08-10-2013, 11:05 AM
My little brother (15 years) asks me (19 years) sometimes for advice. This time he told me that deep inside he has a fear that people dont gonna find him important, 'cool`, popular,... enough and that they gonna leave him alone.
He has a really great fear of being alone (but he has friends) Thats why he wants to be popular and to become the person to whom people give the most attention. Thats his way of being sure hes not going to be alone.
Many girls give him attention but he dont always know what to talk about
with them, on MSN and Facebook he has more self-confidence and knows more what to talk about. Now he wants to make a group of self-chosen friends of which hes going to be the leader. So i conclude that he wants to be the opposite of what he doesnt wants to be.
I would suggest him AM but hes only 15 years old and you have to be 18 years old. So what do you suggest people? I would like to hear your responses.
P.S: ASC is great!
He has a really great fear of being alone (but he has friends) Thats why he wants to be popular and to become the person to whom people give the most attention. Thats his way of being sure hes not going to be alone.
Many girls give him attention but he dont always know what to talk about
with them, on MSN and Facebook he has more self-confidence and knows more what to talk about. Now he wants to make a group of self-chosen friends of which hes going to be the leader. So i conclude that he wants to be the opposite of what he doesnt wants to be.
I would suggest him AM but hes only 15 years old and you have to be 18 years old. So what do you suggest people? I would like to hear your responses.
P.S: ASC is great!