05-30-2013, 09:48 AM
(09-10-2011, 04:53 PM)Hypnoticeyes Wrote: I know someone who used the approach anxiety sub and it worked for him because he doesn't gets anxiety but still he can't approach women. Myself most of the time I don't have anxiety but same again I can't approach, it just doesn't feels right. I don't maybe also feelings of if other people watching me or it's right to approach women like that so what could be the reason?
That doesn't make sense. He has no approach anxiety but can't approach?
If he has no Approach Anxiety and he is not approaching, then it must be because he does not WANT to approach, not because he can't.
Why can't he? Can't implies that he desires to but is unable to. The fact that it is even an issue to talk about for this guy must mean that he wants to meet women and if he wants to meet women and it's an issue that can't approach then he must be afraid of approaching.
Either that or he simply does not want to.
It sounds like you might want to get to the heart of what is really going on here, because to say that he has no anxiety on approaching but then to say that he can't in my mind really means that he just doesn't want to. Or it means that he's scared to. It's one or the other.
