01-20-2017, 11:39 AM
Ok I'm gonna join in the discussion here because NG isn't all bad. It's a tool and it's all about how you use it. That being said, I really disliked how these women are portrayed as authentic or "natural" in the instructions without knowing anything about them. The surface level on the video, yeah they were portraying cute feminine behavior. But it's manufactured, no different than how sex sells in the West. That's what always bugged me, you were told to meditate on these idealistic representations of these women.
That being said, I still see value in it if you can't visualize. It's like getting wrapped up in a movie and losing awareness, your mind gets convinced what it's seeing is real and you respond to it emotionally.
But ideally no guy would need NG if he has enough growth. The ultimate level of success would be someone who can cultivate that level of self love and validation without any external source. If someone engages in NG then there is still an inherent need for something outside of themselves which points towards something that can be worked on. I can see NG being used to get the ball rolling and feed that need, but after a while I feel like it's necessary to cut it off and understand where it really comes from.
That being said, I still see value in it if you can't visualize. It's like getting wrapped up in a movie and losing awareness, your mind gets convinced what it's seeing is real and you respond to it emotionally.
But ideally no guy would need NG if he has enough growth. The ultimate level of success would be someone who can cultivate that level of self love and validation without any external source. If someone engages in NG then there is still an inherent need for something outside of themselves which points towards something that can be worked on. I can see NG being used to get the ball rolling and feed that need, but after a while I feel like it's necessary to cut it off and understand where it really comes from.