03-11-2014, 12:56 PM
Agreed 100% with Rayhon. As long as she is smiling, until you get a *real* no (firm no), or until you sense that she just made up her mind to tell you no (smile goes away, maybe she'll lean/step back etc.). I think they appreciate that you're willing to push a little, even if things don't go as far as you'd liked that time. I'm guessing its because they know you'll help them get over themselves later on, and also keeps things exciting. Just don't be offended or sad or anything.
For last minute resistance, what usually happens is I'll do something, they'll push me off and I'll start laughing and pull back a little.. they'll start laughing with me and maybe say "don't laugh!" and I'll continue laughing and make a sarcastic remark on how "serious" this all should be or something. Then I'll just continue to talk about whatever and while doing that I'll slowly move back in to moving my hand around her body, kissing her on the neck or whatever.
As to texting, I used to feel that I need to send some messages every other day or so.. not correct. If we have a good date, and have either had sex or every date (1-3) is clearly leading further towards sex, she will text me back within a week or so at the latest. And it'll be full of smileys and such. For a fresh number, I've found it good to send maybe 2 statement-type messages at 1-3 days intervals and then ask her out with a third one. Non-neediness being the key here as well, your texts shouldn't really require an answer from her. Just like in a conversation you don't always ask questions, you just relate and add to, or comment on, what the other just said. I considered myself very good and creative in texting, but I've found its much better to keep things as short as possible and maximize the live impact. Brad from RSD has a good video on texting in his Evolutions program.
But yeah, AM seems great for killing neediness. WM/SM makes me think of daygame/nightgame in a way.. I'm thinking SM would be much better for meeting women at bars/clubs, but judging from the journals I guess it works at daytime as well.. could scare a few ladies though, approaching out-of-the-blue, during the day, all about sex :D
For last minute resistance, what usually happens is I'll do something, they'll push me off and I'll start laughing and pull back a little.. they'll start laughing with me and maybe say "don't laugh!" and I'll continue laughing and make a sarcastic remark on how "serious" this all should be or something. Then I'll just continue to talk about whatever and while doing that I'll slowly move back in to moving my hand around her body, kissing her on the neck or whatever.
As to texting, I used to feel that I need to send some messages every other day or so.. not correct. If we have a good date, and have either had sex or every date (1-3) is clearly leading further towards sex, she will text me back within a week or so at the latest. And it'll be full of smileys and such. For a fresh number, I've found it good to send maybe 2 statement-type messages at 1-3 days intervals and then ask her out with a third one. Non-neediness being the key here as well, your texts shouldn't really require an answer from her. Just like in a conversation you don't always ask questions, you just relate and add to, or comment on, what the other just said. I considered myself very good and creative in texting, but I've found its much better to keep things as short as possible and maximize the live impact. Brad from RSD has a good video on texting in his Evolutions program.
But yeah, AM seems great for killing neediness. WM/SM makes me think of daygame/nightgame in a way.. I'm thinking SM would be much better for meeting women at bars/clubs, but judging from the journals I guess it works at daytime as well.. could scare a few ladies though, approaching out-of-the-blue, during the day, all about sex :D
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