01-15-2018, 01:17 PM
(This post was last modified: 01-15-2018, 09:11 PM by Trespassing.)
Hi. I have tried other self help with not much luck and have arrived here after some Googling. I have lurked some too. I have known that I suffer from low self esteem at times so here I am and this is my journal. Thank you for the support.
Initial Thoughts of First few days
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Not super sure what to expect. But I do feel maybe more calm in my thoughts. Playing Ultrasonic track while sleeping the flac one. I feel a bit more grounded too. Hard to describe. Also after the first day I felt more bitter and angry towards those who had screwed me over in the past. I have been walked on a lot in my days. Maybe some more respect for myself. I have cut ties with a handful of 'friends' shortly before and during these few days. Assholes, they did not truly respect me.
Day 18
This is still hard to describe. I think ive been more aware of how I used to act and how silly I was, letting people walk on me like a doormat, and being generally a 'nice guy' with girls even though Ive had pretty decent skill in that department as well. Hope this makes sense, I can be a bit of an asshole and known to be good with girls but also a nice guy sometimes soi I have lots of room, to become well rounded. So yes, Ive been more aware of my past and maybe who I am.
I use reddit. I have recently found my way to r/justneckbeardthings and r/niceguys. For those of you who are not reddit savvy, take a look here
http://reddit.com/r/niceguys
http://reddit.com/r/justneckbeardthings
I have been reading those 2 subreddits for the past week or so. They are full of 'nice guys' and wow it is so cringy. I definitely see how I have acted similar to some of that in the past. I see now some of my friends have been low-key neckbeards with their anime and role-playing. Yeah Ive always been a nerd but I always felt I had to like what they like and now I really just see how stupid it all is. Reading the subreddits is reinforcing how not to act to me. Hey also I understand not everyone who reads anime is a neckbeard. Its just not my thing so to each his own.
It is hard to gather my thoughts. My girlfriend has been telling me lately that I have been more humble. Her words, not mine. Thanks
Initial Thoughts of First few days
--
Not super sure what to expect. But I do feel maybe more calm in my thoughts. Playing Ultrasonic track while sleeping the flac one. I feel a bit more grounded too. Hard to describe. Also after the first day I felt more bitter and angry towards those who had screwed me over in the past. I have been walked on a lot in my days. Maybe some more respect for myself. I have cut ties with a handful of 'friends' shortly before and during these few days. Assholes, they did not truly respect me.
Day 18
This is still hard to describe. I think ive been more aware of how I used to act and how silly I was, letting people walk on me like a doormat, and being generally a 'nice guy' with girls even though Ive had pretty decent skill in that department as well. Hope this makes sense, I can be a bit of an asshole and known to be good with girls but also a nice guy sometimes soi I have lots of room, to become well rounded. So yes, Ive been more aware of my past and maybe who I am.
I use reddit. I have recently found my way to r/justneckbeardthings and r/niceguys. For those of you who are not reddit savvy, take a look here
http://reddit.com/r/niceguys
http://reddit.com/r/justneckbeardthings
I have been reading those 2 subreddits for the past week or so. They are full of 'nice guys' and wow it is so cringy. I definitely see how I have acted similar to some of that in the past. I see now some of my friends have been low-key neckbeards with their anime and role-playing. Yeah Ive always been a nerd but I always felt I had to like what they like and now I really just see how stupid it all is. Reading the subreddits is reinforcing how not to act to me. Hey also I understand not everyone who reads anime is a neckbeard. Its just not my thing so to each his own.
It is hard to gather my thoughts. My girlfriend has been telling me lately that I have been more humble. Her words, not mine. Thanks