its late so i'm going to keep this post as short and condense as possible:
Sexual energy is the raw component of charisma. The more your sexual energy flows freely through your body, the more charisma you have.
This is the reason why tantra masters have women literally swoon over them, because they have such a strong flow of sexual energy that women can't help but be sexually attracted to them. Tantra masters have learned to seperate the orgasm from the ejaculation and are able to experience full body orgasms, releasing all tension, and retaining semen. The sexual energy is thus increased and spread around their body, rejuvinating and revigorating them instead of releasing it outside (during a normal ejaculation orgasm the energy is released)
It is also possible to increase the amount of sexual energy you have.
There exists a product called Laura di Gorgio's hypnosis 'Sexual Magnetism' . It teaches you to increase your sexual energy, to project it towards women etc. It is very very effective and gets alot of results.
I'd like to see this as part of the sex magnet subliminal.
First of all:
-increasing sexual energy
-automatically projecting this energy towards other people through eyes, hands, root chakra, etc
-freeing energy blocks so the energy flows more freely through the body
(basically, if you are sexually aroused and have a hard on while talking and flirting with a woman, it will cause an arousal response in her. so if you project sexual energy to her, she will become aroused)
Second:
-Enhancing the male orgasm to teach us to seperate the orgasm from ejaculation, so that we can use the sexual energy to rejuvenate and invigorate ourselfs instead of losing it through orgasm. This also allows the person to have 4-5 orgasms without ejaculation and thus gives them complete control.
-program it so that people become aware of their build up energy and understand that they have to release semen every few weeks, else they will get into all kinds of kundalini-related trouble.
(09-04-2013, 05:35 PM)soulfly1 Wrote: [ -> ]Second:
-Enhancing the male orgasm to teach us to seperate the orgasm from ejaculation, so that we can use the sexual energy to rejuvenate and invigorate ourselfs instead of losing it through orgasm. This also allows the person to have 4-5 orgasms without ejaculation and thus gives them complete control.
-program it so that people become aware of their build up energy and understand that they have to release semen every few weeks, else they will get into all kinds of kundalini-related trouble.
Sounds sweet. I've read about tantric sex in passing a few times. It sounds great but also sounds very difficult to learn, let alone master. If we could intuitively know how to be this way via subliminal, it'd be Epic!
soulfly, I agree on everything you said.
Especially the separation of orgasm and ejaculation. I thought multiple times about requesting such a subliminal myself and just saw somebody before me realized how powerful this sub would be for a "Sexmagnet". I remember shannon also saying an increase in sexual energy would have powerful effects on the auras that the subliminals create.
Non-ejaculatory orgasms increase your sexual energy tremendously. Not ejaculating keeps your substance high, and the orgasm activates it and turns it into sexually active energy
And the older you get the more important not ejaculating becomes. I'd (still) definitely be in favor of a sub that helps with that (non-ejaculatory orgasms). Right now as I type this its Saturday night and I don't really have any motivation to do anything but eat and watch TV due to having my girl over last night. Feels kinda lame, almost disappointed in myself.
Btw, the stamina training from SM3 kicked in about 3 months after for me, while on AM. Not in a way that I could go as hard as I can, but I can just regulate it much better.
I thought the SM auras already probably work that way, i.e. you get more sexual, sex drive increases and then you'll "project sex" outwards --> aura?
What, can't do all that stuff yourself? If you want to separate orgasm and ejaculation it takes strengthening of the pelvic floor. Knowledge of anatomy and practice is required; a subliminal can't do that alone.
And messing around with chakras is the last thing I want a sub to do. Projecting energy out the root chakra is ill advised because energy is meant to rise up. That's what Kundalini is all about.
Kundalini is only dangerous when people have blocked chakras. One should learn to first open and manipulate their own chakra energy as par for the course. I wouldn't trust some chick to do it for me.
Semen retention alone will do wonders for attraction because it is a 'subtle essence', as stated in yogic texts, that spreads throughout the entire body. This also means the aura, which it will empower.
I play around with these concepts, sure. It's not too hard when you have SM3 laying a solid foundation. However, I'm on Stage 3 and am also getting to the point where all I want is automatic approach and seduction!
(07-11-2015, 08:42 AM)LionKing Wrote: [ -> ]I thought the SM auras already probably work that way, i.e. you get more sexual, sex drive increases and then you'll "project sex" outwards --> aura?
yes but non-ejaculatory orgasms enhance that exponentially over time to an unbeleiveable öeveö. Tantric masters created powerful sexual auras through this technique alone long before the technology for subliminals existed.
Yes, you don't need as much arousal and orgasms as the SM3 aura is already activating some of your energy so you don't have to do that by arousing yourself. But using arousing subliminals makes not ejaculating more important (not less). Subliminals can't create energy out of nothing. They only activate the substance you already have (jing) and turn it into energy (chi) and use that energy to project it outwards and create an aura.
To prevent your auras from dissipating you have to provide them continuosly with further substance(jing). And since your Jing consumption is higher during SM3 (due to the auras turning it into chi) not ejaculating is even more important and beneficial than without it.
