I had a great weekend, and Friday night was especially interesting. At dinner on Friday night, with my parents and eldest son, our waitress was a beautiful Asian woman. She seemed to have a good attitude, so I started teasing her with a full court press for practice.
When she brought the bread to our table, she mentioned that they didn't have any wheat bread ready, and asked if it would be OK. I said it would be fine, and that we'd find a way to survive. She gave a genuine smile, and it was on like Donkey Kong. She asked if we wanted some when it was available, and I declined. When she returned with our drinks, I asked where the wheat bread was. She was confused for a second, so I smirked to let her know it was a joke, and the rapport came on fast. We were trading wheat bread jokes all night, and she was cracking up over it.
We were also exchanging glances. This was an awesome seasoning added to a fun night out with family. What was especially interesting is that neither my parents nor my son seemed to notice anything amiss. My flirting was so smooth, it's almost like the Naturalizer was affecting them as well.
My AM5 pattern seems to be ingrained in me: I got an urge to change subs today, 32 days after starting Ultra Success. I won't indulge the urge; I was just noticing the similarity.
After 32 days, I notice the following:
- I put more care into how I dress. I'm not wearing suits to work, but I've layered a couple times following basic advice I've found in various places.
- It is more natural to accomplish the things I set out to do, such as charming the waitress from Friday night. It was incredibly smooth and natural to do it.
- I've set up a plan to reorganize my room to gain more functional space, remove the clutter, and make it easier to keep clean.
- When I wake up early, which happens more often now, I tend to use the time to get something done, rather than laying in bed lazing around.
- My scheduling is improving.
- I am remembering to do things that need doing more often.
I can't wait to see what comes in the months ahead.
Success, being an abstract concept, is open to the interpretation of the subconscious. Without creating definite goals, one becomes a guided missile using a random number generator to determine the target. I've been looking for professional success, when the success has been in my personal life.
OK, it's not quite that bad. It would be better if I had created defined goals. This is no fault of the product, it is my error.
My subconscious has been placed in the position of following implied goals, rather than ones which have been explicitly defined. Based on my observation, those goals have been learning Spanish, being a good father to my kids and women, because I'm doing very well with those.
Spanish has been coming to me naturally, and the language paradigm has been easy to adopt.
I've been having incredible success flirting and building rapport with women of all ages and appearance. It comes naturally, without conscious thought or effort. It feels like whatever I say increases rapport and inspires good feelings in the woman.
With my kids, the patience and superior paternal attitude that began in AM5 has increased and synergized with my children. As the dad, I set the tone of the relationship; being calm and firm creates a positive feedback loop between my disposition and theirs.
That's good to hear Sean! I like your first passage about success^ and I believe that as a person grows and achieves more results, your definition of success will change from experiencing personal gains to more needed professional ones. This will occur to keep your personal life which you feel so comfortable striving in and everything else on an even keel. This way your success is truely ultra.
Thanks
Fonzy
I can't wait to see what comes of x44b!!!
You're right. You can't. lol I think I have accidentally discovered how to replicate the emotional state in which every man is naturally at his most naturally attractive to, and pursued by women. You know how when you're looking for a woman, they're nowhere to be found, but when you're happily taken, every woman's interested? Yeah. Well apparently that happens because he's in the right emotional state of energy mode and expression, and she senses it and is attracted to and by it.
What I believe this means is that if I can create a state of loving openness within a man, without having him have any specific "target" for it externally, similar to how he is when he is genuinely in love with a woman who is not present, women go nuts. I believe that is because that is their natural state of highest bliss and they sense it from him and are instantly attracted because it is so rare from a man.
But I am unsure whether this is actually what is taking place right now. However, I have to say, X44b does seem to be putting me in a state very similar to "being in love", although without any specific woman being the focus of that loving openness... so, according to my theory, they ALL respond.
I believe that everyone loves to be in love, and women especially find that energy addictive for themselves. Finding a man in that state means he's emotionally open, AND he is projecting that energy they want to feel... what's not to be attracted to?
Interestingly, they seem to be responding with not just attraction, but with action that suggests they are already in such a relationship with me. They are going out of their way to take care of me... and I mean, I had it happen with three or four women I encountered yesterday going significantly out of their way to give me special attention and affectionately doing things that they didn't do for others, or didn't have to do for me... going the extra mile. Like the bartender coming around the counter to bring me my doggy bag yesterday. She came and basically positioned herself as closely to me as she could. Why didn't she stay behind the counter and just hand it to me from there? I believe this was a subconscious indication that she was wanting to be within my energy field, and experience that lovingness I seem to be experiencing, and apparently projecting.
