03-17-2011, 12:26 PM
I have, and my eye contact is at an all time high. I use to be the guy that would look down or away anytime a person would look at me, whether it be guy or girl. For guys a small head nod and a what's up works perfectly. For girls a casual smile will do the trick. Approach anxiety cripples me at the moment. I gotta work on that. The nice thing about Alpha, it makes you realize your strengths and weakness, through epiphanies or other peoples words/actions.
Maybe make that a goal. Go to the mall with the intention saying and or yelling NO! at the people, "Hey would you like to try this bracelet that does absolutely nothing, but costs $50?" They tried to sell me a bracelet that supposedly increases balance and strength, but Chemistry, Physics, and doing some research proved it was a complete scam. I went to get a new coat. I told the guy off in a calm tone, and I got a lame excuse on how it should work in return. I decided it was more fit to just keep walking.
I have no doubt you will tackle this soon.
Maybe make that a goal. Go to the mall with the intention saying and or yelling NO! at the people, "Hey would you like to try this bracelet that does absolutely nothing, but costs $50?" They tried to sell me a bracelet that supposedly increases balance and strength, but Chemistry, Physics, and doing some research proved it was a complete scam. I went to get a new coat. I told the guy off in a calm tone, and I got a lame excuse on how it should work in return. I decided it was more fit to just keep walking.
I have no doubt you will tackle this soon.
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