Day 31
(Meet and greet)
Have a few extra meetings this week, which is great cause it gives me a chance to be around people don't get as much to see in person anymore since the covid times. Which is it great to be able to get out and about for sure.
Anyway, it is stunning because of the fact of not being around who's sniped is who's not. One of the bands members' girls back in the day got sniped so hard on some earlier dmsi versions her mom made her keep away from me cause the reactions were so strong. She chooses not respond since it's clear she's taken same for the golf of the sound guy which which something going on back in the day. Examples where they have been something in the past but life moves on.
On the plus side also are all girls they are quoted on a quote taken with a bf's except maybe one. I do notice it does limit my reactions to about 3 people as well so that made it easy to focus on. That being said the server girl who's beef is way older and too much for him to handle went out of her way to make sure I had drinks etc. as well as 100% eye contact and focus all night couldn't take her eyes off me. Same for a new single mom and her sister I'vei've only met a few times. Just keep staring at me and will not look away no matter what plus always keep themselves in my line of sight at all times.
The main focus of the meeting as this tall pretty red headed mixed girl the gf of one of the assistant leaders there and he was the one giving lessons this week. She had been kind of on the heavy side but got some work done and got herself looking a lot better. Prior to this sub I had a few looks Here and there nothing to write home about. Tonight was a different aura gone crazy around her, and she sat in front of me the whole night looking at me giving all kinds of iois. This went on even while her bf was giving the lesson. To the point where he had to apologize to his girl to make sure they were good in public. Later that night I did run into her at the end and clearly something is there, and she my type of course taken as well. We'll see where this goes.
This would start the night off on a new of supposedly taken people react the most to the aura a common thread. The aura seems to be a strong indicator of how strong a relationship is. In many cases it not hard to see some couples are having a tough time of it or someone wants a change. This seems to be where things are headed given enough time.
(The bar)
Tonight they had live music, a few rap bands and a metal band at the end, plus on top of it another birthday girl party. Good times, the beer pong girl as soon as a seat opened she flopped down right next to me super close and remained there all night. Which is ok in that it's to be expected cause she's super crushed on me and if a outsider looks at it they would think she was my gf. I of course have no interest in her physically at this time maybe her golf which is a little quieter, but I do appreciate her effort so I don't mind her around as much. Not really helping me meet new people, but she is a good example of someone who has been exposed to the aura the most this past month and has a gf. This makes her reactions to be a good gage how people might respond given enough time. Before this, on demise she might respond a little sometimes but nothing like this.
Later that night after the beer pong girl had left, The birthday girl came and chilled out next to me. I ran into her and a few of her friends earlier in the night so we had crossed paths. She was responding me heavy since a lot of her friends had already gone. There was also another older guy who was gaming her, and she was like in a vice grip, clearly responding to me heavy while doing nothing. The old dude was gaming her up hard doing every pa trick in the book he could to keep her attention. I was I was looking at him go, and I did appreciate the effort he was taking and the persistence Anyway so after seeing this, thought you go, old timer so all it took me my focus of her slightly and turned around, let him do his thing get his one night stand in. I wasn't really interested in her as much anyway just got passively sniped some how since the beer pong girl left for the night.
It's funny cause I remember doing all the pua tricks or at least trying some had a friend that was super hard core into that and was able to get some results with that. I wasn't really good at it but did repect the results you could get with it. It is surely amazing how far dmsi to x4a case come in getting response even compared to quote on quote game pua stuff.
Even latter at the close of the bar the DJ came with another smoking hot tall pretty blond. Say what you will, but he does know how to get hot gf's I should say. He's a cool guy and all I'm stunned once again while his hot gf come from around him to sitting right next to me, leaning in on me just chilling. I think I had seen her maybe once before, never once paid me any attention at all. Started to be a recurring theme
(01-28-2023, 01:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ] (01-27-2023, 03:40 AM)Shadow2200 Wrote: [ -> ]Day 30
(Work)
Had a new girl funny enough has the same name as I keep coming around making excuses to chat. Which is cool at first the area had only slight effected her as a few days has passed its becoming very clear she is responding. She's a young confident Latino chic, very pretty and she knows it. Walks around like she owns the place. Pretty much a cheerleader type. She really seems like she had to try to much cause she knows she pretty and she gets her away. This turns out to be a good sub for first impressions cause with his added effect things usually only go up from there. Same with most of the girls I find attractive at some level, you quickly are becoming the guy girls don't mind being around which is always a good place to be a ahla women magnet.
