08-31-2016, 07:46 AM
(08-31-2016, 06:33 AM)Steven Wrote: 6) I think women are more likely to run long term scenarios through their minds about “what it would be like to be with a man”, imagining a future and how all that meshes with their life plans and other relationships.
I think this is very true. I've approached women before who talk about their relationship and even though I display that it doesn't bother me, she seems bothered by it.
I've had a few women say something along the lines of "it couldn't just be casual, eventually we'd sleep together and eventually we'd get attached". So it may be the girl is cockblocking herself while running scenarios in her head.
I've also thought there is an element of holding up society's facade of monogamy. Almost like the girl is feeling judged or put on the spot. lol, almost as if I work for society itself and she's saying "oh yeah, of course I wouldn't cheat! monogamy all the way!" in much the same way as underground agents in WW2 would, in public, support the nazis.
So there is some of that going on too.