04-11-2013, 07:29 AM
(04-02-2013, 06:28 AM)Shannon Wrote: You're right. You can't. lol I think I have accidentally discovered how to replicate the emotional state in which every man is naturally at his most naturally attractive to, and pursued by women. You know how when you're looking for a woman, they're nowhere to be found, but when you're happily taken, every woman's interested? Yeah. Well apparently that happens because he's in the right emotional state of energy mode and expression, and she senses it and is attracted to and by it.
What I believe this means is that if I can create a state of loving openness within a man, without having him have any specific "target" for it externally, similar to how he is when he is genuinely in love with a woman who is not present, women go nuts. I believe that is because that is their natural state of highest bliss and they sense it from him and are instantly attracted because it is so rare from a man.
But I am unsure whether this is actually what is taking place right now. However, I have to say, X44b does seem to be putting me in a state very similar to "being in love", although without any specific woman being the focus of that loving openness... so, according to my theory, they ALL respond.
I believe that everyone loves to be in love, and women especially find that energy addictive for themselves. Finding a man in that state means he's emotionally open, AND he is projecting that energy they want to feel... what's not to be attracted to?
Interestingly, they seem to be responding with not just attraction, but with action that suggests they are already in such a relationship with me. They are going out of their way to take care of me... and I mean, I had it happen with three or four women I encountered yesterday going significantly out of their way to give me special attention and affectionately doing things that they didn't do for others, or didn't have to do for me... going the extra mile. Like the bartender coming around the counter to bring me my doggy bag yesterday. She came and basically positioned herself as closely to me as she could. Why didn't she stay behind the counter and just hand it to me from there? I believe this was a subconscious indication that she was wanting to be within my energy field, and experience that lovingness I seem to be experiencing, and apparently projecting.
I had an employee at Michael's not only give me stellar service and do so with visible joy, she also gave me a discount of over $40 that she didn't have to give me, while personally checking me out (when she had been working on stocking the shelves) and she enlisted the aid of another female employee who also immediately shifted from bored/tired to joyfully helping me.
The first one, I had actually come to me to ask if I needed help as I was walking by, which isn't so unusual for good staff, but in this case it seemed a bit aggressively helpful... which I appreciated, but I think that may have been an instant reaction to my energy. She asked if she could help me find something, and I said, "Bathroom?" She pointed me to it and I thanked her and went my way. Then I came out and I saw her and said, "Canvasses?" And she didn't point me... she personally led me to them, when they were 30 feet away and she was busy. Then I got those and wandered around trying to remember what I had come for, and for the life of me couldn't, so I circled back around and came back to her and said, "And now I need you to tell me what it was I came for besides these canvasses, but which I cannot remember what it is." Playfully, flirtaciously. She enjoyed it, but looked like a deer stunned in the headlights with confusion. Amazingly, she actually figured out what I was looking for that I had forgotten about... and then led me to the other girl, who led us to it.
I was amazed that she actually figured it out... she said she had seen me browsing the frames, which means she was watching me. She led me over to the frames, and then started saying things that reminded me that, yes, I was there for frames for some of my posters. Then she led me to the framing department, paged the other girl, and when the other girl came, she explained what I needed and they both led me to the right frames. Both had been busy... now were rendering unusual levels of customer service with a joyful pleasantry I had not initially seen on their faces. And when I put the frames in my cart, she (her name was Michelle) offered to carry them up to the register for me... okay, let's do that. And then she continued to go the extra mile by opening up a register, instead of having me wait behind one person who was almost finished being checked out, and she furthermore found a coupon for me that saved me $43.
Then I jokingly asked her if she was going to carry them out to my car and she laughed, and said that if she could, she would, but they won't let her out of the store. I believe she actually would have, had that not been a rule for her to follow.
I don't know how much of this is X44b, and how much is coincidence and how much might be BAMM... but I just switched to Stage 4 of BAMM last night, so if it was BAMM we should see some difference.
I'm thinking I should make a "Blissful Lovingness Towards [Gender]" title... or maybe just "Blissful Lovingness", period.
Blissful lovingness sounds awesome. Keep it up Shannon.