But it is also harder to accomplish it, because by being aroused the desire to ejaculate also increases and it is harder to have a dry orgasm only. If there would be a sub that counteracts that effect and helps with remaining non-ejaculatory the SM3 auras could reach a way higher and more powerful level. It would be aswesome if subliminals could enable people to reach in 6-12 months the same results with low effort that Tantric masters had to work their ass off for 10 years.
In my (admittedly limited) understanding you can either flex your muscles to stop the contractions, or you can somehow relax them to the effect and timing is always important. So its not just about strength, I believe. I've been testing holding a reverse kegel right when things start happening and attempting to hold the 1st involuntary spasm with limited success. Can't really practice too often if you expel stuff every time.
I do remember many times during SM3 when I went out I'd have this cloud of sex around me and I'd get exited and amplify it.. until I'd feel I "ran out", out of fuel, and then I'd just feel weak (or maybe normal).
How does one increase substance(jing)? Besides diet, I mean. Would I need to climb a mountain?
(07-11-2015, 08:55 AM)RisingSon Wrote: [ -> ]What, can't do all that stuff yourself? If you want to separate orgasm and ejaculation it takes strengthening of the pelvic floor. Knowledge of anatomy and practice is required; a subliminal can't do that alone.
the hard part is not achieving dry orgasms once, but continuing having those dry orgasms even though you're getting more and more aroused 24/7 and your urge to ejaculate increases
(07-11-2015, 08:55 AM)RisingSon Wrote: [ -> ]And messing around with chakras is the last thing I want a sub to do. Projecting energy out the root chakra is ill advised because energy is meant to rise up. That's what Kundalini is all about.
Just because the word "chakra" isn't specifically used doesn't mean they aren't already influenced by the subs. You know SM3 and all other aura creating subs ARE already "messing around" with your chakras? Not ejaculating helps the chakras refill and rejuvenate while they are powering the auras the subliminals enhance.
(07-11-2015, 08:55 AM)RisingSon Wrote: [ -> ]Semen retention alone will do wonders for attraction because it is a 'subtle essence', as stated in yogic texts, that spreads throughout the entire body. This also means the aura, which it will empower.
That is true. And combined with SM3 or other practices that activate that built-up energy your sexual charsima gets projected even stronger. Semen retention sub would be very interesting. It could power up all the other subliminals that will be used after it.
(07-11-2015, 09:21 AM)LionKing Wrote: [ -> ]How does one increase substance(jing)? Besides diet, I mean. Would I need to climb a mountain?
There are many ways to increase jing. Climbing a mountain is beneficial because the air on that height is infused with lots of chi (negative ions) that condenses to jing and can be transmuted back to chi. You could buy a negative ion generator for a similiar effect. There are many reports of people buying negative ion generators to cure their ansthma and are surprised their sex drive increases. That's because they don't know about yin/yang chi and how increased sex drives is a sign their chi is increased and how negative/positive ions increase/decrease chi.
Oxygen is also a great way to increase your chi. That's why there are so many breathing exercises in Taoist and buddhist traditions. Oxygen kills off the fungi and viruses in your blood that use up your jing. The more oxygenated your blood and body is the better you can absorb jing from food (higher efficiency of your organs) and the less jing you loose everyday (less funghi eating away you jing). You can also electrify your blood to efficiently kill off those funghi. you can take certain minerals at megadose (10000 times the RDA) that still cost you less than $2 per month. You can improve your circulation to increase jing absorbtion.
And you can do much much more than that.
But the one thing that increases your jing the most is semen retention (by far). If you don't do semen retention but everything else, you can still improve a bit, but you'll shoot jour jing out with your semen anyway. The reason is your semen gets higher quality the more jing you have through the other practices... and you will also loose more jing with loosing higher quality semen which compensates your gains.
That's why it's so hard to gather above-normal amounts of jing/chi/shen. The more jing you already have the harder it is to retain it (not ejaculate). If there would be a sub that makes it easier.... your jing,chi and even shen would grow exponentially. That way your sex drive, your health and charisma would also grow exponentially. Results of other subliminals would also grow exponentially since they have more substance to work with.
I don't really get all this chi and jing jang stuff, but can't you just not masturbate or not have sex for a while and retent semen that way?
yes you can. but most people want to have sex, so for longterm semen retention you need to be able to separate orgasm and ejaculation. Also having sex without ejaculation has some positive side effects that celibacy alone doesn't have.
Thank you athanas. Negative ions sound a tad new agey to me, but coming from you its always interesting.
(07-11-2015, 02:45 PM)iRRepLaceaBLe Wrote: [ -> ]But what if our body makes us ejaculate during sleep ? We can't can't possibly control this therefore it would sabotage us.
What is more,it is very hard to not let ourselves cum during continuos intercourse .How can we preserve our semen if we are having sex or getting bjS for hours ?
you can control it, you probably just don't know yet how. You only ejaculate during sleep if you had a wet dream about something sexual. If you ejaculate during sleep without having a wet dream... you probably still had a wet dream but you don't remember it. There are 2 ways to prevent having wet dreams. One is difficult but works 100% of the time, the other is easy but only works if the sexual dreams aren't rooted too deeply.