(The club)
I work the night shift sometimes double into days so differently I this last month been trying to get out more to test x4a out and less working all the time. However, since tonight as beer pong night and a big crowd woke a bit late but made it non the less. Was also a birthday for big girl that last week hosted the beer pong games while the DJ who normally dose it was at work.
Much like work all the girls that have responded in the past continued to with a little improvement each time, but since I got there a bit late, didn't have as much time as I like to be around them. I am getting used to but still stunned by how just a month ago, most of them could care less about me or react to me in any way. I mean some of them did, but not like this where giving enough time might actually go somewhere.
Even more stunned the birthday girl and her gf both are responding very quickly to my aura. The big black girl that's helped with the beer pong I minced before made sure I had a birthday sack from her party. Which is funny cause I gave my party bag to the cute bartender so she could have one. Her girlfriend is late keeps prettier of the two giving me strong eye contact while keeping herself pointed at me despite being with her girl on party night. Which seems to not really make much difference the sniper and who responds seems to be very honest.
Had some random guy be a jerk and try to bum off free drinks, he was drunk etc. and so had a lot of liquid confidence. With the DRS thing, it quickly becomes clear I wasn't intimidated by him or trying to bully people into a drink. The owner had him thrown out cause he was causing trouble. Stayed after hours talking with the owner and his wife chilling a lot of casual touching which is new, but cool. Everyone was cool just having me around
As a final note is funny i'm getting all these reactions form Latino girls which for the record i prefer Asian and black girls, go figure
You may or may not have figured out yet that your sexual preferences are not just at the conscious level. Your subconscious has access to a lot more information than your conscious does, and it uses all of that (apparently) to determine it's sexual attraction response, which may be entirely different from your conscious response. I was raised around only white people, and as a result I just never thought of dating a Black woman. Nothing against them, just never crossed my mind because they simply didn't exist in my neighborhood up until that point and I just never thought about it... Until I used Attract Your Perfect Lover, and the responder was a dark skinned Jamaican woman, who was very much my perfect lover, and with whom I ended up in a 4 year long serious relationship with.
So the sniper is responding to what you like, but may also be responding to what you didn't even know yet that you like. Trust your subconscious.
I like it very much when you remind us the basic, "Trust your subconscious" which is the same as "Fire and forget." Let the chips fall where they may eh.
(01-28-2023, 01:17 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]You may or may not have figured out yet that your sexual preferences are not just at the conscious level. Your subconscious has access to a lot more information than your conscious does, and it uses all of that (apparently) to determine it's sexual attraction response, which may be entirely different from your conscious response. I was raised around only white people, and as a result I just never thought of dating a Black woman. Nothing against them, just never crossed my mind because they simply didn't exist in my neighborhood up until that point and I just never thought about it... Until I used Attract Your Perfect Lover, and the responder was a dark skinned Jamaican woman, who was very much my perfect lover, and with whom I ended up in a 4 year long serious relationship with.
So the sniper is responding to what you like, but may also be responding to what you didn't even know yet that you like. Trust your subconscious.
That happened to me when using DMSI with a women who was older than me and kind of resembles my mother, but on the other hand I still feel hatred toward her (my mother) so when she responded I was just disgusted, so in my case I'm more attracted for the opposite type of women (consciously).
