dmsi 2.2. vs 2.3

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The only women with zen boyfriends/husbands are either ugly or very domineering and controlling of them so probably not what most guys would want.

That's quite the generalization there. I guess we can trust this since you know every zen guy with a gf in the world or else you wouldn't be able to say "the only." Watch your words for they become your beliefs and what you attract in your outter reality. Specially generalizations and false beliefs.

In my world it's different. The zen guys I have known had amazing women with them.

It's really not about being zen per se or anything else it's about being authentic. When you vibrate a vibe of authenticity and self love you will attract women who match it.

The guys I have known who were zen had beautiful and spiritual women with them that loved them. But these guys were authentic they were spiritual and had a clear purpose to life and it wasn't trying to get women in other words they were alpha.

Many people in this forum still confuse alpha with being a dominant male who f**ks a lot of women. Go read Shannon's thread about an ascended alpha if you haven't.

You can be zen and be alpha or also be dominant and be alpha. Being alpha is about being in command of your reality, having passion, integrity, self love, self reliance, self respect and a clear purpose to your life that you work towards every day. Women are only a benefit of being a man that is strong and has these qualities because genetically they are attracted to thi type of man.

Remember, you can be zen and not alpha (no self respect, self reliance) and also be dominant and not alpha. Being alpha is not about that...