04-23-2022, 07:18 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-23-2022, 07:22 PM by Johannesbrst.)
I had a both infuriating and insightful experience tonight.
I was at a club and making out with a girl. It was really nice. Suddenly she disappears. No worries, I'm cool. I run into her at the bar a while later. We make out again in front of what I will come to learn is her gay friend.
I get the thougt that I want to become friends with him, for some reason. He totally dissed me when I try to talk to me and becomes a major cock block and the girl start to ignore me. Some really weird dynamic going on there.
Super frustrated moment. I wanted to punch the guy in the face but that wouldn't help my case any bit. Instead I face my losses and found a lesson inside of this:
Don't give power to people who don't have it.
That's my motto from now on. Never try to please someone. Period. If I would have just stuck to the girl and let her friend come to me, or not, the outcome would most likely haven been very different. But I gave away my power by letting her friend control her interpretation of me. Big mistake.
I was at a club and making out with a girl. It was really nice. Suddenly she disappears. No worries, I'm cool. I run into her at the bar a while later. We make out again in front of what I will come to learn is her gay friend.
I get the thougt that I want to become friends with him, for some reason. He totally dissed me when I try to talk to me and becomes a major cock block and the girl start to ignore me. Some really weird dynamic going on there.
Super frustrated moment. I wanted to punch the guy in the face but that wouldn't help my case any bit. Instead I face my losses and found a lesson inside of this:
Don't give power to people who don't have it.
That's my motto from now on. Never try to please someone. Period. If I would have just stuck to the girl and let her friend come to me, or not, the outcome would most likely haven been very different. But I gave away my power by letting her friend control her interpretation of me. Big mistake.
