06-05-2021, 06:41 AM
(06-05-2021, 05:50 AM)Ampersnd Wrote: Should also mention that yesterday was the day where I got a LOT of looks from female colleagues (that I hadn't seen before) and friendliness. A gal that I stumbled my words around a few months ago was hanging around me, trying to "help" me with a minor errand.
I've lost the need to respond to women's statements; they seem to light up more when I do this. And it isn't intentional on my part.
I totally get that ..nothing says I am interested & really listening to you more than a happy silence.
I think men often make suggestions/comments to 'fix things' when most women just really want to voice their thoughts/frustrations...
It may be that you appear more relaxed & things are just lighter around you so others are more more drawn to your lighter calm atmosphere
