(01-02-2016, 09:52 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]its really emotionaly destroying and draining you will fall in love automatically with many women you sleep and even after months or years you will remember them, you will feel guilt or anger for things you have done to them and things they did to you, you will feel betrayed and ashamed of course there will be times where you will feel above other men and that you are something better but this will not last long, often you will feel very lonely it will become like and addiction you wont be able to be happy or satisfied if you dont have new women you can seduce , you will get mysogynistic views about women and loose a lot of respect, you will loose faith in love and trust less and less , you will be very dependent on your success with them, its not that you get more secure the more you **** its the opposite you will start to identify your self with the results you get and only value yourself on the number of women you have, also you will loose your ability to connect with one women, you will start to compare her with others and be less and less tolerant with little mistakes of her, somewhere along the lines you will get a void you cant fill thats were you will start to abuse drugs or alkohol to relax thats what i heard about the guys of rsd for example, they are heavy into cocain and anti depressants
also you will meet other women who are player by themself and you cant always win you will get betrayled and cheated thats where you start to cheat automaticaly on every girl to prevent being the one who is fooled, you will get jealous and mistrust your girl just because you are a cheater yourself, also there will be girls that want to bring you in jail or beaten up by other guys, their boyfriends husbands and so on....
sometimes you will abuse the girls just to feel better or ask crazy things from her tha hurt her just to show you that you mean something for her, sometimes you will feel dirty and used
its like 20% good things and 80% bad but some will still value these 20% more and take the 80% of bad things
thats just a small part of it
First of all, thank for sharing this. I believe we can all learn from this and not expect our sexual adventures to bring happiness. Though I accepted that long ago, that it will not, but like Nox said, it is an obstacle one needs to experience to realize it. That's why I still chose to run Sex Magnet.
From the sound of this post, it seems like the more of a player a man becomes, the more difficult it gets to maintain a healthy relationship. One do not really want to cheat, but do want to make a fool of oneself by being cheated upon, like you mentioned.
From my experience in online dating and having voice sex with countless girls, I did get that void you are talking about. I also developed emotions for some girls, and the better I got with online dating thing, the less I started to get involved with my emotions. And the greater the void became, more girls I seduced online and had voice sex with, more I shut down my emotions, and the cycle repeated. Until I reached a point where I start to hate to even chat with girls online. Started to hate myself for it. And stopped it all together.
So the question arises, if the player lifestyle makes it so hard to form connections, and trust a girl, is it really worth it? And if it is not, what is the alternative other than settling for one girl at a time, and regret we never dared to live a player lifestyle. Sounds like a double trap. lol
Hey buddy thanks for sharing that. We wouldn't see you as a man of any less value of you were to manifest your perfect.... Finish the sentence. I often think about it too. How can these women be anything more than just satisfying for sex but then I rmbr I'm going to attract someone perfect in a year from now...
It really is a trap in that we can get so focused on the goals we make that we get stuck in thinking that they are our ultimate goal. I don't like to speak for others, but I feel like everyone's ultimate goal in this life is the feeling of accomplishing and experiencing a happy and fulfilling life before passing on. To do that we have almost a laundry list of contradicting needs.
To feel wanted and to want others.
To be powerful and in control while accepting somethings are outside of our power and control.
To break down our sexual barriers and experience pleasure while also maintaining respect and fulfillment through sexuality.
To find and overcome challenges that allow us to seek greater challenges.
Passion.
These are internal goals that are mind expanding and give life purpose. But we need external situations to allow them to happen a lot of the time. It's super confusing and extremely hard to do. But being mindful of the needs and the paths we take are always helpful in reaching them. I love motivational quotes, but it's kind of funny how we try to apply those goals to our short term goals without doing the same to our lifelong goals. Be human and be great. We all kick a** but sometimes we need a reminder. Having down moments and dark reflections can help us to find those reminders if we use them wisely.
(01-02-2016, 11:52 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote: [ -> ] (01-02-2016, 09:52 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]its really emotionaly destroying and draining you will fall in love automatically with many women you sleep and even after months or years you will remember them, you will feel guilt or anger for things you have done to them and things they did to you, you will feel betrayed and ashamed of course there will be times where you will feel above other men and that you are something better but this will not last long, often you will feel very lonely it will become like and addiction you wont be able to be happy or satisfied if you dont have new women you can seduce , you will get mysogynistic views about women and loose a lot of respect, you will loose faith in love and trust less and less , you will be very dependent on your success with them, its not that you get more secure the more you **** its the opposite you will start to identify your self with the results you get and only value yourself on the number of women you have, also you will loose your ability to connect with one women, you will start to compare her with others and be less and less tolerant with little mistakes of her, somewhere along the lines you will get a void you cant fill thats were you will start to abuse drugs or alkohol to relax thats what i heard about the guys of rsd for example, they are heavy into cocain and anti depressants
also you will meet other women who are player by themself and you cant always win you will get betrayled and cheated thats where you start to cheat automaticaly on every girl to prevent being the one who is fooled, you will get jealous and mistrust your girl just because you are a cheater yourself, also there will be girls that want to bring you in jail or beaten up by other guys, their boyfriends husbands and so on....
sometimes you will abuse the girls just to feel better or ask crazy things from her tha hurt her just to show you that you mean something for her, sometimes you will feel dirty and used
its like 20% good things and 80% bad but some will still value these 20% more and take the 80% of bad things
thats just a small part of it
First of all, thank for sharing this. I believe we can all learn from this and not expect our sexual adventures to bring happiness. Though I accepted that long ago, that it will not, but like Nox said, it is an obstacle one needs to experience to realize it. That's why I still chose to run Sex Magnet.
