06-16-2021, 05:32 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-16-2021, 05:48 PM by ncbeareatingman.)
(06-15-2021, 11:27 AM)Ampersnd Wrote: Day 28, T-Minus 153 days until end, 2nd day on,
Nearing one month in the program.
Realizing that I'm feeling impatient and irritable towards those who would presume to limit my life.
For example, the cultural expectation for men to settle down before 30, even though they are likely to thrive physically and financially if they are single and unattached.
Every industry benefits if a woman can convince a man to settle down.
If a man gets caught up in one of the 3 Ms - Marriage, Mortgage, and Mini-Mes - they are in a hole costing 6 figures each, at minimum.
I get annoyed with the apologetics and the lack of logic of it.
Some side comments on this: One ) a long time good friend of mine,a long time ago used to call'um " The screaming Me me's! and I still used the term,to this day!! Screaming Me Me's!! Put a sock in it. Geez.
Hell I didnt like having to be around most of my neices and nephew's when they were little kids....nor the one's out in public at say Wal-Mart..sounding like Maria Carey stuck in a bear trap !! Oh hell naw. Noooo thank you. I came to shop not to have to listen to that nightmare in the day time,all becoz he couldnt get a Zagnut bar or a toy,fallin out in the floor scream,like like itself was ending. NOPE.
I Have rifle range head gear that I Use that Buffers all that ,both sides for the ears stuffed with cotton. I take'um with me everywhere I go, when Im out n' about. I dont play. Im here to shop NOT be tortured:-) Yikes.
The other interesting thing is that a Man who has had children ,when he hears a kid scream, be it his own or out in public, some where, His eyes will dilate.
A Man who has NEVER had kids, his eyes will NOT dilate ,at all.
Sherlock-your're an amazing fellow,Watson.Though You,yourself,not luminescent, you're an amazing conductor of Light"/"Loving You ,Heals Me"-an-NDE'er.""Blessed are those who can give without remembering and take without forgetting."-Trust is abouve ALL else!!"Money,does NOT change people,it ONLY reveals them!"