Day 32
(Meet and great)
Had a double meeting today so kind of a long day in a sense but great to be out and about testing things out. Things continue to heat up with a set of younger sisters one dark, one mixed. The darker one for the last 2 weeks now that every time she has a dance performance she runs straight in front of me and set's up and commences to angle all our dance moves toward me making sure I get the best show in the house. So much so, her mom see's this and was like giving her the evil eyes cause she out here dirty dancing in front of a man like that. Later coming back for part 2 of the meeting, she proceeded to grab my arm and help take my temperature since it was so cold outside I was getting no reading. She a very young look like soon to be an expecting mom which is cool at all. Before this we did kind of have a connection but was very hit or miss and never really went far. Today was different she put in a lot of effort to come be around talk with me, say hi etc and was good stuff. One of the few girl at the meeting wouldn't mind something happening, however they do have a overprotective father which is cool most of the time, but not sure i want to get involved with all that. So far she's doing all the work making something happen and that's pretty much how it's going to have be.
An other dancer friend I knew back in the day took a big step also and chatted me up Back in the day she had reacted strongly to it at first and was headed for sex. At that time I wasn't really ready for all that. Times have changed, we've come a long ways. Basically, when things go bad in her relationship sometimes she like to become more friendly but lately we haven't really talked much for a while cause a lot of drama with me and her and friends etc. and people like to talk. Plus had my childhood friend there who friends with the above mentioned dancer so good reactions all around.
The tall red head was there with her bf and kids of course sit right in front of line of sight. Of course it picked off right from last time so deep eye contact with neither of us breaking it. While she's my type and attractive, her man is one of the assistant leaders, and everytime he sees her responding to me so much today he had to leave the meeting early to get her out of there, and I don't blame him. If you see your girl responding like that everytime you have to protect her. However, her being so close to my type I'd have to admit I wouldn't stop her. Although the backlash from something like that could be bad even enough time, it might be where it's headed. I guess luck with her, I don't see her as much or it would be on.
So, a month into x4a is just a fun sub to run. It makes people that are at least responding start to make come effort to make something happen with girls with the most exposure having the most motivation to make something happen. So it kinda naturally weeds out people not really interested in you and amps over time the ones that are at some level. To be fair it unclear after a month how long they would have to be exposed to the area for something physical to happen
Day 34
(Day game)
Was headed to work out my apartment and ran into an old fling I used to work with when I used to work at the casino doing severing and waitering. That was good stuff, had to stop a lot of that kind of work and at hotels before the pandemic times. Any back in the day we used to have have a connection and would flirt back and forth. Almost got physical with her, but of course some guy cock blocked as she was about to spend the night with me took her home instead. I wasn't happy about that one, but life goes on. I guess magically now she stays in my apartment now so turned out to be convenient although I was on my way to work and she stopped and wanted to talk but didn't have the time. Something tells me we will meet again.
(The bar)
A nice crowd at the bar for karaoke again. Not a lot to report per say, had a girl rubbed up against me try to get through things> mainly the last new night has mainly been a tale of girls with bf responding me bf responds to her protect the girl
Day 39
Pretty much had got used to the effects for the most part. A little stuff here and there. Mainly the main positives are that the few connections I had witch responded in a good way are showing more effort to be around me, and that's always. A few days at the bar the DJs gf and the beer pong girl both took time to invest a much longer chat and felt right so why not. Also at my meet and great my dark dancer girl made increasing effort to come over and talk to me at least at first. Which is saying a lot since her dad keeps a tight eye on her, be that it may she is of age and can think for herself.
So, bit by bit the slow crawl, at least 'its headed to a good place.
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Shadow2200, first of all, I wanna thank you for contributing your journal about X4A and the discipline you kept until the beginning of February. Are you still running it or what happened, if I may ask? I read all your posts and currently evaluating the option of buying it myself since DMSI didn't do for me what it's supposed to. Anyways, one question arises, since you gained so much more attention from chicks (with BFs mostly) why didn't you ever take action and took things forward? I mean, it's a morally noble thing not to enforce things while she seems to be "taken", I get it. But then again, this could also be used as an excuse not to take it any further. I mean, have you ever spotted a hot chick totally by herself? You never know the story behind the kind of "relationship" she might or might not be in. And after all, it's her own will to give you signs, so be it. It would have been really interesting to see what would happen if you approached her after the aura is firing so obviously. As much as I understand the sub has not been designed to get her making moves on you, unlike DMSI. Let me know your thoughts, thanks!
