Subliminal Talk

For those of us who are married, a subliminal designed to be listened to as a couple that would enhance the positives and reduce the negatives to a minimum.

• Reduce irritable reactions to any behaviors, provocation, and minor everyday annoyances in association with your partner.
  
• Eliminate competition and "one-upmanship" within the context of partnership.
  
• Increase recall of memories and feelings directly associated with how and why you fell in love in the first place.
  
• Enhance willingness to be open to the other person's point-of-view, as well as enhance positive communication skills, to assist in harmonious conflict resolution.
  
• Actively seek activities that suit mutual interests, increasing feelings of commonality, friendship, love, and unity.
  
• Prioritize the health of the marriage and family unit above all other priorities, being careful not to allow the busyness of modern society to chip away from important couple time and activities that enhance the feeling of connectedness.
  
• Disconnect from pride and the need to be right within the relationship.
  
• Increase willingness and frequency of showing your partner signs of love and affection.
  
• Be open, emotionally supportive, and willing to listen when your partner is in emotional distress and increase ability to sense when they need you most.
  
• Actively taking steps to quickly and positively heal any mental and/or emotional wounds directly related to the marriage or partnership (or past wounds that currently negatively affect it), beneficial to both parties.
  
• Increased ability to identify and remedy major marital conflict by seeking outside help, counseling, and healing.
  
• Knowing when to truly "throw-in-the-towel" along with complete awareness of the effect to all involved people (ie children) and part in the healthiest, most amicable way possible.
  
• Better identify roles of responsibility with the family unit, including enhancement of personal abilities and talents that add to the quality and joy of the relationship.
  
• Enhanced openness to allowing, identifying, and sharing happiness and joy.
  
• Make time to enjoy each other's company by increasing frequency of date nights, weekend getaways, and vacations to destinations that the couple finds relaxing, interesting, exciting, and fun.
  
• Diminish awareness and importance of differences in belief and personality that irritate, annoy, and/or are destructive to the marriage while simultaneously increase appreciation for your partner, having increased gratitude for anything and everything they bring that enhances and enlivens the relationship.
  
• Enhanced sex life - you're now willing to give sexual pleasure to your partner in the ways they need and desire because you know it makes them happy, and you know you will receive back in kind.
  
• Increased sexual desire, including finding your partner even more sexually attractive, disregarding physical flaws/imperfections, and increased sexual frequency. Be sexually bold! Be sexually adventurous with your partner! Be completely sexually satisfied!
  
• Easily manifest monetary solutions for any financial problem stressing the marriage or family unit, as well as optimizing career choice and happiness to benefit marital health and benefit the family.
  
• Decreased possessiveness and jealousy of partner, enhanced trust in partner's intent and ability to be monogamous, and enhanced personal commitment to marital partner and intent to be monogamous (unless there is interest and agreement in open marriage - if so, disconnect from jealousy and envy).
  
• Decreased sexual interest in other potential sexual partner's outside of the marriage (unless desire to add a mutually advantageous sexual partner both agree upon - if so, disconnect from jealousy and envy).
  

Any other ideas are welcome to add to the list. It is not in any particular order, and points may overlap. It's just what was off the top of my head in the moment.

That's awesome!

I think this would be an excellent sub.