why dont u just get ur first one out of the way really quick within like 10 minutes
for example after ur foreplay let her get u off with her mouth or w.e way.
then u can go bak the fingering her, makingout , etc....
then 10 minutes later.... or 20 .... of those things get her to make u hard again...or ... if she is hot enough u should already be hard again by itself...
the seoncd time will take u a lot longer to cum for me it varies from 30 min to 2hour plus... lol
u dont even need to worry about premature ejaculations
u can pound it for as long as u want
I guess I should have been more descriptive of my problem with premature ejaculation.
I have used many techniques in the past. Including cumming half an hour before seeing the girl. Cumming once or EVEN twice during sex and by the second or third either I don't get it up as quick or if I do, I still cum under 2 minutes of pounding. So cumming before doesn't help me much.
I've even gotten drunk and only last a minute or two more. The only thing that helps is practice, but once I don't practice having sex for a week, I'm back to premature ejaculation. The only thing I haven't done is have sex everyday or atleast 3-4 times a week for a whole month as a "practice" to overcome the problem. I'm not married or dating so that practice isn't realistic at the moment.
Premature ejaculation isn't as easy to overcome as you say fluffy, ive read books and videos that relate to helping overcome it, nothing worked.
Only thing I haven't done is practice long enough for any of them to work. For example reverse kegel technique. I just lose motivation or forget to do it. Maybe with this sub, I'll start re trying the methods I know and be more consistent. The stop and start, reverse kegel and more sex.
dang...
really after ur first time ... ur second time still is under 2 minutes? Is it because u are still that excited or u arent??
i cum really quick the first time cause im excited ..
well cant really help u with that any more as i have no experience with it .
more and more guilt dreams. Had a dream where my mind was playing tricks on me. Basically it was me imagining something I was tempted to do as guilty and when I was about to choose to make the decision out of sexual need I went back to my "normal" self in my dream and my mind was trying to tell me, see look we made you imagine a scenerio, made it real for you, and you practically allowed yourself to fall for it. I wont go into detail, but self realization and hidden subconscious guilt desires are unraveling. This is awesome.
so far seems good lokko. You may try to awake your sexual chakra through binural meditation simultaneously if nothing works. You can give a try and, as you know, it does not have any side effect with subliminal. Sexual energy can be channeled balancing your over active or under active sacral chakra in sanskrit known as Svadisthana.
Edit: you can do it with binaural, tibetan bowl meditation , chi or by any other energy technique too and there are more than enough free resources in the internet.
Good luck !
I have yet to sleep with a woman starting this sub. I'm still really sensitive when I masterbate which Shannon concluded to be normal but I still feel like mines way too fast of a urge to cum than other people. I love my english lol. I have lots of precum from the thought of sex in my imagination, or even I'm getting horny.
Anyways, Ive been having some intense dreams about tornadoes and floods that we're about to happen. Dunno what that means in my life. I also have had dreams about my ex who is now married and haven't talked to her in 3-4 years now but she still crosses my mind. Recently it's more then ever, and I saw her working at the mall I work at coincidencely..starting thinking about her, dreamt about her..saw her parents in the mall one day too...now as I am writing this, I'm at a library I go to, in this quiet room and her sister is sitting right across me. Like..this is more than just a coincidence now...
"What you think of most is what you will attract"? law of attraction going on or something lol..I wish my ex was mine again, I'd take her to be mine in a heartbeat. Still love her. Marry her in less then a year too.
can u stay hard after u cum? if yes , who cares about how fast u cum
i was inside a super tight girl , my goodness had to cum in like 2 minutes. she was tightest thing i ever been in . then pound her an extra 5 minutes after i came.
Anyways after u cum just keep on pounding it until u get soft. for me its usually another few minutes to 5 minutes . depending on how hot the girl is ... if shes rly hot can go on longer
after wards pull it out throw that shit out , go back to foreplaying and fingering.
Get hard again, go inside her again and repeat..
since u said u cum fast ur second time as well....
Then it will be just another 5 min of pounding and 5 more after u came.
Thats more then enough u dont need to worry about not pounding ur girl enough...
Just spend more time on foreplay first.
Lokko, I suggest you only use the sub to try to overcome PME during the use of the sub. Otherwise you don't know hat did what, or if one thing interfered with another.
Also, when you find a lover if she's someone you feel comfortable doing so with, you might want to ask for her help learning to last longer.
It sounds like your PME may have to do with deep seated feelings of guilt, shame and/or fear.
Exactly why I asked for ephra integrated with this sub before! some people are psychologically affected by premature ejaculation. But maybe if I hit the 3 month mark with all this conditioning it will override that part too, let's see.
I just had a dream about my sis killing herself..wow..That's deep.
I will have to try what you suggest Shannon.
Fluffbunny thx for advice but I'm looking for a cure not alternative temporary solutions.
I had a dream 2 different dreams with sexual activity..First one I don't remember too much. Second one, I was making out with someone older, starting touching her puss.y and she was getting horny but was like "you're not ready yet" I kept going, this time grinding my coc.k on her and I felt the urge to cum, I then stopped quickly and a bit later woke up. I know if I had cum in my dreams, I'd wake up with sperm all over my briefs. Usually when I have sex dreams and cum, I cum in real life. I'm surprised I managed to stop in my dream and not cum.
(04-17-2015, 07:56 AM)lokko Wrote: [ -> ]I'm surprised I managed to stop in my dream and not cum.
Sounds like things are turning a corner for you now. That's great!
For me, whenever I have a dream about something, even the next day it's improved or the issue is removed entirely. Even if that isn't the case for you, it seems obvious your subconscious is beginning to realise the programming is possible and acting out the programing in dreams, this is a good step in the process before it starts to act it out in the real world. Excellent man.
Premature ejaculation means you are probably "turned on powerfully" by the eye candy of her nakedness. Lots of guys can't even get their "fella" to get rock hard in the first place, and need the little blue pills.
When you spurt too early, it can be a disappointment for a woman, but at the same time it can also be perceived as proof you find her attractive enough to fuck.
Many women worry about their attractiveness, and their pulling power, and resort to all sorts of gimmicks, perfumes, sexy clothes to make men want them. They try to hide their insecurities, and hope you will be "hooked enough" to overlook in the morning what they look like without their makeup on.
Premature ejaculation can be helped by changing some of the beliefs/habits you have in your head.
Okay so last night had phone sex and felt the urge to cum after a minute. But I stopped and repeated.
Then today, I masterbate in the shower and it took me a good 5-10 minutes of a fap session to come! I normally can't achieve that unless I practice the "start and stop method" which is to come to a point of no return and completely stop till im soft and then go again. However this time i never practiced that and surprisingly took me longer to cum. I'm excited! I really want to see if this was just a fluke or a true on going improvement taking place!
I guess I could of eloborated more. I was in the bathroom, face towards my toilet masturbating. Not actually in the shower.
Plus for me doesn't make a difference. I use to dry masterbate for a couple of years, I would still cum under a minute.
I noticed many of you are not taking this condition serious. It's not something that can be fixed with such simple common ways to last longer. Not your average numbing cream, sex positions, mind tricks and etc..I used to get drunk and only last a minute longer. Please understand, as much as a I respect the help, but to someone who's lived with this all his life, I can assure you I've done all the research in the world.
Doing kegels or reverse kegels..and the stop and start method are the only things I haven't dedicated myself too. Only because I know this is a deeper issue. It's to do with my sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system. With this sub, I hope to retrain my brain to calm down and last longer.