09-11-2015, 08:31 AM
Hey Guys
So basically im an over weight guy who doesnt feel I lack confidence too much to be honest, and if I like the look of a girl ill go over and approach her. I however have no "game" or PUA skills as such, I just you know go and chat and hit it head on.
Recently I did this both with a store clerk and with some people I chatted to on the phone.
In every case it was a rejection. With those on the phone we clicked and I gave my email and nothing came of it. With another she also gave me her number, and well she clearly has had a change of thought.
The store clerk told me she was in a 'very strong relationship' and then she said 'there is definately someone out there for me' and I was like woaw (in my head lol)
Some people ive met when ive dressed well and yet i feel they dont see me sexually, if anything they just see me as a safe friend option even though to me every female is a potential lover and inside im sexual.
Many of you may know im going back to uni and so my focus will have to be my studies but it has played on my mind and made me wonder that is there something im doing wrong, or something about me not liked or is there perhaps a sub to make me better at getting laid or at being seen as someone sexual to girls I approach?
I wonder what you all would say to this so please do comment and share your thoughts.
(please move this thread to the relevant area if ive posted it here wrongly - sorry)
thanks
So basically im an over weight guy who doesnt feel I lack confidence too much to be honest, and if I like the look of a girl ill go over and approach her. I however have no "game" or PUA skills as such, I just you know go and chat and hit it head on.
Recently I did this both with a store clerk and with some people I chatted to on the phone.
In every case it was a rejection. With those on the phone we clicked and I gave my email and nothing came of it. With another she also gave me her number, and well she clearly has had a change of thought.
The store clerk told me she was in a 'very strong relationship' and then she said 'there is definately someone out there for me' and I was like woaw (in my head lol)
Some people ive met when ive dressed well and yet i feel they dont see me sexually, if anything they just see me as a safe friend option even though to me every female is a potential lover and inside im sexual.
Many of you may know im going back to uni and so my focus will have to be my studies but it has played on my mind and made me wonder that is there something im doing wrong, or something about me not liked or is there perhaps a sub to make me better at getting laid or at being seen as someone sexual to girls I approach?
I wonder what you all would say to this so please do comment and share your thoughts.
(please move this thread to the relevant area if ive posted it here wrongly - sorry)
thanks
OF3 5.75.7G 13/15Vol
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days
1L-2O/3OF; (1L-2/2 5/6); (2L 19/6); (3L 27/6); (4L 9/7); (H4L 25/7)
W 19 May
MLS 5.5G: ≈70days x2, IYGSH: 54, E2: 78+48, DMSI 3.2: 56 & 22, UMOP1: 57+UMOP2: 33 = 90+10 US v12/15=100, OF: 45, OF2: 56days