let women run over him. In my DMSI experience, women are much more fun and enjoyable when I don't "hate" them, but still maintain strong boundaries, letting them know that my time and energy won't be wasted.
Yeah me and my social skills coach talked about this today actually. Not just with women but even in sales, hatred gets me results.
So he suggested I start keeping a journal of my days and logging what mood I was in, how people treated me, if I got appointments, etc. Since I already do I'll just copy and paste from my journal on here for him.
As for the hatred vs. love thing: It's an old argument but more and more I'm thinking there's something to hatred that just works better. I was comfortable, pleasant and had lots of people confiding in me doing sales today but got nothing. Whereas I know if I was in my hatred mood I would have gotten one.
That being said, I would very much like to move on and make being healthy and being attractive work. I just don't believe it does. I honestly don't.
There's a reason why when I'm full on hate-mode I get what I want but when I'm in social "good" mode I get nothing.
(09-19-2016, 07:08 PM)Steven Wrote: [ -> ]@SargeMaximus
I can't speak to your situation but I can say that your ideas intrigue me and I understand the logic behind them.
I can only say that I don't want a woman with those issues in my life. And so my point was more that this attraction thing in DMSI seems to work more than skin deep. It seems to be honing in on my other preferences too. Preferences that are more than physical beauty and in addition to physical beauty. I don't know how else to say it but I do know I'm glad you said something so I can clarify.
I apologize if this or any thing else I posted got you self-conscious in a bad way. I want you to post your ideas and feel free to do so. Your posts get me thinking in ways I never expected. I learn from you and hope you can learn from me.
Thanks man, I appreciate it.
I've got an issue with socializing. Sometimes I'm a rockstar, other times I'm a retard (no joke). I do think I have borderline asperger's, but have also developed quite the charisma which helps in sales among other things.
But yeah, I hear you. I wouldn't want women with certain issues in my life either. The only reason I felt I should mention it is that I'm afraid I'll not get anything out of the program if that's the kinds of women it attracts. Or (worse yet) it may only attract retards like me. :/