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boromir - I've gotten that before! A really cute girl that I met back in November I could tell had some sort of interest in me before I started this self-improvement process. She would smile and seemed to enjoy talking to me. However, back in February I saw her again for the first time. I was a changed man after doing Aura and MM. I walked into the room and she wouldn't even look at me, wouldn't say hi to me, wouldn't hug me, anything! She just ignored I was there. Later on she started making eye contact with me (a lot of times for me it comes later in the night after they get more comfortable). She was holding it for a while and then I'd look back and she'd smile really big, giggle and look down. I would smile back and laugh because I knew what I was doing her. She hardly said a word to me though. I grabbed the camera out of her hand and grabbed her to take a picture with her. She enjoyed it but she was completely in a daze wondering why the hell I'd take a picture with her. She ended up leaving, never said bye, barely talked to me besides saying if I came to see her at work I'd get a free beer
So I took her up on that, couldn't really find the place she works so I started texting her. She asks me to go with her sometime. I said Are you asking me on a date? And she replied 'well you're waay too hot for me but sure you can call it that'. I told her to have some confidence and hinted that she has a shot (because I did actually like her). Then she started texting me crazy and wanted me to come see her that night! She wasn't shy around me much anymore, well kind of, but not so much. Use it to your advantage though! We sexy guys are responsible for making women feel comfortable around us. Once you do, though, their attitude changes and you can see how they try to impress you. Like my date the night. She was completely nervous I could see it in her face as she wouldn't look into my eyes and hardly spoke. I started asking her about herself and showed that I was a friendly guy and immediately she opened up and wouldn't shut up. She then began talking about herself and trying to make it sound like she was a really cool person. She even started downing herself about things (I think it may have been nerves). But that all comes down to the fact that a lot of these women think we are 'too hot' for them so we wouldn't bother being with them, they have no shot so they automatically assume, we would be uninterested. And even after the date we had, she still believed that until I asked her out again. That's when she became even more comfortable with me and wanted to be around me more.
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Quote: sexy guys are responsible for making women feel comfortable around us. Once you do, though, their attitude changes and you can see how they try to impress you.
I call it "explosion effect" When she feels comfortable around you and you show her "green light" sometimes she will go nuts. Start to touch you, it feels like a devil takes control over her and she just must make out with you or better ;-)
I am looking forward to have these results by myself! ;-)
(06-06-2010, 06:27 AM)Aschenisto Wrote: [ -> ]I call it "explosion effect" When she feels comfortable around you and you show her "green light" sometimes she will go nuts. Start to touch you, it feels like a devil takes control over her and she just must make out with you or better ;-)
Exactly! With these beliefs in your subconscious mind it really is true that most women will want to fuck you by being in your presence. Once you give them the que that it's ok, of course they will take advantage of that
Women are the horniest creatures on this planet haha. We typically think of guys to be hornier than women, I don't think that's true. The different between women and men is that most men are needy for women, a lot are desperate for any woman, they just want sex. Women, on the other hand, want passion, but they love sex, if that guy comes along (like us) they will literally turn into your little sex slave and keep begging you for more everyday. Really, it's that powerful.
(06-06-2010, 12:29 PM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ] (06-06-2010, 06:27 AM)Aschenisto Wrote: [ -> ]I call it "explosion effect" When she feels comfortable around you and you show her "green light" sometimes she will go nuts. Start to touch you, it feels like a devil takes control over her and she just must make out with you or better ;-)
Exactly! With these beliefs in your subconscious mind it really is true that most women will want to ***** you by being in your presence. Once you give them the que that it's ok, of course they will take advantage of that Women are the horniest creatures on this planet haha. We typically think of guys to be hornier than women, I don't think that's true. The different between women and men is that most men are needy for women, a lot are desperate for any woman, they just want sex. Women, on the other hand, want passion, but they love sex, if that guy comes along (like us) they will literally turn into your little sex slave and keep begging you for more everyday. Really, it's that powerful.
Blanket statement. Bzzt.
You are talking about a subset of "all women". Not "all women".
