12-15-2013, 11:55 AM
(12-15-2013, 07:36 AM)neurotica Wrote: For example; whenever I soak in the jacuzzi at Lifetime after my workout, the lifeguard, whom is very attractive, always gets out of her lifeguard chair to walk past me and give me very deep and prolonged eye contact. This has happened like clockwork for the past three days. I've always felt that type of eye contact to be very aggressive/dominant, almost to the point of being rude, like the other person is trying to say "don't even think about it." However, now I'm starting to see that as a signal to "get off your lazy ass, and come talk to me." Cognitive dissonance to the max, Jack!
Well, the way I'm developing myself to take stuff like this is to assume they are relying on you to do everything (which means they are desperate) but forcing them to do something by calling them out on it. What I'd do with this situation is this:
As she walks past looking at me, I'd look her over (if I felt like it of course, it's very important to do what feels right for YOU) then I'd say "Well, what do you want?"
Then it's on her.
I did this once actually, and it seemed to get a good result.
I was at work and there were lots of different companies there because it was a big site.
Anyhow, I'm walking and I see a woman. I was attracted to her but I was particularly angry how I had to do everything and initiate everything. So as I get closer I blurt out, in a very pissed off tone "Good morning!" (Kinda in a way that said "Say something damnit! I'm not going to do everything for you you lazy b*tch")
Anyhow, she LIT UP! Smiled HUGE and was like "Good MORNING!"
Afterwards, I noticed she followed me around to a few places but I ignored her.
I don't know why, but whenever I'm in a bad mood, women respond well to me, and whenever I'm in a good mood, they respond negatively. One of life's little ironies.
Anyhow, develop what you want.
You're the king of the mountain. The local villagers send you their women as tribute and you pick whoever you like. Imagine you're in the royal jacuzzi and a woman walks past. What would you do? Imagine she responded negatively, would you care? Would you have respect for her? Would you even WANT her anymore?
Try it out.
My 2 cents.
