01-28-2016, 08:58 AM
(01-28-2016, 04:35 AM)Nox Wrote:(01-28-2016, 12:56 AM)hiddenalias Wrote:(01-27-2016, 07:49 PM)Nox Wrote: If I met someone I connected with and complimented me, and me her as well, on all levels (physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual) I'd drop all desires to sleep around and marry her on the spot. Age isn't the factor. The partner is. Deciding you're going to wait until you're X age to settle down seems foolish to me. If I had met that girl at 15 I'd have married her and stuck with her forever.
yeah i guess i get your point.....age is not the significance but from the standpoint of 'waiting' to find the ONE and you're decades older time isnt on your side, friend......only then you should decide age.......cuz what you say IF you met that particular girl and that could happen ANY time whether 15 like you say or 50.....and waiting will only reach you closer to death that's why there should be a X age to settle down IMHO
I don't let death or the idea of it make my decisions. I make my decisions. Death can figure out the technicalities when I'm gone lol
lol but you should consider the idea of death cuz you never know when its gonna happen thats why you should play it out like you know when it will happen so you can plan accordingly like if I were to say 'i will die at 73, i only got 30 years of life left' which is what I personally anticipate, it helps cuz I plan accordingly what I need to get done and the timeline I have in this world to act through my bucket list to do's and it kinda helps me outline goals cuz I am goal oriented
I dont try to spark debates but I respect others' views and I dont try to persuade others to say "i am right and you are not" but its interesting what others think about situations so I just respect what you say and what I say, hope to be respected too without getting the feeling like I am wrong and you are right but thanks for your input