From the sound of this post, it seems like the more of a player a man becomes, the more difficult it gets to maintain a healthy relationship. One do not really want to cheat, but do want to make a fool of oneself by being cheated upon, like you mentioned.
From my experience in online dating and having voice sex with countless girls, I did get that void you are talking about. I also developed emotions for some girls, and the better I got with online dating thing, the less I started to get involved with my emotions. And the greater the void became, more girls I seduced online and had voice sex with, more I shut down my emotions, and the cycle repeated. Until I reached a point where I start to hate to even chat with girls online. Started to hate myself for it. And stopped it all together.
So the question arises, if the player lifestyle makes it so hard to form connections, and trust a girl, is it really worth it? And if it is not, what is the alternative other than settling for one girl at a time, and regret we never dared to live a player lifestyle. Sounds like a double trap. lol
Check out blackdragonblog.com if you're interested in an alternative to the player/monogamous guy dichotomy. It describes a lifestyle in which one doesn't have to either be having emotionally distant one night stands or being in exclusive relationships with one girl. One can choose to have loving connections but without falling into society's disney relationship model. It's about thinking outside of the social conditioned box.
(01-02-2016, 08:38 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]yeah i realized this that no multistage is for a relationship but this is weird because the most guys here want a girlfriend, thats no wonder than that we cant hold a girl in our lives when shanons subs only make us palyers, i expected atleast am to make you more of a boyfriend material but it didnt
i dont know with sm guys i am not interest after am6 in hooking up with many women anymore, i dont know with how much women i slept the past years but it didnt make me happy and being a player wasnt really that what i was looking for, its not like its shown in the movies
Well, so how about Attract Your Perfect Girlfriend? This would be a logical choice for what you want now.
(01-02-2016, 04:02 PM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ] (01-02-2016, 08:38 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]yeah i realized this that no multistage is for a relationship but this is weird because the most guys here want a girlfriend, thats no wonder than that we cant hold a girl in our lives when shanons subs only make us palyers, i expected atleast am to make you more of a boyfriend material but it didnt
i dont know with sm guys i am not interest after am6 in hooking up with many women anymore, i dont know with how much women i slept the past years but it didnt make me happy and being a player wasnt really that what i was looking for, its not like its shown in the movies
Well, so how about Attract Your Perfect Girlfriend? This would be a logical choice for what you want now.
i didnt see one person who run it succesfully
(01-03-2016, 03:05 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ] (01-02-2016, 04:02 PM)Mr. Anderson Wrote: [ -> ] (01-02-2016, 08:38 AM)Dzemoo Wrote: [ -> ]yeah i realized this that no multistage is for a relationship but this is weird because the most guys here want a girlfriend, thats no wonder than that we cant hold a girl in our lives when shanons subs only make us palyers, i expected atleast am to make you more of a boyfriend material but it didnt
i dont know with sm guys i am not interest after am6 in hooking up with many women anymore, i dont know with how much women i slept the past years but it didnt make me happy and being a player wasnt really that what i was looking for, its not like its shown in the movies
Well, so how about Attract Your Perfect Girlfriend? This would be a logical choice for what you want now.
i didnt see one person who run it succesfully
Well, the only way to find out if it works for you would be to try. But, yes, it's a longer commitment and the outcome is not certain.
You could be the first. It's in the store so you have a money back guarentee
I will reconsider it perhaps i just need a break and will start again with sm like alpha said perhaps the run will be different this time
but remember minititans 2. run was disapointing while the first was great
thx guider
Forget about other peoples experience just focus on your own. Np
(01-03-2016, 11:32 AM)FrostedFake Wrote: [ -> ]Dzemoo do you think I should run AM6 before I move on to SM3. Or should I just move on to SM3?
It depends which influence you want to have on your sm3 run.
I would do it just aftet wm2
(01-03-2016, 06:21 AM)Guider Wrote: [ -> ]You could be the first. It's in the store so you have a money back guarentee
I'm going to beat you all to it
yeah it is commitment though *we need it in 5G*
There was a journal on AYPG but it ends without a result and I'm sure there must have been people who may have not registered but got the results, who knows?
(01-03-2016, 11:32 AM)FrostedFake Wrote: [ -> ]Dzemoo do you think I should run AM6 before I move on to SM3. Or should I just move on to SM3?
Don't forget. You gotta do am6 refresher before