02-15-2015, 02:08 PM
(02-15-2015, 01:44 PM)LeoistheSun Wrote: Instead of that why not increase the desire to approach?
Well...isn't that like saying: "Instead of buying Alpha Male, why not increase the desire to be an Alpha Male?" You don't KNOW how to do that beforehand. At best, only vague concepts. You don't even know what to do, it's a case of you don't know, what you don't know, as they say. Like explaining to a fish, how to ride a bicycle, it's so far out of their paradigm.
Nevermind AA, which isn't about not wanting to approach enough, it's likely deeply rooted in something like GSF and even though I want to approach every single time without issue very badly, the WANT to do it is irrelevant as it gets overruled by something else deeper. That's the point. I think to say "just want it more" deals with the conscious mind only which isn't the problem area of AA and oversimplifies it.
It doesn't always happen to me, in fact, in the last week I felt it change a bit. One week ago, I failed to approach a woman due to AA, but this week, I was calmer. I had to go help a friend with something, by the time I came back, the girl was gone. It happens. The point is I felt a bit calmer about going to talk to her so it seemed pretty likely I would've. She gave me lots of IOIs like the previous girl did, so such a mindset change in a week tells me there must be some AA programming in stage 4 after all? Too bad it's happening so late, I hope the programming continues in stages 5 and 6 for AA.
I just want it to be gone so it never bothers me again. And I feel a single stage 5G for this would help a lot of guys. The AM6 bulletpoint that reads: "Be able to effortlessly approach any woman you want – and the more attractive you find her, the easier it will be." is the one I was referring to. Maybe it's dealt with in stages 5 and 6 and I won't need the single stage 5G I don't know yet, if anyone knows please comment.