(01-08-2015, 10:38 AM)maniac360 Wrote: Unless her life is threatened you should be more selfish as an alphamale. Yourself first, if you put other first you will slowly killyouself and people will avoid you more and more. You are currently living on neediness, at least its what see from your post. Girl feel that stuff, she'll either reject you (if she can find someone better) or manipulate you so you only stay with her (monogamy)
I would stop the relationship until she is ready again.
Choosing Sm3 with monogamy doesn't make sense to me even if its possible to do so. She need to be pretty awesome that you want to keep her. Is she? Or it is fear that you won't find a better girl friend.
Thanks for the advice. Brain Cancer is definitely life threatening but this is stage 2 so there is a good chance she will recover fully.There is certainly neediness on my part. There is also the fear that I may not find a better girl if I leave her. But I also don't want to abandon her as this is a very difficult time for her. Maybe I will stick with her through radiation and chemotherapy and then make a decision once she is better.