The easy way is to get rid of your wet dreams while you are awake. wet dreams are an unconscious release of the built up that is created while you are awake. Most often this is the case when you are used to getting aroused often and release often through masturbation, porn or sex, and suddenly you stop releasing/ejaculating. Your body is used to getting its release and will release when you don't have much conscious control to hold the release back (when you sleep). The key is to change your waking arousal patterns so they don't get triggered as often while you are awake, so they don't build up aroused energy that gets released during sleep. This can be done in many different ways.
The 2nd way is harder but always works. It is about becoming lucid during your dreams. When you are lucid in your dream you can change the dream and revoke it's sexual charge (i.e. by changing to a neutral and non sexual scenery). That's how I got rid of my wet dreams. I didn't have a single wet dream for 23 years and when I started semen retention they suddenly started.
I practiced becoming lucid and when I had a sex dream (which happened frequently at that time) I consciously stopped f*cking when I knew I'm about to come. I had to do this for 2 weeks consciously. After that even when I wasn't lucid I was so conditioned to not coming while dreaming that the wet dreams stopped without any intervention needed. I still had sex dreams, but they didn't become wet dreams as I broke the conditioning of having to "release" during sleep. That's how I cured myself from wet dreams and how anybody else can do that as well.
Quote:What is more,it is very hard to not let ourselves cum during continuos intercourse .How can we preserve our semen if we are having sex or getting bjS for hours ?
That's the difficult part. It's about having control of your mental state, and controling your arousal. If you meditate regularly you slowly gain conscious control over otherwise unconscious processes. You gain control over your thoughts, over your emotions and even over your heartbeat, control over your arousal is way more forward than that and faster to learn. The hard part isn't learning to control your arousal it's having the discipline to actually doing it once you know how
(07-11-2015, 01:28 PM)LionKing Wrote: [ -> ]Thank you athanas. Negative ions sound a tad new agey to me, but coming from you its always interesting.
well you should be more apprehensive about "jing, chi and shen" those are the things western science beleive is new age bullsh*t. Those are terms I learned from ancient esoteric Taoist traditions that are not really accepted by science. Negative Ions however are the least esoteric substances in my post, they are very well accepted and known in western science, e.g. your body uses calcium ions to create tension in your muscles and activate them, and magnesium ions to relax them. It is also known that falling water create a lot of negative Ions in the air
e.g. during a storm or near a waterfall as the H2O bond gets ripped apart to H3O+ and OH- (latter released into the air as negative ions)
Quote:The atmosphere we breathe normally is full of positive and negative ions. Air conditioning, lack of ventilation, and long dry spells remove negative ions, which usually serve to latch onto airborne dirt particles and wrestle them to the floor, rendering the air purer. Roughly one-third of the population seems to be particularly sensitive to negative-ion depletion. The proportion of negative ions is highest around moving water (storms, oceans, rivers, waterfalls)—It's no wonder that we feel so energized at the beach. The best ratios of negative to positive ions are associated with waterfalls and the time before, during, and after storms. The worst are found in windowless rooms and closed, moving vehicles. Air purifiers typically work by emitting negative ions, which purify room air by attaching to impurities and sinking them.
High concentrations of negative ions are essential for high energy and positive mood (Thayer, 1996)[1]. In fact, Marian Diamond, a professor of neuroanatomy at the University of California, Berkeley, has found that levels of negative ions are inversely related to levels of serotonin in the brain. Negative ions suppress serotonin levels in much the same way that natural sunlight suppresses melatonin. Hence the invigorating effect of fresh air and sunshine and the correspondingly depressed feelings associated with being closed in and dark. If you deplete the air of negative ions, you experience an increase in serotonin and its attendant drowsiness and relaxation—not what you want when mental agility is demanded. Diamond's research (1988)[2], along with other information on ions, is summarized in Yepsen (1987).[3]
negative and positive Ions aren't esoteric at all. Only me comparing them to jing chi and shen makes them look esoteric. I just find it funny how scientists observe the effects of ions (negative -> lower serotonin, lower depression, asthma cure and higher sex drive, positive -> aggression, tension, ill feeling) and don't see any connection to those "random" effects. E.g. they can explain why neg ions could be beneficial for asthma but they are surprised and have no clue why and how it increases sex drive. But when you know negative Ions are yin, and positive Ions are yang it's no surprise at all how they interact with your body. Yang (positive) Ions activate and deplete your body, Yin (negative) Ions recharge and refill your body. When your body is full of Yin it turns to Yang (higher sex drive) just like a night turns to day.
Negative Ions are actually the reason why the air smells so fresh after a storm, they bind to the positively charged impurities in the air and pull them to the ground leaving the air clean. And knowing that falling water produces negative Ions, the "vitamins of the air" is it still a surprise why the stereotype of a chi-gathering taoist monk is somebody who meditates under the waterfall? Or is climbing a mountain to meditate in a cave? (Very high concentration of Ions in air of high altitude) They do this because of the higher amount of chi (Ions) around them so they can progress twice as fast as usual with gaining mental clarity ("enlightenment").