[WM] All in Baby! Action Time!

[LionMonkey]

After using AM, if you just want to get laid, I think you should go for SM as it is designed for that.

That will give you some experience that you might need.. I don't know what your goal is though.

My experience with SM is limited.. I remember while on it, I wrote something about girls thinking I was gay LOL.. but I don't recall much from SM.

yes, I read a lot of comment about that, some people reported it, it is not a bad thing as I remember some kind of sexual energy aura is causing it



really appreciate,

I do not have an active social life for years, I dont even remember when I went for a pub, and I have no desire when it comes to approach women,  this is a something I need to solve, I was thinking using WM for a while but than, I thought maybe WM is not aggressive as SM so may not be able to push me to approach or pursue women on a regular basis.

actually I don't want girls numbers or ig's I just want some girls to fuck, I think I will trust some of the SM's auras on this, WM is good when women around you and I really dont have that kind of workplace or social life.
seems like you already succesfull finding and approaching women as I read your journals, really enjoying reading your journals, as you sugessted:

So here's my simple formula for success, using subliminals based on my experience:


a) Listen to subs correctly

doing my best

b) Take action to change your lifestyle (i.e. if you haven't been around chicks or meeting them in the last month or two, start actively going out to meet some chicks again. If that scares you, have a friend or find a friend to go out with and start from there).

yes definitly I need some change in my lifestyle, AM made me like idgf about girls, socializing etc, but it also helped with social anxiety. will try to meet new people

c) Don't put pressure on yourself once out in the crowds. Set a goal for the outing but not too high. A goal could be like, say hi to 1 girl/group. Start low and work your way up. 

Kind of like exercising.. if you haven't exercised for months, you'll be weak as fuck even though you might look ok. The first 2-3 weeks, you will feel everything. Once you've exercised for a month or two, you kind of feel strong again and look better. You also have a much better sense of what you can do to push yourself and to go harder to work the body to more perfection and strength.

This principle applies well to socializing and meeting chicks as well I found.

I never tried, approaching girls daily on intent, but you are right, I feel less to no social anxeity when go to shopping or walking but dont know about approaching girls, need a big warm up on that

d) Focus on being present to the moment

I am trying to do, still learning it

e) If that is what you really want in life, you WILL MAKE TIME AND SPACE FOR IT.
Or else you just SAY you want it.
And I guess you are not ready to do something about it.

exactly true, as long as not doing anything about it, nothing will change, thank for this real advice

Btw. this formula is just a guideline.
You can tweak it to whatever works best for you.

But I tell you this.. 
It's NO BULLSHIT and based on my experiences.

Go for SM if you want sex. 
Go for WM if you want to be more naturally attractive to women.

I can't speak for SM.
But I do think WM may lack a bit of proactiveness/desire to engage more with chicks.

It's really good program if you surround yourself with women.

But the desire/proactiveness to engage chicks isn't very strong. At least not on the 6 days I've run the sub.

Anyway, hope it helps lol. Got caught up writing...

I always have some women around me that want to do something with me, but
I always compliant with myself because of low desire to women or sexuality not because I am not straight but fear, resentment, low self-esteem and self-confidence and wrong beliefs about sexuality,sex and women, always found excuses  to not going out, or even not accepting sex offers.  Now I did solve self-confidence and social anxiety problems, what I need a voice in my mind, giving me enough impulse to get me moving, also hope to solve these wrong beliefs about sexuality. From I understand your thoughts and journals, you already  have a good background and WM also helping you to improve that. Looks like what I want,need is SM for now. Your journals had been very helpfull especially when you share your ideas about women and relationships

it really helps me to see some real experiences and ideas here, thank you.

Hey.. Your welcome man. I'm happy it inspires you. Hopefully you'll be ready to just fucking do it. Since you haven't been social for a long time, I suggest you start small. Like make a habit of walking through the city or bars where there are lots of people.

3-4 times a week, build that muscle.

This will make you feel more comfortable with yourself around a crowd.

Then after some training, you can gauge what your next goal could be.. like having a drink at the bar or saying hi to a person and build upon that...

Have fun man!



[WM Stage 1 - Day 10] – Decisions.. evening ocean swim.. decisions...


Yo! Monday... quiet day at work. I still feel the aftereffect of socializing in the weekend. Giving less of a f**k of how I look when I walk around.

I've decided to go out 4-5 times a week to be around social venues. Even if it's only for 30 minutes.

Because remember consistency is more important than an outing duration.

Tonight, the time was 22.. I could try to find bars with people...

Or I had an invitation from my pops to take a swim in the ocean.

Since I didn't felt like paying for parking in the city I eventually decided to take that swim.

Last time I swam in the ocean was last summer, so it was good and refreshing.

There were two young groups of people there as well.

It was a good experience.

Btw. Does anyone have experience with stopping a 5G subliminal suddenly?

I'm thinking if I should switch over to some other Subliminal that would be more in alignment with what I'm committed to in my spare time.

Which is meeting lots of girls and start dating multiple high quality girls with no strings attached.. 

I really want to enjoy my next 3-5 years, just living my life and dating gorgeous chicks who are just right for me...

Let me know if you know anything about stopping a 5G subliminal and also if there's a subliminal better suited for what I'm looking for!!

-LM