07-10-2010, 07:08 PM
I think worrying too much about the questions isn't really the right way to go. I will say that 'why' questions are great becaue they're not always serious, but curious. If you're looking for a number to get a date then 'why' questions are important.
And I would never ask a girl if she was happy with her boyfriend, bit too personal for my liking. I guess I may consider saying 'ah you've found someone that makes you happy, congrats' and then see how her reaction goes.
So I texted the girl I was chatting to at the bar and just asked how she was and made a random comment that I was at the park with friends. She replied 'good on you' lol, so I'm assuming that's a shutdown. Might send her one more random text and then give up on her. I'm finding myself much more able to cut off girls who don't treat me how I deserve to be treated.
An example of the above. Met this girl a few weeks ago, messaged each other occasionally on facebook, got her number and suggested we catch up on the weekend. No response. Saw her walk into the movie theatre and texted her, we texted back and forth. Then she saw me and waved at me across the room so i went over and said a quick hello and she said if I was at the bar on friday she might see me there.
I actually saw her and she looked at me but didn't say anything plus earlier I texted her and asked what time she was getting there. So I sent her a text which basically said so didn't hear back from you, figure you're telling me something'.
I had enough of the weird treatment I'm getting from one of the girls I know so I texted her and said we should talk next time we bump into each other and she said I could call her to talk but I'd rather do it in person. Pretty sure she knows what I want to talk about.
I have a question for you guys. Do you think this is me coming up with an excuse? There were two girls playing pool, one was really cute. But I didn't go over because A) I don't like competing for a girls attention, whether that be other guys (part of this is that I feel I'm already enough I don't need to show off to other guys) and their attention would be split between me and the game. So that way we would talk then I would stand around waiting until she took her shot and so on and so forth.
Also looking at taking up kungfu, not so much for the fighting side of things but the development of internal power because that's what everything is. Alpha, confidence, success, magnetism - it's all internal power. Plus I watched karate kid and was impressed with the concept of developing focus. Started doing a meditation that involves counting each breath. I started at 50 but the difference is you have to stay focused on your breathing. Because if you forget what number you were up to you have to start from the beginning.
Also doing a lot of research into meditation, exercises that involve aura, charisma, magnetism etc.
And today is day 30 of stage 1 of WM. Reached my goal of 300 listens which equates to around 375 hours
Tomorrow begins stage 2 with a goal of at least 200 listens for the simple reason that the job I'm in I can't really put headphones in much as I'm constantly disturbed.
And I would never ask a girl if she was happy with her boyfriend, bit too personal for my liking. I guess I may consider saying 'ah you've found someone that makes you happy, congrats' and then see how her reaction goes.
So I texted the girl I was chatting to at the bar and just asked how she was and made a random comment that I was at the park with friends. She replied 'good on you' lol, so I'm assuming that's a shutdown. Might send her one more random text and then give up on her. I'm finding myself much more able to cut off girls who don't treat me how I deserve to be treated.
An example of the above. Met this girl a few weeks ago, messaged each other occasionally on facebook, got her number and suggested we catch up on the weekend. No response. Saw her walk into the movie theatre and texted her, we texted back and forth. Then she saw me and waved at me across the room so i went over and said a quick hello and she said if I was at the bar on friday she might see me there.
I actually saw her and she looked at me but didn't say anything plus earlier I texted her and asked what time she was getting there. So I sent her a text which basically said so didn't hear back from you, figure you're telling me something'.
I had enough of the weird treatment I'm getting from one of the girls I know so I texted her and said we should talk next time we bump into each other and she said I could call her to talk but I'd rather do it in person. Pretty sure she knows what I want to talk about.
I have a question for you guys. Do you think this is me coming up with an excuse? There were two girls playing pool, one was really cute. But I didn't go over because A) I don't like competing for a girls attention, whether that be other guys (part of this is that I feel I'm already enough I don't need to show off to other guys) and their attention would be split between me and the game. So that way we would talk then I would stand around waiting until she took her shot and so on and so forth.
Also looking at taking up kungfu, not so much for the fighting side of things but the development of internal power because that's what everything is. Alpha, confidence, success, magnetism - it's all internal power. Plus I watched karate kid and was impressed with the concept of developing focus. Started doing a meditation that involves counting each breath. I started at 50 but the difference is you have to stay focused on your breathing. Because if you forget what number you were up to you have to start from the beginning.
Also doing a lot of research into meditation, exercises that involve aura, charisma, magnetism etc.
And today is day 30 of stage 1 of WM. Reached my goal of 300 listens which equates to around 375 hours
Tomorrow begins stage 2 with a goal of at least 200 listens for the simple reason that the job I'm in I can't really put headphones in much as I'm constantly disturbed.
