06-30-2010, 10:56 AM
Maggz, I suggest you let her know you like her. I have lost a lot of opportunities with women I liked in the past simply because they didn't realize I was interested.
Also, when it comes to boyfriends... that's a double edged sword. You can try to give him the respect and consideration you would want, but that won't get you the girl. I have never yet seen it reciprocated, either. When I date exceptionally attractive women, I always have hordes thronging around my girl, even if they know she's taken.
The key there is the woman. If she wants you specifically, she'll say so with her actions. Therefore, not going after a woman, even if she is taken, seems unwise. Of course, you need to respect her decision when she tells you she is not interested; but not even putting your hat in the ring is just going to get you more of the same.
It almost makes you feel bad for these women who have a thousand "boyfriend applications" a day, until you realize that men have to act like this because that's what women force us to do!
Also, when it comes to boyfriends... that's a double edged sword. You can try to give him the respect and consideration you would want, but that won't get you the girl. I have never yet seen it reciprocated, either. When I date exceptionally attractive women, I always have hordes thronging around my girl, even if they know she's taken.
The key there is the woman. If she wants you specifically, she'll say so with her actions. Therefore, not going after a woman, even if she is taken, seems unwise. Of course, you need to respect her decision when she tells you she is not interested; but not even putting your hat in the ring is just going to get you more of the same.
It almost makes you feel bad for these women who have a thousand "boyfriend applications" a day, until you realize that men have to act like this because that's what women force us to do!
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
