05-22-2018, 01:35 AM
(This post was last modified: 05-22-2018, 01:39 AM by JackOfHearts.)
I agree and disagree at the same time 
First I think there is a different definition of love we are using, or we see it as something completely different.
I have seen from experience that some girls actually prefer sex than love because they are more afraid of love than sex. For some it's the opposite they are more afraid of sex.
There is also the confusion that sex is the same thing as love for some girls or guys.
When you see "100 of girls falling in love" for a guy, that's not love. At least to me, that's sex, power or attractiveness, most of those girls don't know the guy, they haven't tasted him so they can't know if they love him or not.
It's a bit like eating to me, you see a dish, you think it must taste great as it's very appealing to your senses, sight and smell. But when you actually taste the thing that's something entirely different. Loving that food would require that you find the food so awesome that you can keep coming back for it over a long period of time. But it would also mean you love the taste and appreciate that type of food for it's quality, refinement, etc. Sex would be more like eating the thing just for the energy in an animalistic way, so it doesn't really matter if you love it or not as long as you get the high energy from it, like coffee for example or any type of food that give you high energy.
Love for me would be that hight state that you have when you really know someone very well and keep coming back to him despite some of his shortcomings. Romance would be the first step of love, you start meeting someone that you don't really know yet but you can connect to him on a romantic level, it would be more like an appreciation of someone, liking spending good quality time with someone.
Based on that definition that you may not agree with, I think some girls due to their personality can't handle love or romance as they are more loner type personality that don't enjoy spending time with someone. So they would prefer the purely animalistic connexion.
But back to the argument. I think DarkPlouf meant romance not love. I can agree that romance can often be the lead to sex. It's one of the reason I have been using WM2. Though it's also limiting if you are only going for sex. Some people aren't wired to have romance, so using romance as a lead to sex wouldn't work for those.
The main problem I think is the societal belief system that was put on others to make them think romance is needed for sex to occur.
So I would tend to think that you would meet less people that are both able to have romance and sex, as it's 2 skills not just one.
Then there is also the question "do you really want sex or are you looking more for romance?"
If it's not delusion you are someone really special that have attained that state of unconditional love, you wouldn't be on that forum
I tend to think it's not possible though but maybe I'm too rational for that kind of unconditional stuff. For example it would assume something is not changeable, that it's perfect, that's it is immutable, hence why I think it's delusion, nothing is perfect on this earth and bound to change or evolve. So "unconditional love" maybe a day of unconditional love for someone, if you can achieve that state for a day, then you would go in other state like "unconditional hate"
First I think there is a different definition of love we are using, or we see it as something completely different.
I have seen from experience that some girls actually prefer sex than love because they are more afraid of love than sex. For some it's the opposite they are more afraid of sex.
There is also the confusion that sex is the same thing as love for some girls or guys.
When you see "100 of girls falling in love" for a guy, that's not love. At least to me, that's sex, power or attractiveness, most of those girls don't know the guy, they haven't tasted him so they can't know if they love him or not.
It's a bit like eating to me, you see a dish, you think it must taste great as it's very appealing to your senses, sight and smell. But when you actually taste the thing that's something entirely different. Loving that food would require that you find the food so awesome that you can keep coming back for it over a long period of time. But it would also mean you love the taste and appreciate that type of food for it's quality, refinement, etc. Sex would be more like eating the thing just for the energy in an animalistic way, so it doesn't really matter if you love it or not as long as you get the high energy from it, like coffee for example or any type of food that give you high energy.
Love for me would be that hight state that you have when you really know someone very well and keep coming back to him despite some of his shortcomings. Romance would be the first step of love, you start meeting someone that you don't really know yet but you can connect to him on a romantic level, it would be more like an appreciation of someone, liking spending good quality time with someone.
Based on that definition that you may not agree with, I think some girls due to their personality can't handle love or romance as they are more loner type personality that don't enjoy spending time with someone. So they would prefer the purely animalistic connexion.
But back to the argument. I think DarkPlouf meant romance not love. I can agree that romance can often be the lead to sex. It's one of the reason I have been using WM2. Though it's also limiting if you are only going for sex. Some people aren't wired to have romance, so using romance as a lead to sex wouldn't work for those.
The main problem I think is the societal belief system that was put on others to make them think romance is needed for sex to occur.
So I would tend to think that you would meet less people that are both able to have romance and sex, as it's 2 skills not just one.
Then there is also the question "do you really want sex or are you looking more for romance?"
Quote:Love energy is super powerful especially unconditional love. Nothing more powerful than to hold a frame of genuine unconditional love towards self and others, no matter what is going on. That is true power.I think it's some kind of hypnosis state or a really high state you get from years of practice if it's really genuine. I would think it's more delusion than anything though.
If it's not delusion you are someone really special that have attained that state of unconditional love, you wouldn't be on that forum
I tend to think it's not possible though but maybe I'm too rational for that kind of unconditional stuff. For example it would assume something is not changeable, that it's perfect, that's it is immutable, hence why I think it's delusion, nothing is perfect on this earth and bound to change or evolve. So "unconditional love" maybe a day of unconditional love for someone, if you can achieve that state for a day, then you would go in other state like "unconditional hate"