But it is that powerful. Provide a woman with a man who:
- Cares about her pleasure
- Learns how to give her pleasure
- Provides her the safety and privacy to express her sexuality without consequences
- Gives her whatever intimacy she needs
- And a man who triggers her sexual "love map"
and you'll very likely have a woman who cannot get enough.
I agree most women are inherently horny all the time which unfortunately I learned at a later age.
The hard part is triggering the necessary response at the right time, the right place for the right outcome.
The biggest thing seems to be giving a woman a safe environment in which to allow herself to express her natural and inherent sexuality without negative consequences - i.e. reputation destruction, etc. Holy ****, what most women will do when they have that is amazing. I cannot for the life of me comprehend why any man would not be smart enough to provide a woman with his silence. If she trusts you not to stab her in the back, talk about her behind her back, and let her be sexual... she'll usually give you what you (and she) want. How come it's so hard for guys to be trustworthy in such situations? She wants to be what you wish she was. Let her be what she is, and stop calling her stupid names and making her afraid and ashamed of being a sexual being!
In Finland there is a term called "jatkot". It means afterparty and it means your home or her place. So next time when you have such a good time surprise her and say where is "jatkot". I think your place is a safe location to her for express her sexuality. :-)
By the way I have noticed that I have this sexy smirk or sexy confident eyes. My friend is a player. Every time when he goes out she will find a girl and fuck her. She have similar smirk and sexy eyes than me (well I think I have) So I am on a right track ;-)
By the way is it normal when I have been doing my Aura of sexiness women call me player. When women approached most of them just say: "I have many girls, you will have a different girl every weekend" What the fuck... When I was working women call me player too... great. One girl was very curious about my sex life and asked will I pick up again girls... albeit I do not even pick up
I like that Aschenisto, it kind of sounds like jackpot!
You mention Aura of Sexiness, I had something happen to me today, which could be directly or indirectly the result of listening to the subs. I got a call at my office from my State, and I immediately assumed they were contesting my tax return. It turned out it was a sexy sounding lady from the licensing board inquiring if indeed I wanted all licensing correspondences sent to my home address rather then my office address. I told her I appreciated her concern and I was happy with my election. Long story short, she starts calling me "sweetie" and after a little more chatting calls me "handsome". Now never in my life have I had a stranger woman, especially from the State, refer to me that way, maybe a waitress in the State of TX, or a slutty bartender-they call everyone honey, too weird again!
@Aschenisto-Women may think your a player but just be honest and tell them you are seeing multiple women, then they won't see you as a player anymore
Besides women find a man who gets lots of women very attractive! That's a great sign!
@boromir-I too notice lately when I talk to women on the phone at work how comfortable they are talking to me. It's hard to explain but the sound in their voice and the way they talk to me is almost like they've known me for a long time. It's really hot actually. One woman yesterday giggled a lot for no apparent reason, it must just be the sound of my voice and I speak confidentially, I take my time, pause for a while, and sometimes cut her off.
Maybe, that's my problem-I never am pretentious.
(06-06-2010, 06:27 AM)Aschenisto Wrote: [ -> ]Quote: sexy guys are responsible for making women feel comfortable around us. Once you do, though, their attitude changes and you can see how they try to impress you.
I call it "explosion effect" When she feels comfortable around you and you show her "green light" sometimes she will go nuts. Start to touch you, it feels like a devil takes control over her and she just must make out with you or better ;-)
Love it! Explosion that is.
I have been doing some experimentations about Aura of Sexiness.
I listened it three hours when watching movies. After watching movies and when I looked myself front of mirror I felt relaxed and very sexy. I really liked what I see. I also had this "empty feeling"
But there is something better. When I listened it while awake. I went out and I ended up fucking a girl. So my conclusion is that I will do it while sleeping and while awake. Sooner or later I will buy woman magnet.
I'm moving this thread to "User Journals" as it no longer falls under troubleshooting. Thank you, if you have any problem with this PM me.
i've just added this to my playlist. i really hope the 3rd gen has been revised since this thread so i don't get any gay attention lol.