(03-11-2014, 12:24 AM)Psiklou Wrote: About that. At which point do you say it doesn't worth continuing?
a good rule to follow is if she is still smiling keep going. I've had a girl LITERALLY telling me no as i'm pulling her clothes off but I knew she was loving it because she was smiling. It was the most unusual thing ever & she was even PRETENDING that she didn't want too by resisting letting me take her pants off.
IT WAS STRANGE.. I'd pull her pants off a bit, She would pull it back on slightly less & this kept going until it was off.. It was as if she liked the rape fantasy or something I have no idea what happened but she was smiling the whole time & as soon as her pants finally came off she was 100 percent down with no more resistance. But I'l tell you 95 percent of guys would have stopped the way she was acting with her words, but her body language was telling me that she was indeed down.
my buddy parent's were getting up to leave for work about an hour and half before that occurred and for the entire duration of that hour and a half I was sleeping with her on a bed in the house and I was being extremely physical and sexual & she would say no but I kept going. Just because a girl says no doesn't mean you stop, If she says no & she really REALLY means it you can tell the difference. She found my persistence attractive, but there is a difference between persistence & rape & it can be a fine line at times...
But if were talking about texting/meeting up type chasing, Throw her an offer to chill if she rejects it wait a bit. Don't text her or call her every single day asking to chill or you will come off as needy. You don't need to have alot of contact with a girl to keep her interested in you as long as the initial attraction was strong. Club/bar girls would forget you alot quicker then if you met a girl at daygame and had a mini date on the spot for example.
It's the big fish analogy. You don't reel in a big fish all at once because the line will snap (scare her off), You reel it in, reel it out over time. You don't need to be in contact with the girl every day, it's perfectly fine to not have contact for a few days or even a few weeks sometimes. It's funny because the girls I lose interest in and ended up ignoring for a month became the most needy girls to me and would keep on sending me texts even though I straight up ignored them. granted I did have an awesome date with one of them before I started ignoring her. (the reason I stopped talking to her is because I met someone I like more)
Lack of contact makes her miss you, think about you and wonder if you like her. The more uncertain a women is about how you feel about her, the more she will fall for you. Girls are weird & I hate that about them but you can use it to your own advantage.
To be honest you can only fake it for a certain time before your neediness will sub communicate through your texts/body language. So it's best to develop yourself as a person through hobbies, sports and work so that you are genuinly busy. That's why Alpha Male is such an awesome program because it fixes all the insecurities & neediness that repel women.
