12-07-2014, 05:58 PM
ASC should help with that. It helped me speak more freely with less holding back. People reacted differently around me, game me more respect. I hold the attention of a group much more easily and feel a lot less uncomfortable.
Before I used subs, I found listening more purposely helped me. Listen to what they say and what the topic is and what relates to it. If someone is talking about fishing you could relate it with boats or hobbies. Whatever you're interested in try and steer the conversations that way and you'll find it much easier to talk about it. Ideally something you are both interested in. It's kind of like how YouTube recommends videos to you.. It's crazy how you can start off watching a music vid and 30minutes later you're watching UFO abduction stories wondering how you ended up here!
And one more thing.. Practise makes perfect. Keep pushing your comfort levels and they will expand.
Before I used subs, I found listening more purposely helped me. Listen to what they say and what the topic is and what relates to it. If someone is talking about fishing you could relate it with boats or hobbies. Whatever you're interested in try and steer the conversations that way and you'll find it much easier to talk about it. Ideally something you are both interested in. It's kind of like how YouTube recommends videos to you.. It's crazy how you can start off watching a music vid and 30minutes later you're watching UFO abduction stories wondering how you ended up here!
And one more thing.. Practise makes perfect. Keep pushing your comfort levels and they will expand.