(02-20-2023, 01:43 PM)firsthelix Wrote: [ -> ]Hey @Shadow2200, first of all, I wanna thank you for contributing your journal about X4A and the discipline you kept until the beginning of February. Are you still running it or what happened, if I may ask? I read all your posts and currently evaluating the option of buying it myself since DMSI didn't do for me what it's supposed to. Anyways, one question arises, since you gained so much more attention from chicks (with BFs mostly) why didn't you ever take action and took things forward? I mean, it's a morally noble thing not to enforce things while she seems to be "taken", I get it. But then again, this could also be used as an excuse not to take it any further. I mean, have you ever spotted a hot chick totally by herself? You never know the story behind the kind of "relationship" she might or might not be in. And after all, it's her own will to give you signs, so be it. It would have been really interesting to see what would happen if you approached her after the aura is firing so obviously. As much as I understand the sub has not been designed to get her making moves on you, unlike DMSI. Let me know your thoughts, thanks!
One of things personally I be looking for is for and a lot of the old dmsi version is not so much is about effected others more. This is very true in this sub. While I guarantee if you want to do, pick pua skill and take it to the next level it be icing on the cake. I think it's more like what it's doing is opening doors that wouldn't normally be there. If she is really interesting to me, she will make an effort to be around me at some level. As of late when she dose comes around in one way or another, I do take action in some way. A lot of of it is to the degree she's willing to take how long she's been exposed to the aura
Secondary many times the strongest effects have been with people already in a relationship which also interesting. DMSI was different in that regard with anti sniper, but even with that gone I never got the kinda of heat from stuff like that. An action I'm taking if it makes any sense is not trying to get in my own way by trying to force something at at least at the moment. Punctually at first I was seeing how x4a was compared to DMSI. Big difference to say the least.
Day 65
Things kind of evened out per say on the sub. Nothing major to report other than the main points which has been stated before. Celebrity respect vibe, super reelect shield, And added effects over time on the affected.
Allot of the effected have kind of reached a plateau in a sense while nothing new over the top I have seen for the most part all the people are are interested in me somehow continues to respond in some way. Mainly minor stuff I say for now but something. For example Like last night (bar) had random going to a divorce etc. come up to me make conversation out of nowhere insist she stand right next to getting a negative reaction to all the other girls that were interested around me just so she could make her presence known. Had a another girl a friend of the Dj. The DJ told me straight up she liked me but was too scared to do anything about it. Basically trying to hand her off to me.
The gf of the couple that plays beer pong, who's been acting to my aura, the from the being had to be forced to stop talking with me and go with her bf against her will just to get him to get her away from me. My favorite of all was a another young dancer at the meet and greet girl just or supposedly runs, bump into me as I was passing by for no reason. Haven't had that since the early days of dmsi. Which I had a girl that used to do that all the time.
2 months in just a good fun sub to run with dealing with people in gernal. The future looks bright with this sub as the first generation. I like a lot of the hold back isn't a lack of action on my part, it's theirs in that. I get that a lot at least right now the girls are still pretty sacred even at the bar. At my meet and greet so many girls want to do or say something but they can't or it wouldn't look right but stuff leaks out.
PS
I was going to move on to Mavrick, but I still have some bills to deal with, so I hope to have an opportunity in the future.
Day 72
had another 2 day spring worker's meeting this week and had a 3 day meeting last week, busy times. Although also had some extra vacation time to cash in so had a bit more time to get out z bit more.
(Bar)
The beer pong girls hanging around me, most of girls there ether keep me kn line of sight ir next to me. One of the few girls I,m actually attracted to the friend, brought a friend and her bf.Of course she she parks herself next to me while talking to another girl. Aura was going crazy everytime she's around. Basically a bartender at some of the local club. Very aggressive and foward and used to dealing with men. Poirto the sub she paid me no attention After X4-1000 she seems to got a spark for me, despite being sorounded by men, interesting. A perfect match physically. She so adventurous im histdent to advance to much with her cause she like a wild child. Same with another girl a wild child that likes dance and grind everything party chic. Alot of the girls sniped would be fun, but very disruptive to my life. So girls are interested coming around