OPE 11.5g

[AbundanceCH]

My last journal was about 9 years ago! 

Excited for this journey.  The sales page really relates to me (having to stop a bunch of times then keep going).  I don't know how Shannon made it to accomplish the goals of the program. To be honest I would be happy just to last a few more minutes let alone as long as I want like the page says.

So far 2 cycles done no signs of results yet still very early.  I think i'm a great tester for this program as I do have this issue and I have a lot of seks every week.  So i'll be testing out the progress of the program every week and I am paying close attention..

Will keep you guys updated. I'll post an update on the 1st month mark unless I see something going on sooner than that.

[Shannon]

Depending on the particulars of your reasons for PE, "paying close attention" may be either a way of defeating the program's efforts, or half the problem in itself. Don't get in it's way with expectations and watching like a hawk. Just use it and let it do it's thing.

[AbundanceCH]

Depending on the particulars of your reasons for PE, "paying close attention" may be either a way of defeating the program's efforts, or half the problem in itself.  Don't get in it's way with expectations and watching like a hawk.  Just use it and let it do it's thing.

I'm trying to it's a little difficult since this is a program where you can immediately tell if it's working based on what happens during sex he he.  So there's an action that we can do to measure its success unlike most subs.  But I get your point i'm being hopeful and just doing things normally without thinking about it.

1 MONTH UPDATE

No results yet but I understand this might take time.  I know many people here get frustrated that they don't get sub results asap but we just can't expect fast results for issues we have had our whole lives.  It's going to take time to fix such issues so i'm patient.  I'm hoping by the 2nd month things improve.

[Shannon]

Depending on the particulars of your reasons for PE, "paying close attention" may be either a way of defeating the program's efforts, or half the problem in itself.  Don't get in it's way with expectations and watching like a hawk.  Just use it and let it do it's thing.

I'm trying to it's a little difficult since this is a program where you can immediately tell if it's working based on what happens during sex he he.  So there's an action that we can do to measure its success unlike most subs.  But I get your point i'm being hopeful and just doing things normally without thinking about it.

1 MONTH UPDATE

No results yet but I understand this might take time.  I know many people here get frustrated that they don't get sub results asap but we just can't expect fast results for issues we have had our whole lives.  It's going to take time to fix such issues so i'm patient.  I'm hoping by the 2nd month things improve.

Do you know specifically what the root cause is?

[AbundanceCH]

I'm trying to it's a little difficult since this is a program where you can immediately tell if it's working based on what happens during sex he he.  So there's an action that we can do to measure its success unlike most subs.  But I get your point i'm being hopeful and just doing things normally without thinking about it.

1 MONTH UPDATE

No results yet but I understand this might take time.  I know many people here get frustrated that they don't get sub results asap but we just can't expect fast results for issues we have had our whole lives.  It's going to take time to fix such issues so i'm patient.  I'm hoping by the 2nd month things improve.

Do you know specifically what the root cause is?

When I would meet someone new I would get ED during the first encounter and after that things would be fine.  In my mind when I would meet someone new during our first sexual encounter I was just trying to get it up and just finish in order to have sex no matter how quick it was. I was just rushing just hoping to finish and have sex rather than our first encounter me not being able to get hard and walk away with nothing.  So those first encounters were always very difficult and i was under a lot of pressure.  

It was very hard to get it up during that first sexual encounter with a woman. When it comes to what I think was the mental reason of it my thought is the original core of that issue could have been former religious beliefs about sex/fear of sex and STDs/performance anxiety/lack of confidence.

I think that issue from the initial first encounter kinda stayed for during the duration of my relationships to where maybe in my mind I was still suffering from that first encounter and maybe my mind and body are rushing just to finish.

Do you think OPE can help me based on what I just wrote?

[Shannon]

Do you know specifically what the root cause is?

When I would meet someone new I would get ED during the first encounter and after that things would be fine.  In my mind when I would meet someone new during our first sexual encounter I was just trying to get it up and just finish in order to have sex no matter how quick it was.  I was just rushing just hoping to finish and have sex rather than our first encounter me not being able to get hard and walk away with nothing.  So those first encounters were always very difficult and i was under a lot of pressure.  

It was very hard to get it up during that first sexual encounter with a woman.  When it comes to what I think was the mental reason of it my thought is the original core of that issue could have been former religious beliefs about sex/fear of sex and STDs/performance anxiety/lack of confidence.

