02-07-2022, 10:30 AM
(02-06-2022, 05:56 PM)Ampersnd Wrote: From someone who's done most of the 6 months of OF, stick with it.
Most of the results came at the last 2 months.
Also, a tip for talking to women (results may vary), direct beats indirect. She knows why you're talking with her, and beating around the bush has always left me feeling shitty about it, because you box yourself in to a pleasant but placid conversation when asking her about the ice cream she's buying.
My go-to pickup line is "hey, can I meet you really quick?" (comes from John Anthony Lifestyles). She'll usually ask you to repeat, then when you do, she'll echo back "meet me?". Then you could say, "yeah, I thought you were cute, so I figured I'd introduce myself." Then exchange names and start asking questions about her, flirt a bit if you know how. Back off if she brings up any time or boyfriend objections.
Seeing that most women have made me repeat myself, I've substituted the line with "hey, can I introduce myself to you really quick?" and have found that I don't need to repeat myself.
After OF v.3, my approach anxiety is virtually zero (it's been a while, but probably still low). I do consider whether I'll embarrass her or create an awkward situation/scene in front of others, but it's coming from a different place. Keep at it!
Thanks for the reply. At what point did you experience a big shift in approach anxiety?