I had an employee at Michael's not only give me stellar service and do so with visible joy, she also gave me a discount of over $40 that she didn't have to give me, while personally checking me out (when she had been working on stocking the shelves) and she enlisted the aid of another female employee who also immediately shifted from bored/tired to joyfully helping me.
The first one, I had actually come to me to ask if I needed help as I was walking by, which isn't so unusual for good staff, but in this case it seemed a bit aggressively helpful... which I appreciated, but I think that may have been an instant reaction to my energy. She asked if she could help me find something, and I said, "Bathroom?" She pointed me to it and I thanked her and went my way. Then I came out and I saw her and said, "Canvasses?" And she didn't point me... she personally led me to them, when they were 30 feet away and she was busy. Then I got those and wandered around trying to remember what I had come for, and for the life of me couldn't, so I circled back around and came back to her and said, "And now I need you to tell me what it was I came for besides these canvasses, but which I cannot remember what it is." Playfully, flirtaciously. She enjoyed it, but looked like a deer stunned in the headlights with confusion. Amazingly, she actually figured out what I was looking for that I had forgotten about... and then led me to the other girl, who led us to it.
I was amazed that she actually figured it out... she said she had seen me browsing the frames, which means she was watching me. She led me over to the frames, and then started saying things that reminded me that, yes, I was there for frames for some of my posters. Then she led me to the framing department, paged the other girl, and when the other girl came, she explained what I needed and they both led me to the right frames. Both had been busy... now were rendering unusual levels of customer service with a joyful pleasantry I had not initially seen on their faces. And when I put the frames in my cart, she (her name was Michelle) offered to carry them up to the register for me... okay, let's do that. And then she continued to go the extra mile by opening up a register, instead of having me wait behind one person who was almost finished being checked out, and she furthermore found a coupon for me that saved me $43.
Then I jokingly asked her if she was going to carry them out to my car and she laughed, and said that if she could, she would, but they won't let her out of the store. I believe she actually would have, had that not been a rule for her to follow.
I don't know how much of this is X44b, and how much is coincidence and how much might be BAMM... but I just switched to Stage 4 of BAMM last night, so if it was BAMM we should see some difference.
I'm thinking I should make a "Blissful Lovingness Towards [Gender]" title... or maybe just "Blissful Lovingness", period.
Shannon, if you would like to control the variables in this experiment, I will happily volunteer to test it. You have my email address to discuss this privately, if you so desire.
The products I am currently using are US 4G, and occasionally Sleep Magic. The effects of these seem to be well-known, so the baseline would be known.
Quote: lol I think I have accidentally discovered how to replicate the emotional state in which every man is naturally at his most naturally attractive to, and pursued by women. You know how when you're looking for a woman, they're nowhere to be found, but when you're happily taken, every woman's interested? Yeah. Well apparently that happens because he's in the right emotional state of energy mode and expression, and she senses it and is attracted to and by it.
Is this already in WM or is since it's a new discovery it hasn't yet been included?
(04-02-2013, 07:58 AM)Sean Wrote: [ -> ]Shannon, if you would like to control the variables in this experiment, I will happily volunteer to test it. You have my email address to discuss this privately, if you so desire.
The products I am currently using are US 4G, and occasionally Sleep Magic. The effects of these seem to be well-known, so the baseline would be known.
+1 to the list of volunteers for this. I'm currently using a single stage sub and won't start on anything major until middle of may so I do have the bandwidth as well.
(04-02-2013, 07:58 AM)Sean Wrote: [ -> ]Shannon, if you would like to control the variables in this experiment, I will happily volunteer to test it. You have my email address to discuss this privately, if you so desire.
The products I am currently using are US 4G, and occasionally Sleep Magic. The effects of these seem to be well-known, so the baseline would be known.
I'm finishing AM5.0 in a week so I can also test it if there's a need.
It seems I have triggered an avalanche of eager volunteers. I should not be surprised: Most heterosexual men will enjoy having this effect on women.
The energy and effect you describe sounds extremely similar to an old experiment called Natural Grounding. I'm sure many of the men on the forum have tried it at one point or another. I did it solid for a few months. Basically it involves taking pre-selected videos of foreign women who express their natural female side, you will first find a way to make yourself cry to put you into an emotional state then meditate on this woman's energy. It would make you practically fall in love with this woman in the videos. I will say women responded to me during this period I used them, much different then they ever did.
I hope you plan to incorporate this into new versions of AM
"I now focus on hot foreign women making me cry before falling in love with them"
Doesn't sound very alpha to me.
Dudes I cry all the time
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btw Shannon, I like your "Blissful Lovingness" idea.