I think that issue from the initial first encounter kinda stayed for during the duration of my relationships to where maybe in my mind I was still suffering from that first encounter and maybe my mind and body are rushing just to finish.

Do you think OPE can help me based on what I just wrote?

Yes, but I'd like to understand further.  Are your encounters with different women on a regular basis, so that you're only ever doing new women?  Or do you have ongoing sexual relationships that allow you sex more than once?  If so, how many encounters does it require to get past the ED?  I see something here that might be helpful for you.

[AbundanceCH]

Yes, but I'd like to understand further.  Are your encounters with different women on a regular basis, so that you're only ever doing new women?  Or do you have ongoing sexual relationships that allow you sex more than once?  If so, how many encounters does it require to get past the ED?  I see something here that might be helpful for you.

Currently i'm in a relationship and I have no issues with ED but I do wish I could last longer which is why i'm running OPE..but I remember the first time and a couple of times after the first time it was not a smooth thing to have sex with my current person.  That has been the history for a lot (not all) of my sexual encounters (whether they be relationships or women that ended up being just flings).  Maybe it's just the nervousness of that first sexual encounter and not being able to perform which led me to rush into finishing in the past which has become PE (my mind psychologically wanting to rush even though i'm with someone i been with for a long time).

That's what I think it's happening but I could be wrong.  Usually after the first couple of times I have sex with a woman there's no issues.  Maybe the nervousness/performance anxiety is gone/they learn how to turn me on etc etc.

[Shannon]

Yes, but I'd like to understand further.  Are your encounters with different women on a regular basis, so that you're only ever doing new women?  Or do you have ongoing sexual relationships that allow you sex more than once?  If so, how many encounters does it require to get past the ED?  I see something here that might be helpful for you.

Currently i'm in a relationship and I have no issues with ED but I do wish I could last longer which is why i'm running OPE..but I remember the first time and a couple of times after the first time it was not a smooth thing to have sex with my current person.  That has been the history for a lot (not all) of my sexual encounters (whether they be relationships or women that ended up being just flings).  Maybe it's just the nervousness of that first sexual encounter and not being able to perform which led me to rush into finishing in the past which has become PE (my mind psychologically wanting to rush even though i'm with someone i been with for a long time).



That's what I think it's happening but I could be wrong.  Usually after the first couple of times I have sex with a woman there's no issues.  Maybe the nervousness/performance anxiety is gone/they learn how to turn me on etc etc.

Why do you have that nervousness?  What is causing it exactly?

[AbundanceCH]

Currently i'm in a relationship and I have no issues with ED but I do wish I could last longer which is why i'm running OPE..but I remember the first time and a couple of times after the first time it was not a smooth thing to have sex with my current person.  That has been the history for a lot (not all) of my sexual encounters (whether they be relationships or women that ended up being just flings).  Maybe it's just the nervousness of that first sexual encounter and not being able to perform which led me to rush into finishing in the past which has become PE (my mind psychologically wanting to rush even though i'm with someone i been with for a long time).



That's what I think it's happening but I could be wrong.  Usually after the first couple of times I have sex with a woman there's no issues.  Maybe the nervousness/performance anxiety is gone/they learn how to turn me on etc etc.

Why do you have that nervousness?  What is causing it exactly?

Performance anxiety maybe? Maybe just a combination of all those things I already mentioned.

2 MONTH UPDATE:

I don't even know if it's part of the programming but I do feel a slight/small change in being "calmer" during sex however it has not stopped me having to stop or else i finish. I'm still having to do this multiple times in order to extend sex.  Maybe there's some mental changes going on in the background but no physical results yet.  Maybe those will come soon.

Will be in this for the long haul.  Will keep you guys updated.

[Shannon]

Why do you have that nervousness?  What is causing it exactly?

Performance anxiety maybe? Maybe just a combination of all those things I already mentioned.

2 MONTH UPDATE:

I don't even know if it's part of the programming but I do feel a slight/small change in being "calmer" during sex however it has not stopped me having to stop or else i finish.  I'm still having to do this multiple times in order to extend sex.  Maybe there's some mental changes going on in the background but no physical results yet.  Maybe those will come soon.

Will be in this for the long haul.  Will keep you guys updated.

It would be incredibly helpful for me in making things that work better for whatever your cause for ED is, if I better understood that cause or trigger.  Please spend some time exploring this and see if you can find more information about it.